look there's this guy that drives me crazy i miss him a lot because i' m in christmas vacations and i miss him i want to hug him and kis him. every second i can't stop thinking of the happy times with him. we are friends but he asked me out and i told him i 'm going to have my answer when we come back from vacations. i want to say yes! but i'm not realy sure if i'm really in love. what do you guys think but not to be bussy but please good answers coming from the heart thanxs!
2007-01-04 16:25:25 · 14 answers · asked by Any 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you feel this way about him before he asked you out? If so, then there is definitely something. Why do you have to know if it's love right now? If he makes you feel this way it's sure worth looking into. But if you did not get excited to see him like this before he asked you out, then it's probably just excitement of someone wanting you. There is always a lure to being wanted, even if you aren't really interested. Try to assess your current feelings. When did they start? What about him makes you feel this way? If you find they are genuine and from your heart, then say yes to the date and get things started. Good Luck!
2007-01-04 16:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by sammiejane67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey this sound like it has a lot of potential. Take it really slow and easy! Sounds like the beginning of a wonderful romance or at least a really good time.
U got a good foundation if you were friends. The best and most beautiful gifts in life are unhurried! Time will tell. Don't rush it or you could ruin it! slow down, breathe in and breathe out~ Read boundaries in dating before you see him by John Mcloud! PLEASE
I wished this book had been around when i was a teenager. But thank God i read it later! It's all good! your very wise for one so young. The bestest answers are always from the heart
2007-01-05 00:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has just asked you out, you don't have to know whether or not you're in love with him. This is the part where the two of you will get to know each other better, become close, then you'll know whether or not there's anything there. My best advice: DO NOT rush things. Take them one day at a time, and enjoy every minute. If it's meant to be, it WILL happen. Good luck.
2007-01-05 00:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by ryleigh4265 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say yes, you wouldn't want to miss out on something special you two could have.
Even though you may not be in love right now doesn't mean you can't date the guy, get to know each other more then who knows what could grow from that. If you cant get someone off your mind then they are obviously supposed to be there! Go for it..
2007-01-05 00:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by laci413 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS ONLY ONE WAY TO FIND OUT , GO OUT WITH HIM WHEN U GET BACK AND REALLY PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT HE REALLY WANTS FROM U AND TRY TO SEE IF THAT SAME FEELING STICKS IN THE AIR OR IF THE FRIENDSHIP WOULD BE BETTER OFF STAYING THE WAY IT IS REMEMBER TRUTHFULNESS IS THE BEST WAY IT ,IT CUTS RIGHT DOWN TO IT JUST ASK HOW HE FEELS , BUT DO NOT PUT HIM ON THE SPOT MEN HATE THAT . YOU WILL KNOW.
2007-01-05 00:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by todd L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, YES you should go out with him since you get excited just thinking about him! and for the love question, you dont have to be in love with someone before you go on a date with them, or start dating them. that's the whole point... to find out if you like them well enough to stay with them. but you sound really happy!!
2007-01-05 00:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by one sexy biatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight your 12 years old & your a premed student !
So is the guy your age or is he older like in his 20 ?
Regarless of how book smart you are your not mature enough to date unless it is another 12 year old.
2007-01-05 00:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by LCee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think its love, dont you think you should give him a chance and find out for sure? i would rush things and just come right out and say "i love you", but give things time to play out and see what happens. it could be lust or it could actually be love. you just dont want to scare him off by being to serious to fast. take the and let things happen as they happen.
2007-01-05 00:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu dont have to be in love to go out with some one. Dating is ment to get to know people and try them out to see if you fall in love. Good luck. And when you are in love you will know. Trust me.
2007-01-05 00:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u're in love. why would u keep thinking about wanting to hug and kiss him if u do not love him? why would u keep thinking of him if u don't love him?
why would u play hard to get if u do not want his attention..just go for it girl! no harm is involved!
2007-01-05 00:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋