this girl is very popular. she is not in any one of my classes but she is in my hall. she is one of the most popular girl in my grade. she is a prep. i am very unpopulare. i don't got that many friends. another problem is i don't know what to say out of nowhere to here to start flerting. any ideas. i am afraid to try to flert and her going like uh, why is he talking to me all the sudden randomly out of nowhere. or she may say matt go away." i don't know her. i have never talked to her in my life. she is always busy talking to her preppy sporty guy friends and preppy girl friends of hers. what do i do.
2007-01-04 16:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll never know if you don't ask. Trust me. I'm 11, and going into the same grade next year; girls are too shy to ask the guy out 99.9% of the time. Just come up to her, and say hello like you want to make friends. If she actually is all snobby and rude, which I doubt, then hey, now you know, and you won't like her anymore. Just try to be respectful. You'd be surprised how some girls would react if your a little more friendly and interested.
2007-01-04 16:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by arizonavelcro1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bump into her and introduce yourself. Then gradually start talking to her in the halls. For liek the first week just say "hi" or "wassup." Then as things progress try to start some convorsations. Pop in a question like how was your weekend. Girl like knowing that you care about them and actually listen. Then as she gets to know you more, you guys can become friends. The best is for her to get a glimpse of who really are. Dont try to rush things. Just take it step by step
2007-01-05 00:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by NFL PIMP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Matt, this sort of attraction is very common in school,and specially in your age.Learn from this attitude as this will help you when you grow up. Dont worry, you will get better friends than her. for the moment concentrate on your studies,and excel in whatever you do. .....ALL THE BEST AND HAVE A BRIGHT FUTURE..
2007-01-05 00:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so ******* immature. Who says how old they are and includes the half year? My five year old cousin says hes "5 and a half". 12 year olds dont.
Be more mature. Be more popular. Learn how to talk to girls.
2007-01-05 00:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first that so cute. well first try to win her over by being her friend in the hall smile at here when she douse eye contact and from there move to saying hi then to small talk. and when you two become being friends tell her how you feel.
2007-01-05 00:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by warlord_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, is hard, i think if you reeeeeallly like her, you should try to talk to her, just know her, dont try to flirt. and see what happen. maybe you should ask her. you know where is the library or diner room. whatever?, and she will answer you, and you say. hi, im matt, nice to meet you. and then you start talking to her, you can say that she is very pretty, or, nice dress, or nice earrings. thats the first move. and then you will see what happen!!!
good luck
2007-01-05 00:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by shu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be with someone you've never even talk to? Why would you want to go out with someone who is rude and mean enough to say "Go away."? I honestly think you shouldn't try to hard for this one.
2007-01-05 00:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love business. What you are in is physical ifatuation. The best solution for this, just mustribute once on her thoughts, and get with our own business.
2007-01-05 01:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by chappani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suggest u just concentrate on ur studies while she concentrates on whatever she is doing........
for she seems to be having too many people to concentrate on her... am sure they dont need ur help..
So in other words just mind ur business and complete ur studies
2007-01-07 10:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by smile2u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you should do is concentrate on your schoolwork instead of some dubm fluzy because i can see you have horrible spelling and grammar.
second thing is maybe you should go to her dad and tell him that you love his daughter and see what he does
2007-01-05 00:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋