Anytime I say my stomach hurts for any reason my boyfriend says are you pregnant. As if he's nervous. Then one day it pissed me off so I was like if your so worried about me getting pregnant why are you still having unprotected sex with me. Then I said if i am pregnant I'll just have an abortion. Which I really wouldnt do I just said it out of anger. It made him mad and he said no you wouldnt I'd take care of it. Now, his mom keeps telling me how she wants a knew grand kid to hold and love. They are freaking me out. What is the deal do they want me to have his baby?
2007-01-04 16:38:58 · 16 answers · asked by mystical 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EW, FREAKY!! get out of that relationship, and fast!
2007-01-04 16:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by one sexy biatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last sentance makes me think you are pregnant. Are you? As for unprotected sex, these days that is very unsafe unless you have dated for a long period of time and are sure you are both only with each other. I have no idea how old you are but your comments make me feel you are too young to be thinking about having a baby...particularly since you are not married...who would this baby be for...you and your husband (boyfriend I know) or for his mother. You should be freaked out and I think you need to sit down and talk with them. By the way, abortion is not birth control.
2007-01-05 00:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously yes!
He isn't worried about you getting pregnant, he is worried about you NOT getting pregnant!! It's rather strange (to say the least) that you have unprotected sex, without knowing if your boyfriend wants children or not. You, of course, should use protection if you don't want a child!!!!! So, abortion in this case would be rather unethical.
And, even some Christians would say you shouldn't have intercourse at all, if you don't want children (because most protections will fail sooner or later, yes condoms too! Wikipedia: "The actual pregnancy rates among condoms users vary depending on the population being studied, with rates of 10-18% per year being reported").
BTW: i know you want to get pregnant, i can see it because you did this question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ajj.V4CExGO1z_kC6JD6Rqnsy6IX?qid=20061214112233AAhkpOm
So why would you lie to your boyfriend that you would do a abortion if pregnant??? If you two can't be truthful about the most important part of a relationship (having children), obviously you two shouldn't stay together.
2007-01-05 00:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by · 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the real issue is why are YOU having unprotected sex with HIM? Take responsibility for your body and health, and have a baby when and if YOU are ready. It sounds as if he does want children someday, and would stand by you if you did become pregnant, but unless a baby is what you both want at the same time and are ready to commit to it, protect your eggs from being fertilized before the nest is prepared. I think you should apologize to him for the abortion comment, then sit down and talk about what you want from your relationship, both long and short-term. Good Luck!
2007-01-05 00:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by shinyglass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that his mom does want another grandbaby and I think that he does want you to become pregnant but I also think that he is scared at the same time, You gotta think of everythng before you go through with the whole pregnancy deal... if you want to get pregnant. Of course he would take care of the child but are you ready to sit up all hours of the night with a child when you havent even started to prepare for the rest of your own life...like college and a career... so I think that you guys should talk and leave the grandma out of it... Tell him how you feel about the situation... is it freakin you out or is it something that you want to???
2007-01-05 00:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how males show their "Baby Fever" My hubby does it when he is thinking of having another, he always accuses me of being pregnant. Its a dead give away. I will make a small complaint about my stomache of feeling nauseated or something and he will say, "Your probably pregnant" or something like that. Yet hes the one who didnt want me on birth control, go figure. Guys get it too I guess but most wont come out and say it so they behave like that instead to gage your reaction to see if you feel the same.
2007-01-05 00:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first ask him. Then decide from that if you want to stay with him. Plus if YOU don't want to get pregnant, take birth control. There's really no reason to have totally unprotected sex.
2007-01-05 00:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...why are you having unprotected sex?
My advice would be to flat out just ask him what's going on. If he's not hiding anything, he'll be honest, and if he isn't, then it'll probably become clear to you that he's lying.
2007-01-05 00:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Total Eclipse Of The Sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
why are you not running away yet?
what is the matter with you? why is he having unprotected sex with you? you know you have a say so in this too
2007-01-05 00:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you, get married, and then have a baby. It sounds like he and his mom love you and want you to be a part of their family, be happy.
2007-01-05 00:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋