Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

A little while ago me and this girl got pretty close. We talked all the time and we started to become good friends. Than she turned to the worst. She started sleeping around with her ex boyfriends. Than she almost tried to go back out with her ex boyfriend which is now my friend. She dated this guy 3 years ago so it isnt that big of deal i thought. So then she moves back to him. And I had a best friend that introduced me to this girl in the first place. This girl hurt me by sleeping around, never telling me her intensions. Than she denies ever doing anything wrong. So she started getting close and then she began to make a move on the guy. Only problem was I knew everything she was doing wrong. THis guy is my friend and I told him everything that happened. Instantly, this girl harrassed me and called me a liar even with proof that she was lieing. Than one of my best friends took her side over mine and lied to the guy. What is up with this damn situation what should I do?

2007-01-04 17:11:03 · 9 answers · asked by canuck131986 2 in Singles & Dating

We were in love,he left for training for 2months,his mom & brother lied said I was unfaithfull to him ( a lie) when he came home to visit before going to Iraq we split up over it. I still love him him but cant get over him or forgive him for believing them.......we were bestfriends also,he wasnt close to his family.I did alot for him going away showing how much I was proud and also sad,and same thing when he came home for visit befor going to Iraq.He knows now it was all lies by his family.We are so distance,he stopped calling and hardly emailed......you cant make up like that..........but he says he loves me?

2007-01-04 17:09:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bestfriend start ignoring me...what should i do?? i already tell her about this but by email...but what will happen?? will she mad??

2007-01-04 17:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by n_n 1 in Friends

Or does it depend from male to male?

2007-01-04 17:07:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:07:20 · 21 answers · asked by AnGeLiCa d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or will she crack
i feel a woman can. i just feel she will crack
won't be able to handle it for 4 years

woman please forgive just a question
i love woman and you mean alot to me thanks

2007-01-04 17:06:31 · 12 answers · asked by d1goodman4u 2 in Singles & Dating

It was a long story and I don’t even know where to start. So, let see… uhmm okay, I knew this girl about a year ago. We weren’t friends until I worked in the same building where she works just recently. I secretly admired her for that long time. We weren’t close but yeah we did talk a little sometimes and I know she treated like an ordinary friend. (or I should say almost friends). I asked her out on a date couples of times but she rejected.

The main issue is now she’s mad at me because, this how it started, I joined yahoo answer and started asking questions about her and Lord! I bumped into one of her question and I was like “No way! It was her!”. Then I started to answer her questions. From there, I got to know her even more.. she asked about her relationship with her boyfriend and about her life. She’s amazing!
The problem is she had no idea if I was “break-dancer”.
Well, now she knew. She’s mad at me and she’s now treating like invisible.

2007-01-04 17:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Breakdancer 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i just started posting questions and here is another one. i used to love this guy and well i told him i didnt like him when he asked and well the nxt day he went out with the evilest cheerleader evr!!!!! does anyone have any advice 4 me 2 get him back???

2007-01-04 17:05:32 · 10 answers · asked by bethanydoodle 2 in Singles & Dating

im worried about my sis...she works out soo much like no joke!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!she only eats like salad,soup, & she like never eats anything like cake or icecream.she is not 2 the piont where shes anerexic but she wheres a size 0 & shes 19!!she soesnt look digusting like most skinny girls but im still worried about her.shes been like this 4 a long time now!shes improved a bit since about 5 months ago but she still seems 2 be living an unhealthy life style.ive told her b4 that she needs 2 gain some weight but she just ignores me.my parents have told her this 2 & have been tryin hard 2 get her 2 be healthy.idk why she doesnt have any confidence i mean shes gorgeous & funny, & alot of guyz like her but she still seems 2 have no self esteem.i tell her all the time she beautiful but she just doesnt believe it!!i want her 2 feel beautiful but i cant seem 2 make her feel good about her self....help me pleasssssse!

2007-01-04 17:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by ♥!jamie!♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my best friend broke me and my girlfriend then called me and asked if they could have "whoopy" one night but it's gbeen 2 years and My resentment of him is becoming very big again, he is not a true friend at all, should I find a new one?

2007-01-04 17:03:55 · 4 answers · asked by Khaos 2 in Friends

My boyfriend and I never fight. We were like bestest friends for a year before we started going out and we got together a little over 2 months ago. But even before, when we were just friends, we always get along. and if we sense we're getting on eachother's nerves, we say it, and we apologize for doing/saying something dumb but it never turns into a fight. we get alone pretty well and we talk to eachother everyday. I like it this way, I would never try to pick a fight on him but, is it normal???

2007-01-04 17:03:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:03:35 · 11 answers · asked by Deepika 2 in Friends

I know 2 guys who do not know whether or not they want to marry their current girlfriend after greater than or equal to 3 years of dating. *
When asked if he would marry his gf, Guy 1 said, "I hope so".
Guy 2 said "I'm on the cusp for a decision".

*Both guys were asked seperately at different occasions and do not know each other. Guy 1 has been living with his girlfriend for 1+ years. Guy 2 has been living with girlfriend for 4+ months.

What does this say about the man and how he feels about the relationship he is in? How would you interpret this? Could it mean he's really not sure she is the one? Or could he still be looking for other options?

2007-01-04 17:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

because she thought she was fat, what would you do?

2007-01-04 17:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hes a guy, Im 18, we dated and broke and I wonder since we are best friends and all, but Im wondering if its still okay that I spend the night at his place. I like sleeping next to someone at night, we arent having sex, and his bed is really comfy but sometimes it just doesnt seem like what a person would do with an ex. Is it okay to spend the night at a best friend's house whose a guy?

2007-01-04 17:01:56 · 13 answers · asked by J 2 in Singles & Dating

is it if they disagree or if they know it?
there's a buttt load of questions, what makes u answer the ones u do?

2007-01-04 17:01:54 · 18 answers · asked by thank you come again 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:01:51 · 20 answers · asked by gh86 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:01:38 · 11 answers · asked by gigahits 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so there are these two girls, I am going to call them Kelsey and Sarah. Kelsey is really beautiful, but can be really self-concious. Sarah doesn't really care about her appearance, but is still very pretty. Sarah is more humorous, but Kelsey is more sporty. Lets say Kelsey just recently broke up with you, but you were in love with her. You have more in common with Sarah, and like her, and you just found out she likes you, but don't know her as well... Now Kelsey wants to get back together with you! I don't know which to choose... Can you help me decide. Please?

2007-01-04 16:59:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 16:59:07 · 5 answers · asked by Deepika 2 in Friends

2007-01-04 16:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by shil 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 16:58:18 · 11 answers · asked by mia v. 2 in Family

Has anyone used a really good site that is free, or mostly free, to help them locate missing relatives? I have a half brother and all I know about him is his approximate age and his first name, and obviously his father's name. I've tried reunion.com with no avail. Any website suggestion is greatly appreciated. Thanks!

2007-01-04 16:57:07 · 5 answers · asked by Heidi 4 in Family

I once had a sweetheart and we have parted for more than ten years, but somehow I can't forget her as she was my true-first love. Now she lives accross the ocean and all contact we have are just sending e-mails. Just like me, she is still single, and she is one year younger than me.
In the meantime I know a new girl, for which I really can't help fall in love with her, and it seems to me she is my world now and she seems to love me too. The problem is, she is 8 years older than me. In my culture, it is a bit rare if in a couple the guy is 8 years younger than the girl. But my love for her is deep and I don't want to play games, this love is for real, to me. I feel like I can't live without her. Just one day I'm not with her, I already miss her so much.
Now my parents urge me to get married soon, I'm confuse, which one should I choose?

2007-01-04 16:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At school lunch, I was sitting with friends when this random tall

black dude shoves up next to me and I felt awkward so I stood up

and sat across from him. He looked over at me and tiuched my

leg being i was wearing shorts. I said stop and he didn't. I said if u

do it one more time im going to tell the principal. He hovered his

hand over my leg and I got up and walked over to the principal and

told him. He yelled at the kid and I walked away to another table.

He got up later and pretended to talk to another person but the

only reason he did so was to bother me. I told the principal again,

and he yelled again. The dude also told me he would find me after

winter break. I ran to the bathroom and all my friends found out.

Now the security talked to me and said to let him know if anything
else happens. I am still scared bcuz wut if the boy grabs me or comes up to me when the security is not around and if i have no friends around me. HELP!!!

2007-01-04 16:56:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what kind of guidance can I give him or assistance to cope with this situation?

2007-01-04 16:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by kathy f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this really pretty girl i like and whenever i go to her house she locks arms with me and puts he head on my shoulder, and when we were watching tv she hugs me and puts her hand up my shirt but at school she sits at the same table as i and my friends but she acts like she doesnt notice me she rarely talks to me at school, i know its pretty obvious that she most likely likes me i dont wanna be her boyfriend if she doesnt want to talk to me only at her house, what should i do

2007-01-04 16:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by ropeisorange 1 in Singles & Dating

So my best friend and I are planning on moving out in a few months, were so close we do everything together and are always together but never really get sick of eachother. I know people say its bad to move in with your best friend but I really dont think me and her will have a problem we've known eachother forever. What do you think??

2007-01-04 16:54:42 · 6 answers · asked by laci413 1 in Friends

and what do those crushes depend on?

2007-01-04 16:54:17 · 8 answers · asked by chicaSM 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been engaged for 6 months, the ring I gave to my fiancee is a family heirloom, it belonged to my great grandmother. It's a nice sized diamond and it has a flower like design aroung the diamond. My Fiancee likes the ring and appreciates it's history, but doesn't feel like it's something she would wear and wants to change it. I'm very torn. Another issue I have is that money is tight, so me buying another ring is out of the question. She has the money to buy the new ring, but that seems wrong to me. I could afford to have it re-set but that also feels wrong. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

2007-01-04 16:54:06 · 17 answers · asked by derryn_m 1 in Weddings