A little while ago me and this girl got pretty close. We talked all the time and we started to become good friends. Than she turned to the worst. She started sleeping around with her ex boyfriends. Than she almost tried to go back out with her ex boyfriend which is now my friend. She dated this guy 3 years ago so it isnt that big of deal i thought. So then she moves back to him. And I had a best friend that introduced me to this girl in the first place. This girl hurt me by sleeping around, never telling me her intensions. Than she denies ever doing anything wrong. So she started getting close and then she began to make a move on the guy. Only problem was I knew everything she was doing wrong. THis guy is my friend and I told him everything that happened. Instantly, this girl harrassed me and called me a liar even with proof that she was lieing. Than one of my best friends took her side over mine and lied to the guy. What is up with this damn situation what should I do?
2007-01-04 17:11:03 · 9 answers · asked by canuck131986 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would suggest finding new friends and a new g/f. Who needs such as that in their life?
2007-01-04 17:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life, some will come in sheep clothing pretending to be your friend. And when you think it's okay to pet them, they leap out like a lion and bite you.
Now that you have been bitten by your friend and played by this girl. Cut your losses now and move on. Take the trash out to the curb and leave it there for the trashman to pick up.
Oh what drama you have, but you really don't have to claim it. So again, walk away and let it go, you know what took place and she knows what took place, waste no more energy on this matter.
Friends like that... who needs enemies?
2007-01-05 01:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being to straightforward with your friends and lovers. Don't tell them what you are feeling or doing with mutual friends. Keep that information to yourself, but I understand how hard it can be for some people because it is hard for me to keep my mouth shut.
The problem with me is that I learn by interacting with people, so if I really want to know why people act the way they do, so there is only one way without being directly involved. Watch, listen, compare and keep your mouth shut!
In others words, I learn by doing, seeing, listening and generally experiencing. I don't learn out of books very will. Not that I can't, I just don't.
Once you have figured that out, you can avoid injecting yourself into every situation and just compare your reaction to things against the others reactions to things. In other words, enjoy being the second hand learner.
2007-01-05 01:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give you this advice from experience.
Dump and run.
Hang out in a different circle. Tell yourself she had the chance to make a connection, and didn't take it. Tell yourself that you had the chance to make a connection, you were willing to take the chance, and will be willing to take the chance next time too.
This is not your tangled mess.
2007-01-05 01:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by gobbolino_the_witches_cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know it is always the messenger that gets shot? Stay out of it. You will end up losing your friend if you insist on telling him things for his own good. Just stay clear of her yourself and let them find out for themselves.Been there, done that and lost.
2007-01-05 01:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your friend. Drop him. Don't have anything to do with her either She is bad news and she is a liar. Maybe your friend is trying to get with her also. You don't need friends like him.
2007-01-05 01:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to let it go she is the past and he is the past so it is time to move one and earn and learn new friends.
2007-01-05 01:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by raw&truthful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. You deserve to be with someone who truely wants to be with you.
2007-01-05 01:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just used you to get her ex back.
2007-01-05 02:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋