I once had a sweetheart and we have parted for more than ten years, but somehow I can't forget her as she was my true-first love. Now she lives accross the ocean and all contact we have are just sending e-mails. Just like me, she is still single, and she is one year younger than me.
In the meantime I know a new girl, for which I really can't help fall in love with her, and it seems to me she is my world now and she seems to love me too. The problem is, she is 8 years older than me. In my culture, it is a bit rare if in a couple the guy is 8 years younger than the girl. But my love for her is deep and I don't want to play games, this love is for real, to me. I feel like I can't live without her. Just one day I'm not with her, I already miss her so much.
Now my parents urge me to get married soon, I'm confuse, which one should I choose?
2007-01-04 16:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will always remember your first true love. But go with your heart and what you can touch and feel. One is here with you now. And that one you describe a love unlike the other.
2007-01-04 17:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by sammiejane67 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you truly love the girl you are seeing now age doesn't really matter. Love know no bounds. Race, religion, age, ect... doesn't matter when you truly care for someone. As far as the girl that lives across the ocean it seems to me to be damn near impossible for you to be together, one would have to make the sacrifice of moving to be with the other. If you are willing to do that or she is then if she is your true love then I would say her. This decision though is truly up to you. Who do you think will make you happier and are you willing to make sacrifices for her and she you? Hope that helps. Good luck.
2007-01-04 17:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two are fighting, the third will win- as the saying says. Maybe the right girl is still to come....
2007-01-04 17:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should choose the one that is older than you. If you really love her and she makes you happy you should be with her.
2007-01-04 17:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by rene2991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
2007-01-04 16:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself which one of these girls you would miss if you never saw or heard from them again.
2007-01-04 17:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one do you feel the strongest for? That's what you have to ask yourself. No one can answer it for you...only you will know what you feel.
2007-01-04 17:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur real heart which girl are really really love n forever good .
2007-01-04 18:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are 50 your wife will be 58...
2007-01-04 17:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by msweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juz ask yourself who do you love most
2007-01-04 17:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by Serenity C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋