Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

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2007-01-04 17:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

one of my friend did that but is it normal, i mean ,you know ,fine to do that.

2007-01-04 17:45:25 · 12 answers · asked by d.mi3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by theascheick 1 in Singles & Dating

The man I love and I are married to other people. We have not physically been together and have always said we would never leave our spouses. Now he has changed his mind and wants me to leave my husband and he his wife so we can be together. We've both been married a long time. My husband cheated on me several times a while back and has never said he's sorry but, he's not cheating now and is good to me. But, I don't love him. I love this other man but, we both have families, not small children. I am torn. Should I stay with my husband whom I don't love or should I take a chance at happiness with the man I love? I know both our families will turn against us. Why must we always live our lives for others? Please help me.

2007-01-04 17:44:16 · 19 answers · asked by crazywoman88 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everyone, I have dating my b/f 4 months now and we r living together. we started living together the second month we dated.
Ok, he is 30yrs and I'm 31yrs old, and I have never been marriage but he married twice (both short married) and have one child. he divorced about 2yrs ago. When we start dating, he was exciting and talked about "when we get married,.." , so I was kinda rushed him alot cuz i wanted to settle down. and Now he never talked about it anymore. Now he says he's not ready and he want us to take our times and will see. I'm agree with him and it's true that we have living together not that long anyways and need to get to know each other more. But I'm still little afraid about what if he will never consider to marry me later, or not open his heart to me 100%, and get tired of me easy cuz we r living together? And also I need your answers that how to open his heart more and more and accept me as his future wife?How can i do to let him get ready for me?

2007-01-04 17:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:43:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My 12 year olf friend is having her period. She thinks. I haven't talked to my best friend in weeks. My other friend is devicteated and my mom hates my guts! My dad hates me to. My brothers think i'm just retarted. my sis is so mean.

2007-01-04 17:43:01 · 13 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am wanting to find out peoples opinons on this. Do you believe that if the wedding is over, so is the name as the name represents the two of you becoming one?

2007-01-04 17:43:00 · 21 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23, an African American, whos sexy but is also intellectual.

2007-01-04 17:41:38 · 8 answers · asked by ejfefe 2 in Singles & Dating

Been married 28 years and he is doing wierd stuff and denying it. We have a conversation, he doesn't remember. He is "asleep", rolling me about out of bed, but then suddenly awake when someone mentioned food in the other room. He moves papers and stuff when I ask him not to. He tries to impress other people to the point of embarrassment. What is going on?

2007-01-04 17:39:31 · 21 answers · asked by Chloe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What does the phrase mean "My eyes are on heavenly things"?

2007-01-04 17:38:03 · 10 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:37:41 · 17 answers · asked by a17a 2 in Friends

I'm still not over this. Its been so long. I haven't done anything and suddenly my friend does not want to speak to me anymore. We graduated from school and live in different states. I thought that I would be able to keep in contact but its always been a one way street and never got return calls. I stopped calling but lately I find myself depressed, unable to eat well or sleep well and contemplate what it is that would cause my friend to completely ignore me. Keep asking myself questions and in great despair. But the last time I called I was told not to and told that I was never a friend to this person which I know is untrue. I kept asking what I did and was not given an answer. What should I do? Its not easy to put this behind me. But it tops my resolution for 2007. Any sensitive and serious advice is appreciated.

2007-01-04 17:37:41 · 18 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Friends

.....and how can one be more open?
people always say to open up........for me, this is just a generalization. what does it actually MEAN? and don't say that it means to be outgoing....i need something more here.

2007-01-04 17:36:48 · 15 answers · asked by bree 3 in Friends

My fiancee is jealous and insecure about the women friends that i talk to. i have a lot of female friends. I talk to them. don't want to sleep with them. I don't go out unless i am with her. i go to work, church then back home. i don't have time to hang out because i am in fear of being accused of cheating. so all the women i talk to i let them know first and foremost i have a woman and i am in love with her so if you try to get in the way of that, i can no longer be your friend. I am no no weak man. by all means, i am a strong, edcuated, college degreed black man with a career and benefits(lol). what should i do?

2007-01-04 17:36:20 · 17 answers · asked by depblkman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Relationship lasted five years, We were married and thank God annuled because we didnt send in our papers to get the license. I am contemplating moving out of state what do you people think?

2007-01-04 17:34:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am asking this b/c I am trying to sort out true feeling that I have for my ex. Sometimes I feel like I want to be with him, then I don't, what makes me want to be with him is that he is really good with my son, he is a very nice person and will do anything for me, he has a really good job so he has stability but on the other hand he is very insecure and very sensitive I cannot give him a honest answer w/o him getting bent out of shape about it, I sometimes wonder what his insecurities with me will lead to, maybe posessiveness or something, I care about him and I told wanted to be with but am I just settling? I dont want to look back and regret it any choice that I make. I feel like I will never meet someone with the things he has to offer. This is the first man that I have dated that has had their **** together so my feelings are all over the place. Im almost thirty and winding up alone scares the hell out of me!

2007-01-04 17:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't like to fight, but he is sort of rubbing it in, and I found out he is kind of laughing it off behind my back. Should I be the better man and say hey, "you weren't a real friend anyway" or should I bodyslam him next time I see him ??

2007-01-04 17:33:21 · 36 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Friends

During Christmas, my girlfriend of almost 3 years, upsettingly told me that she feels that her feelings are different when we are away at school. She explained that when we are back together for a long school break, she has the feelings again, but she feels that lately the long distance has made her feel different than she normally does. Though she knew it would upset me and actually didn't want to say it, she felt that we should take a break, so she can figure out what she wants. She tells me she loves me very much and would want to talk to me every day like we always do, but we would not see each other. I don't want to lose her, but will this break possibly end our relationship?

2007-01-04 17:33:12 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 17:33:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend hates one of my bestfriends, and i dont know what to do! should i break up with him or let them work it out? the only problem is, she's tried. but he's to stubborn! HELP!!

2007-01-04 17:33:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What shd i do..??Now that im gonna be 20 (in few mths time) my relatives n grandparents r deliberately making me worked up n stressed out mentally n emotionally n kp on telling me that they'll get me hitched to so and so bla bla bla... istill got lots in life.... i wanna build a stable career..find someone whom i luv....ot make things short - work on my resolutions n stuff... which will be beneficial for me... can anyone help me out ?

Another thing,abt social life,ive alots of frds but they dont seem to mk it a 2 sided,i dont need to gv any explannaton for htis but its true that my their frdshp for me is just one sided.to me,friends r those whom i treasure.n besides ive been hurt many itmes to believe that there r actually gd ppl around now..

im not sayin that im very sad...but i do hv relapse sometimes...its like mood swings... gd mood then not.. kinda thing.

thanks to anyone who can reply. :)

btw. im here to make more friends.. too ;) anyone out there?? just buzz me

2007-01-04 17:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by Simply Me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok ummm my earlier question heart broken. srry but i was too freakin SHY to say yes b/c i didnt think he liked me and he did!!!! and ummmmm wut i meant was does anyone have any advice on how not to be SHY like that around guys anymore!!!!!!

2007-01-04 17:31:31 · 3 answers · asked by bethanydoodle 2 in Singles & Dating

It is difficult to get her to do it sometimes, then wen we start shes crazy for it and into it, and after she tells me she knew it was gona be amazing and knows she shuld have been eager to do it. how can i get he to feel that way before hand?

2007-01-04 17:31:19 · 9 answers · asked by AV3NG3D 1 in Singles & Dating

It is difficult to get her to do it sometimes, then wen we start shes crazy for it and into it, and after she tells me she knew it was gona be amazing and knows she shuld have been eager to do it. how can i get he to feel that way before hand?

2007-01-04 17:31:00 · 14 answers · asked by AV3NG3D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 17:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You're 27,and sort of desperate to marry. There are two guy, one who you know will be a player even after marriage and maybe even catch AIDS but you love him. He wants to marry now. And the other, you know will be a loving husband, maybe even honest, but you arent sure how you feel about him. He wants to marry later

2007-01-04 17:30:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if i give space, i am scared of losing her altogether...

2007-01-04 17:29:51 · 14 answers · asked by arenania 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Could You Give It Up And To Whom????

2007-01-04 17:29:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends