What shd i do..??Now that im gonna be 20 (in few mths time) my relatives n grandparents r deliberately making me worked up n stressed out mentally n emotionally n kp on telling me that they'll get me hitched to so and so bla bla bla... istill got lots in life.... i wanna build a stable career..find someone whom i luv....ot make things short - work on my resolutions n stuff... which will be beneficial for me... can anyone help me out ?
Another thing,abt social life,ive alots of frds but they dont seem to mk it a 2 sided,i dont need to gv any explannaton for htis but its true that my their frdshp for me is just one sided.to me,friends r those whom i treasure.n besides ive been hurt many itmes to believe that there r actually gd ppl around now..
im not sayin that im very sad...but i do hv relapse sometimes...its like mood swings... gd mood then not.. kinda thing.
thanks to anyone who can reply. :)
btw. im here to make more friends.. too ;) anyone out there?? just buzz me
2007-01-04 17:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by Simply Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
n what abt social life?
ive been hurt too many times to believe that theere r good ppl ard now... what shd i do??
2007-01-05 13:28:46 · update #1
You've got to be honest with your family. Tell them that you will get involved in a relationship when you're ready. It's not for them to make a decision about.
Things happen in their own natural time. As you've said, there's so much more to life than marriage and relationships and your family need to know where you stand with things.
I know your family are only doing what they're doing through love for you but they are not in control of your life - you are!
Go with what feels right to you. Follow your heart.
2007-01-04 22:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are reaching the age of 20, I think you can certain decision on your own. People can tell you that what they want you to do but it is your own life and you have the right to determine what type of lifestyle you want.
Personally, I feel that having mood swing is not such a good thing you.Your friends won't know when you will have mood swings and as time goes by, they will try to keep a distance from you. Sometimes you need to control it slightly.
Hope the advice can be of some use to you.
2007-01-04 22:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day only u can make the decisions that affect ur life. Stand up for urself and ur rights as a human being and tell them what u want. If all else fails get urself a working visa to somewhere else in the world and go it on ur own
2007-01-04 17:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully if I further them as a sprint it somewhat is bc i in my opinion savour their q's and their a's so i'll in all probability shop answering them despite if i are not getting BA. regardless of the undeniable fact that this is an further bonus.
2016-11-26 20:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready for a relationship don get in to one its your life
2007-01-04 17:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by trinavanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋