It is difficult to get her to do it sometimes, then wen we start shes crazy for it and into it, and after she tells me she knew it was gona be amazing and knows she shuld have been eager to do it. how can i get he to feel that way before hand?
2007-01-04 17:31:19 · 9 answers · asked by AV3NG3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really shouldn't pressure her into doing somthing that she doesn't want to do. U should let her be the one to decide on wheather or not it should be done...Have patience with her and don't get all hot headed when she says no. I am sure you want her to want you like that and not just doing it to please you!!!
2007-01-04 17:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was raised with morals ( either through a church or by her parents) She may be struggling with her conscience. Most mothers try to raise their daughters to wait for marriage before sex. Why buy the cow when you get the milk free? Unfortunately,by the time we are early teens there are friends and hormones encouraging young ladies to have sex. So we have a mind war going on. We shouldn't but we still want to.
2007-01-04 17:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....OR maybe she is dealing with the emotional issues that go along with being sexually active and not just the physical aspect of it. It sounds like emotionally she doesn't feel ready, but physically she can't help herself. Make sure she feels secure in the relationship and practice safely!!
2007-01-04 17:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your avatar looks like a girl, thus I will answer as if this is a lesbian relationship. Perhaps she is unsure of her sexuality and while trying to suppress it, once getting in to it she feels more at ease. Back off a little, then you may see a different result.
2007-01-04 17:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Yankees Fan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
basic moral limitations. i dont mean to be preachy, but it's the right thing to do, to not have sex. not only for psyological reasons, but also physical. 1/3 chance of getting pregnate (1/6 w/condom. still bad odds) not to mention the hundreds of diseases especally women get.
2007-01-04 17:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is on birth control pills it might be a side effect of a lower sex drive.
2007-01-04 17:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit Her Over the Head, and Drag Her Back to The Cave.....HAHAHA
2007-01-04 18:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by bhsRUGBYplayer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a nut ...get rid of her.
2007-01-04 17:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by MiKe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just playing hard to get...
2007-01-04 17:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by msweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋