What does and orgasism feel like cuz i never had one?Could it be me? I'm never satisfied? And i'm good in bed!

Question

I'm 23, an African American, whos sexy but is also intellectual.

Answer 1

this is a terrible way of describing this... but drink 3 qts of tea. Then wait for 5-6 hrs.. do not repeat DO NOT go to the bathroom. Now your bladder should feel like it's about to burst. Go to the bathroom & you know that 'AAAAAAAAAAhhh' feeling you get? It's on the similar line. Except an orgasm is like that but with the pleasure of accomplishment & its just good clean (or dirty) fun.

Answer 2

You may not be doing it right with your partner or you may have a minor disorder with your sexual organs. See a doctor
You can also try changing to other positions and find out which is the preferred ones. It may also be psychological. You and your partner need to relax and not rush in sex, foreplay is suggested.

Good Luck

Answer 3

Orgasism

Answer 4

Orgasm is the conclusion of the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle, shared by both men and women. During orgasm, both men and women experience quick cycles of muscle contraction in the lower pelvic muscles, which surround both the anus and the primary sexual organs .

Orgasms in both men and women are often associated with other involuntary actions, including vocalizations and muscular spasms in other areas of the body. Also, a generally euphoric sensation is associated with orgasm.

Afterwards, orgasm generally causes perceived tiredness, and both men and women often feel a need to rest. This is recently attributed to the release of prolactin.[1] Prolactin is a typical neuroendocrine response in depressed mood and irritation.[2] A recent study at the University of Groningen has indicated significant differences in brain activity during the female and male orgasm.[3] PET scans showed that both the female and male orgasm 'shut down' areas in the brain associated with anxiety and fear (the amygdala). It was found that the male orgasm focused the brain on sensory input from the genitals more than a female orgasm.

Human female orgasm

In a human female orgasm, orgasm is preceded by moistening of the vaginal walls, and an enlargement of the clitoris due to increased blood flow trapped in the clitoris's spongy tissue. Some women exhibit a sex flush, a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin. As a woman comes closer to having an orgasm, the clitoris moves inward under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora (inner lips) become darker. As orgasm becomes imminent, the vagina decreases in size by about 30% and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue. The uterus then experiences muscular contractions. A woman experiences full orgasm when her uterus, vagina and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. The majority of women consider these contractions to be very pleasurable, although not all sexually active women experience this.

After the orgasm is over, the clitoris re-emerges from under the clitoral hood, and returns to its normal size in less than 10 minutes.

In a disputed study, female orgasm has been linked to education and income, with heterosexual women with post-secondary degrees more likely to reach orgasm than their less-educated counterparts.

The study methodology has been quite disputed. It is based on a computer assisted phone survey of 19,307 Australians. In fact, the abstract of the research states: "Demographic and sexual history variables were comparatively weakly associated with orgasm." Linking demographics to orgasms was not the aim of the research. The actual study barely references the linkage between demographics and orgasm.

Female multiple orgasm

Unlike men, women either do not have a refractory period or have a very short one and thus can experience a second orgasm soon after the first; some women can even follow this with additional consecutive orgasms. This is known as having multiple orgasms. After the initial orgasm, subsequent climaxes may be stronger or more pleasurable as the stimulation accumulates. Research shows that about 13% of women experience multiple orgasms[citation needed]; a larger number may be able to experience this with the proper stimulation (such as a vibrator) and frame of mind. However, some women's clitorises and nipples are very sensitive after orgasm, making additional stimulation initially painful. It is possible to engage in deep, rapid breaths while continuing stimulation and making a conscious intention to release the pain and tension during and after sex. Doing this can allow for the intense stimulation to be interpreted not as painful but as intensely pleasurable.

Answer 5

girl you gotta learn to play with yourself and explore your sexuality.. orgasm is the most awesome feeling in the world. it's like being on a roller coaster.. tingling sensations up and down your spine..

Answer 6

First you need to see if you can give youself one. there are lots of ways. ask any woman.

If you can't have one by your self, seek a sex therapist.

Answer 7

you need to talk to a doctor and or get a good book

Answer 8

you male or female

Answer 9

an orgasm feels like this:

.........ooooooooo0000000OOOOOOO! .