It is difficult to get her to do it sometimes, then wen we start shes crazy for it and into it, and after she tells me she knew it was gona be amazing and knows she shuld have been eager to do it. how can i get he to feel that way before hand?
2007-01-04 17:31:00 · 14 answers · asked by AV3NG3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no ppl this is just in the last 2 months, it didnt happen for the first FOURTEEN months
2007-01-04 17:39:20 · update #1
AND ALSO SHES ON THE PILL SO PREGNANT ISNT A PROBLEM AND NEITHER IS STD WE R EACH OTHERS ONLY ONES
2007-01-04 17:40:30 · update #2
Lets get this strait first for everyone who may answer your question after me,it cannot be an issue of getting her in the mood or her not being interested in it because if that was the case,she wouldn't be interested at all.Nothing you would do would make her get more into it if she was sincerely not interested.I personally feel that it may have something to do with the birth control pills she's on.Ask her to talk to her doctor about possible side effects.A lost of sexual interest is a side effect of a lot of birth control pills that's on the market.From your question,it doesn't seem like you have any problems getting her in the mood.Just continue to do what you do to get her going,and maybe after that talk with her doctor,she'll want to initiate sex a little more often.
Hope that was helpful:-)
2007-01-04 21:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Smooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme tell you what's going on here. Your g/f has been told since she was young to keep her legs closed. If she doesn't, she'll be considered a slut, get a std, pregnant etc. So, she hears this about 20,000 times & makes a conscious effort to do so. However, it feels so 'good' that she can't control herself. Which if you & her break up, you'll probably call her a slut & then blab to all your friends that she's a sex freak & look bad. Long story short, for her, she's either a prude or a slut & there really isn't a good healthy middle for her so she goes b/t those two constants.
2007-01-04 17:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by jmintecu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually know what you are talking about. I'm the girl in your story. This was a issue for my bf and me. For me , and maybe your girl friend, sex seemed to routine. I love having sex with him and it always feels good. Its just sometimes a girl needs to feel the romance and not be so routined. Maybe you could try dinner and a movie at home with candle lite. I know it seems weird but it may work. Or even just talk to her about it. If you have a good relationship, you could talk to her. I did with my bf and our sex life is good now. We all have our issues, just talk to her if you are really concerned. Good luck.
2007-01-04 19:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants the good part to last longer. It is anticipation that is the thrill. Don't be in a hurry to get to the finish of something. You can find out how the baseball game ends without pitching faster. Don't be a rookie.
2007-01-04 17:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are often raised with the notion that it's not proper to give it up easily as she's likely been warned by her parents and that sort of thing . Likely only time will sway her thinking on this .
2007-01-04 17:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she says she knew it was gonna be good means that she has another reason for not wanting it in the first place - ask her what her reason is - she may surprise u by answering.
2007-01-04 17:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, maybe some romance, dont talk bout it, sex isnt suppose to be a planed thing unless u got kids..lol.. anyways, dont say hey u wanna have sex... just kiss on her and maybe light a few candles.. or maybe pop in a porn if u guys are into that... porn and toys works wonders on spicing things up a bit... hope this helps... good luck :-)
2007-01-04 17:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by candyas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dosen't she want to do it is she afraid she will get pregnant and why arn't you afriad can you say support check? can you say daddy? Are you ready for that?
2007-01-04 17:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is afraid of becoming pregnant.
Maybe she is afraid you will get tired of her if she is "easy".
Maybe she feels cheap for having sex.
2007-01-04 17:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay???
2007-01-04 17:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋