Been married 28 years and he is doing wierd stuff and denying it. We have a conversation, he doesn't remember. He is "asleep", rolling me about out of bed, but then suddenly awake when someone mentioned food in the other room. He moves papers and stuff when I ask him not to. He tries to impress other people to the point of embarrassment. What is going on?
2007-01-04 17:39:31 · 21 answers · asked by Chloe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not sure how old the both of you are, but perhaps he should see a medical doctor. He may be experiencing some confusion due to a minor stroke or something. He may be fully aware something is wrong but is afraid.
2007-01-04 17:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there well the first thing thatcomes to mind is a mid life crisis......i can imagine what youre face is like .......the trying to impress and move things around all screams it in my thinking .......and that is that he has suddenly realised that he is getting older and the panic is setting in .......look you do not need to sit there and take this ....he needs to be sort of kick started again .....when the next time he rolls you out of bed ....take the downie with you and leave the room ......he will soon get the message you get rolled out of bed then the downie goes to .....that wont happen many times ......play him at his own game ........or failing that sit him down and say its time to talk ......or failing that tell him that you need time out and you are going away for the weekend alone ....without him ....and see what his response is ......that willmake him sit up and take note that you ae more than capable of getting on with things without him ......sometimes men need to be made to take notice .....good luck and take care xx
2007-01-04 17:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's is odd, is he on any meds that could make hom act that way? If not are you able to talk with a nurse and ask about the isses that u have witnessed lately & get medical advice, depending on age maybe he's afraid of being old & not accepted by friends . I would talk with your doctor or nurse & explain what is going on and ask a professional what to do, then go from there .
2007-01-04 17:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a mid-life crisis. You two need to have a serious conversation before one of you blows up. Trying to impress other people could be a symptom of his feeling that he is somewhat of a failure. If you are happy with his income and job, be sure to compliment him on being a good provider. Ask him what you can do to help him since he has changed a lot and you don't understand what is happening. Otherwise, one or both of you need counseling.
2007-01-04 17:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is a sudden change in behavior, then there is a cause for concern. I would check in with a mental health professional. Sounds like "something" is going on. Is he having some kind of inordinate stressors in his life? Medication . . . either new or med changes? Using drugs? Drinking to excess? Lots of possibilities.
2007-01-04 17:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he needs to see his doctor and have a physical. He could be trying to overcompensate with the impressing other people, for a problem he is having, such as memory issues. Get him to his doc soon, and share your concerns with his physician when you make the appointment so that they know they need to look beyond the surface.
Good luck, HTH
2007-01-04 17:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is possible, as horrible as it sounds, that he could be in the early stages of Alzheimer's or something like that. My advice would be to get him to a doctor. Then, if everything is okay with his health, have a long talk with him about the problem. If that doesn't help, consider separation.
2007-01-04 17:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he is trying to drive you crazy, but something is up, maybe he is having medical problems, a lot on his mind, a mid life where am I going with my life, a lot of different things, have a talk with him and say honey, you are not yourself lately can we please talk about what's REALLY going on. (Also maybe you are going through something and are suddenly much more sensative) Good luck.
2007-01-04 17:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he should see a doctor about it. It does sound like a problem. If it's not a true sickness of somekind, then he is just being inconsiderate and needs you to whip him into shape =)
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