2007-01-04 17:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how long you were married - I was married for 12 years and I found that I had some trust issues with the girls that I met immediately after my divorce. I ended up constantly comparing them to my ex, determined to make sure that I didn't make the same mistake I made the first time.
Long and short of the story - I remarried last year and I truly believe I have found my soulmate - as corny as it sounds, I feel like I have known her all my life.
Best of luck to you - step in the waters, you may find they are to your liking.
2007-01-04 17:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by degendave99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't find it difficult at all... In fact, I found it much easier, because I wasn't as afraid to take the risks that come with trying to build relationships with other people; I figured - I had lived through the worst, and recovered (it was a traumatic divorce); what can be out there that would be much worse than what I had already experienced? But I guess the reaction to stress and trauma is highly individual; it probably causes some people to do the opposite - become mistrustful, and retreive into their protective shell. Which would certainly make it harder to go out there and put yourself on the line again.
2007-01-04 17:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, first thing you have to do is start trusting men again,depending on the cause of your divorce.
But you first have to assess what caused your divorce and try to avoide the situitation,Other than that there is no reason why you cannot have another happy and loving relationship (good luck)
2007-01-04 17:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by tedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long youve been divorced..you dont have to rush anything..take things slow..if its only sex your after, then go to a bar and pick up on someone..and dating isnt difficult, its just like riding a bike, you never forget what to do..
2007-01-04 17:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how hung-up on your ex you are, really.
Other than that, it's much like dating before you were married.
2007-01-04 17:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Meg M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, just go to a bar
2007-01-04 17:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..who says that??
2007-01-04 17:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ah Fye . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really . my opion?
2007-01-04 17:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋