im worried about my sis...she works out soo much like no joke!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!she only eats like salad,soup, & she like never eats anything like cake or icecream.she is not 2 the piont where shes anerexic but she wheres a size 0 & shes 19!!she soesnt look digusting like most skinny girls but im still worried about her.shes been like this 4 a long time now!shes improved a bit since about 5 months ago but she still seems 2 be living an unhealthy life style.ive told her b4 that she needs 2 gain some weight but she just ignores me.my parents have told her this 2 & have been tryin hard 2 get her 2 be healthy.idk why she doesnt have any confidence i mean shes gorgeous & funny, & alot of guyz like her but she still seems 2 have no self esteem.i tell her all the time she beautiful but she just doesnt believe it!!i want her 2 feel beautiful but i cant seem 2 make her feel good about her self....help me pleasssssse!
2007-01-04 17:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by ♥!jamie!♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she can put on my close & htey fir her!!!!shes 7 yrs older than me.
she cant miss a day of working out.
my sis works out like 3 times a day 4 a long time!!!skinny
i dont htink shes very healthy & shes very
2007-01-04 17:19:09 · update #1
U care very much I see just talk to her about your concern for her she should come aruond soon this may only be a faze goodluck!!!!
2007-01-04 17:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by trinavanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she weight lifting? Weight lifters eat low carbs and high protein. This keeps the fat off and builds muscle. It makes the muscle look cut or more prominent. They drink water instead of sugar drinks. But if she has lost a lot of weight and not eating anything or eating and making herself throw up, and thinks she is fat then there is a problem. Working out and eating right is healthy. And it means not eating sweets and breads. Just keep an eye on her.
2007-01-05 01:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good, no sweets.Why are you so worried? I am 5'7" 125-130 and I am a size 4. I eat healthy in a way,etc. I am perfect according to alot of people in professions. Now days everyone has to be fat to look good, so they do not look like N.Richie.
2007-01-05 01:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try to get her to take some multivitamins or something, maybe that would help a little. Also talk to her close friends if you can and get their opinion. They should know her just as well as you.
2007-01-05 01:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by squem81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys need to have an intervention for her and get that girl some help.
2007-01-05 01:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
As u already communicate with her but all in vain.......
So, I suggest you to tell 1 of your good friend to help her like this...
Tell ur friend to come ur home...... & told ur friend to say things which you think....... ur sis should do & should dont do....
Because, Most of the time..... It happens that people dont want to understand those things which their family suggest....... &&& when any Outsider suggest the same thing THEY think over it ...... & follows that path.........
I hope this thing helps u..................
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 01:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
self esteem has nothing to do with you....you can't change her....she must do the changing
2007-01-05 01:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋