My boyfriend and I never fight. We were like bestest friends for a year before we started going out and we got together a little over 2 months ago. But even before, when we were just friends, we always get along. and if we sense we're getting on eachother's nerves, we say it, and we apologize for doing/saying something dumb but it never turns into a fight. we get alone pretty well and we talk to eachother everyday. I like it this way, I would never try to pick a fight on him but, is it normal???
2007-01-04 17:03:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's because you understand each other and sense when one is annoyed. It's an amazingly good trait to have and rare for both people to have it in a relationship because most people don't start as friends. But it's because you were friends first. My boyfriend and I are the same way. We talk everyday, we get along perfect, and we were best friends for a while before we started dating. Even disagreements rarely turn into fights because we get each other and know when to back off. And we always know before the other does when we say something dumb and apologize for it before the other even gets a chance to point it out.
You two are very compatible and it's good that at this stage there are no fights between you. If you were at a way more serious stage my answer would be different but at this stage it is a good thing.
2007-01-04 17:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lot's Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal, it's better than normal. My boyfriend and I don't fight, either; we've known each other about a year and a half and have been together almost 4 months. We're just so open with each other that we don't build up to fighting. I see that as a good thing, not a weird or bad one! eventually you two (and my boyfriend and I) will probably get into a minor spat. It almost happened when he was really stressed out trying to register for classes and I sat down to try and help him, but hey, until then, enjoy what you have and realize that this is a very good thing.
2007-01-04 17:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you are happy. If it works don't fix it. If you honestly feel you aren't sweeping things under the carpet which will resurface later then all is well. But I have had friends who seem that way and 18 yrs later find out one person was just pretending to agree with major philosophies.. (introverted passive aggressive ) which surfaced later and let to a break up. Be sure you are open and honest about what you are and what you believe with each other, You don't need to fight to do that either. Many blessings.
2007-01-04 17:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 01:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not normal but it does happen. My wife and I have been married 10 years with out any real fights. We get annoyed with each other but we both try to be open to the other person's feelings. It works for us. Lot of people tell us we're the happiest couple they know.
2007-01-04 17:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Whurm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, if you like it that way, why would you care if it's normal or not? Secondly, what is normal? Some people fight all the time, but love each other completely. Some people just fume, but...love each other completely. I say, good on ya' and forget whether it's normal or not. For you two, yes.
2007-01-04 17:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly think it's normal, at least I hope so. My best guy friend and I have known each other almost three years and never fought. During that time we dated briefly, but decided to break up because we valued our friendship too much... even though we love each other. Probably doesn't make much sense, but we did. So I say you're ok because it's happened to me too. Don't worry :)
2007-01-04 17:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is perfectly normal it just mean you and him are able to work together which is awesome to have a relationship like that most people are not even on the same page when there date which in most case end up bad for the person.you and him are doing great keep up i am rooting for ya!!!!!
2007-01-04 17:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by mary ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a great relationship and it seems normal to me. Most people would die to have a relationship like that. Be grateful for it and continuing what you are doing because it is working. You two are a dream come true.
2007-01-04 17:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEAH!!! BUT just wait....My guy and i were together for 1 year and never fought until 4 years later! OUCH!
2007-01-04 17:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋