Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

If I could go back, I would have spoken at my Moms funeral. She was an amazing woman, but I was too scared to speak. I was 20 when she died, and Im 26 now. Jan 11, will be 6 years without my best friend. I wish I would have told the world how wonderful she was, I just didnt have the courage to stand up and do so and I will regret that for the rest of my days.

What is one thing you could change if you could go back and why?

2006-12-28 02:16:28 · 13 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

plz get me one

2006-12-28 02:16:09 · 1 answers · asked by emmanuel ekame 1 in Friends

I told my close female friend that I needed time away from her to clear my head after she kept giving me undecisive answers if we'll go further than friends.She said if that's how I feel then she respects that and that maybe I do need time to sort my head out.(told her I don't know what to think\do anymore about her undecisiveness,am confused,need to clear my head).

The conversation ended on this note, with her saying:

"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

Not spoken for 3 weeks now(the longest ever!)Have I hurt her?Would she still be thinking about me?The friendship over?

2006-12-28 02:16:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-28 02:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by jade 1 in Family

i am just finding someome to date

2006-12-28 02:14:49 · 9 answers · asked by danny-mills 1 in Singles & Dating

we make love and or do other loving acts? i think its cute. and it started because of me not him. i didnt have a job at the time and was joking suggesting it and he liked it. he just likes giving me money and stuff all the time. is it still bad?

2006-12-28 02:13:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for 3 years. I care for him, im real comfortable with him, i can do and say anything to him. Some times i think we would be better off being friends. He says he loves me and i can sorta tell, cuz hes always callin me always checking up on me always making sure i have what i need, making sure i eat, and he even was thinking about what i would like and what would make me compfortable when he was buying his new car. The other day we were arguing and he said he wanted to break up and since i know how he feels about me i said "ye right u cant let go of me" and i was right we made up like 1 hr later MY QUESTION IS when i think about us breaking up a part of me is happy cuz then ill be single and ill be able to...live and learn, make my own deisions, and learn from my mistakes. BUT the other part of me starts to tear because im so used to him i cant imagine ho i would be without him and i know he would do anything for me and it will prolly take a while 4 anotherguy

2006-12-28 02:12:59 · 10 answers · asked by Lexis 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been with this guy for over a decade and besides being his gf, she has also been helping him in his career and to build up his business. He cheated on her once but she took him back. Now he has cheated on her a second time and this time he wants out. My friend is heartbroken and feels totally lost now. Besides being a listening ear, is there anything else I can do to help?

2006-12-28 02:12:58 · 4 answers · asked by Lido 2 in Friends

I am going through a divorce. I have one son who does not belong to my husband (we both know that) and we are going to DNA testing for him. But my husband won't cooperate. I have another son that my husband says is no his. I know my son is his...there was never any other possiblitity. But can I use his denial to remove his rights to my son (my husband is very dangerous...abusive, drug addict, alcoholic...) without having to go to a DNA test for the baby? I love the oppinions, they really help. But does anyone know where I can research laws or other court cases that I can refer to when in front of the judge... Something to keep my dangerous husband away.

2006-12-28 02:12:40 · 9 answers · asked by vcstarr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend co-worker is getting married next year. I have this feeling she's going to ask me to be a bridesmaid. She's my friend at work, but out side of work we live different life styles. I would love to attend her wedding, but don't want to spend the money to be in it. Also, I don't want to leave my boyfriend alone at the wedding while I'm busy being a bridesmaid. He won't know anybody. What should I do? I don't want to hurt her feelings. Plus, I think she thinks we're closer friends than we really are. yikes....

2006-12-28 02:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how can i help my 25 year old daughter she lost her husband christmas eve and my daughter and her husband had a 7 year old and a 3 year old the kids dont understand where there daddy is my daughter dont no what to do the 7 year old knows her daddy dead but the 3 year old old thinks her daddy is still at her nannys a sleep could u let me no how to help them

2006-12-28 02:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by cathymp44 1 in Family

all he wants to do is talk about how i hurt him..stuff in the past..now we both have past hurts a lot of stuff went on..that is why i am seperated today...but that all he does is text me and call me only to complain...i listen to him but dang it's one thing after another...i feel a lot too but i'm trying to let bye gones be bye gones why can't he just start over fresh....everyday it's something that happen......it's not helping me come back i feel like filing for divorce
if he can't forgive...i have forgiving him for puting his hands on me more than once and all his verbal abusive...since i left he acts like he's the good one i don't know...we've both messed up i just couldn't deal with it anymore.....and by him being emotional get mad and fustrated and impatient does not help me.

2006-12-28 02:10:40 · 9 answers · asked by mcswain_jamie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do they matter in a relationship ?

2006-12-28 02:10:35 · 29 answers · asked by Wortho 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to get ideas. Maybe of an activtiy they can do together, etc...

2006-12-28 02:10:31 · 2 answers · asked by sandrac 1 in Friends

I think she has mental health or personality problems. Her viscious verbal attacks on me/ us are out of control. When she is at family gatherings, everyone is on tenterhooks, just dreading the onset of her complete lack of self control. Every time we are abused by her, we ignore her for a few weeks, but she persists in contacting us (being oh so reasonable, telling us that we really are quite unreasonable). As soon as we see her again, the trouble starts. It is affecting our mental health, and we are seriously doubting our sanity- yet we don't have such problems with any other friends or family. We dare not live our lives for fear that she will find out what we are doing, and subject us to yet more screaming abuse.
Last time, her screaming and shouting at us was so awful, it upset our 2 year old terribly, and I vowed never again to let that happen. She arrived unexpectedly at a party recently, and shouted at me in front of everyone. Everyone was just cringing with embarrasment

2006-12-28 02:10:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago.i really like this guy who used to work with my ex. he wasnt friends with my ex but he knows all about our relationship.

i had bought a flat with my ex and since i ended it, the flat has been transferred into my sole name and my ex has moved away. he no longer works with this guy either.

would this guy who i fancy be put off by all this???he knows all of the above but he doesnt know why i ended it. he says he doesnt want to know either.

we have only kissed but sometimes he is really distant and ignores me for a while but then comes back as if nothing has happened. (cat and mouse situation).

is he playing it cool or is he playing games with me???

hes 29 and im 25.

he has his own place too.

he is single.

2006-12-28 02:08:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband use to watch porn, well he stopped because we "both" agreed that it not right for us. He has been doing an excellent job not watching it. But now (5 months later) he has to see boobs in movies, sex action in movies, etc. I do not like this because he is using movies as porn. Today we had another talk about this and he told me, " Yes, I need to see this to be happy most of the time". WHAT DA HELL??? I thought I made him happy. I do so much as a wife for him. Why would he need to see that to be happy. I am a beautiful women (I mean Im not a model or anything but damn im his freakin wife).

PLEASE EXPLAIN SOMEONE!!!!!!

2006-12-28 02:08:01 · 30 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone stold $80.00 from me at the job they rambled thru my purse.I have worked at this job for over 2 years and never had to worry about anything like this.Were I work it is in a office were 5 people work in .What do i do, because every time i go to work i feel as if the person who stole it is laughing at me every day.

2006-12-28 02:05:19 · 21 answers · asked by AMBRASIA C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a very close friend whom I had known for 12 years who happened to be male. I was a bridesmaid at his sisters wedding and he was an usher. As I was getting into my dress in his sisters bedroom he walked in, apologised and walked out ( I was in my underwear) however on that day our friendship ended and although I see him regularly at gatherings & parties etc he cant even look at me. Why is it? He is a mature guy, 26 - I didn't think he would react like this.

2006-12-28 02:05:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband admitted he had an affair and will try not to do it again but im too weak because i love my only 2 year old child that i cant leave him but allow him to build my trust again for him and it is 10months now and i still do not lovemy husband the way i loved him before he had an affair

2006-12-28 02:04:52 · 27 answers · asked by lorin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And till death do we part or its just a mere wild dream?

2006-12-28 02:04:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live with my aunt right now, and need to get my own place but don't have money...my fiance suggested I move in to the same apartment he moved into with a friend..the friend is married with a little boy. It's a 3 bedroom apt, so I would have my own room, as would my fiance. We each have a couple jobs each, so we wouldn't see a lot of each other, and the wife has a couple jobs, and the husband has a night job. My fiance is trying to get a night job as well...do you think me moving there too would be a good idea??? We are waiting for marriage, and I don't wanna accidentally screw things up between us......

2006-12-28 02:03:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

go to Pizza Hut before the cheap buffet menu finishes?


I can always take her a slice later!!!

2006-12-28 02:03:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with this guy for more than 5 years, lately he has totally gone down the wrong road... At this time I am trying to make a better life for me and my kid but he has just been a negative impact on out lives, I want a man who is stable and has his stuff together..The problem is I really love him and he has always been there for me, I feel like I am being selfish for wanting a better life....We have a very close bond with eachother sometimes I feel like he is my soul mate...but my child and my future are on the line, How do I breakup with the man I love...

2006-12-28 02:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Where are all the women out there who just want a nice guy?
How do you find one who does? It seems to me from gals I've met they all want rugby playing bad asses who treat them like crap.

2006-12-28 02:03:16 · 2 answers · asked by Rory S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I am dating this guy, but he is always talking about all these other girls. It really makes me mad. He has even talked to me about liking my best friend. I really think he is playing me. I really love him. Got any advice?

2006-12-28 02:02:16 · 6 answers · asked by tashasnyder2003 2 in Singles & Dating

How to make a man 47 y.o., who never been married, make a decision about our relationship? He says he loves me...We live in different cities and I am ready to move far away. I just wait on his word "Don't go! I want to be with you! Come over to me!" But he doesn't say anything...It kills me...I love him with all my heart.

2006-12-28 02:01:22 · 13 answers · asked by Kitty 1 in Singles & Dating

I need love i am lonley.Can some one tell me how ?

2006-12-28 02:01:11 · 18 answers · asked by AMBRASIA C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know everyone says when you ask yourself this question it means your not in love but after asking successful couples how they felt at the beginning of their relationship they all 2nd guessed themselves and were "scared" about finally settling down...so here's my question

I am with an amazing guy who loves me unconditionally. He is incredibly attractive, great job, love for life, humourous, funny and my neighbour :P We started dating about 6 months ago and I think that we have entered the "comfort" stage. I still love spending time w/ him and LOVE having sex with him. It just scares me when I look into the future. I get really bad anxiety (which I have been diagnosed with) I just want to know if i am really in love. All of my other relationships have been based upon jealousy and I know he is not going anywhere so I am not jealous in the least.

Does it sound like love to you? It scares me to think of not having him in my life

What are the signs of falling OUT of love?

2006-12-28 02:00:26 · 7 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 01:59:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating