Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

the woman tells me that they have made future plans, I know that his lease is up where we live in Feb. and I am wondering if I should believe him or her, she is on a lot of drugs and he did kick her out. She wants to meet him face to face to exchange somethings they still have of each others. He says he don't want to . what should i DO? Should I encourage it? and get it over with, or just keep playing this game that is driving me insane?

2006-12-28 01:43:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's step-father smokes (ALOT) and it really, really bothers me. After a couple days, when I stay over there, my chest feels sore, my sinuses burn, my ears itch, and my throat gets scratchy. My boyfriend (non-smoker) doesn't have a problem with it because he has lived with it all his life, but I haven't and I get really upset about it. I used to stay over there quite a bit, but it made everyone uncomfortable, because that is the "smoker's" house and he has a right to smoke in it. Still, what is the difference in putting my housedog in her pen when I have company and someone not smoking around me? It is a matter of respect, I think.
I have alot of worries about our future. If we married and had children I wouldn't want them to be exposed to second-hand smoke. What are some things to try or talk about to come to a compromise?
I am really dreading this New Year's Eve. We are supposed to be going over there to play games and watch movies. What will I do?

2006-12-28 01:43:23 · 9 answers · asked by Gretta 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok for new years eve I've got two partys I can go to. One is with my best mate with her mom and the other is this guy who I know likes me and I kinda like him too. I've asked my mate if she can come to his party but she says she don't know if she can get out of her party. Basically I don't know what one to go to. help anyone, please? Happy new Year

2006-12-28 01:42:43 · 8 answers · asked by imcoolendof123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 01:42:21 · 1 answers · asked by friend 2 in Friends

We are only friends, but I don't think my husband could love me and be comfortable living with me and my ex. Obviously, I said no, and asked my husband what was wrong with him, and all he will say is that it was just a dumb thought.

2006-12-28 01:40:27 · 23 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think when the love of your life do not want to spend Christmas or New Years with you?
I am working in Kuwait and my girlfriend is in Bahrain, about a hour plane flight. I was told that her cousin was coming to visit her about Christmas and stay until the first week in January. So I should come on my birthday in January because she only has one bedroom. I was cool with that but there is nothing to do in Kuwait so I decided to go to Bahrain for the New Year but stay in a hotel. She does not want me to stay at a hotel and it is not because I will be spending money. She thinks I do not truth her. If I go she said it is over. I know she has lied to me before and still is on something. What should I do? I don't want to lose her but what is she acting all crazy.

2006-12-28 01:40:13 · 15 answers · asked by claybo 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and i have been married for 6 years, we have two children together and I have 2 children from a previous relationship. Each year for Christmas my wifes parents buy her and my two children(with her) airline tickets to go visit their condo and her grandmother in Texas(we live in Maine). they usually stay between 2 and 3 weeks. Not only do i miss my kids, but feel kind of left out. This year i asked my wife if my daughters and I could go along if I purchased my own airline tickets and rented another car in texas. I was told there is not enough room at the condo and that I wouldn't like it at her grandmothers, so basically i got a no. how should i feel.

2006-12-28 01:40:10 · 12 answers · asked by hhhmmmmm?? 2 in Friends

I have given him another chance but I can't forget what he did to me and keep bringing it up whenever we have an argument. Am I ready to move on? It's been 2 years.

2006-12-28 01:39:58 · 17 answers · asked by ponder2006 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you knew that she ended her 6 year relationship with her fiance 8 months ago and you used to work with him?

and....... she had bought her own place with him but has had the flat transferred into her sole name had the ex fiance has moved away.

would you keep your distance?
what would you think?

you dont know the reason why she ended it.

im a girl asking!!!lol x
i really like his guy but im not sure if he is playing games or keeping his distance.

2006-12-28 01:39:40 · 1 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our kid is 4 years old.He doesn't like his dad too much.I tried to let him visit with him.Thing is, he doesn't come around often so we don't call him.It seems that he only comes around if his mother comes in town.I never stopped him from seeing the kid. For Christmas, he didn't even call or come by to give presents.Last year he did.I don't expect anything from him. I've been more that good to him by leaving him do what he do.And being too nice by letting him have him when he calls but that's not often (may-be 2 or 3 times a year).The last time we heard from him was Nov. 5(his birthday) & he told me 2 call him when we get back home & we didn't but that still shouldn't stop him from calling.I moved on a long time ago & I feel that he's jealous of the new guy I have.But he has a girlfriend & been since we broke up(she will never have kids w/him b/c she was married b4 & had 3 kids & tied her tubes).This may B the only child he'll ever get. What's his problem? He does pay child support.

2006-12-28 01:38:58 · 12 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Family

2006-12-28 01:38:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I enjoy relationships with both men and women, and often I can have relationships at the same time (these are casual ones) But even in casual relationships I find that having both can tricky - one of my last boyfriend was really excited at first that I was sleeping with another girl, we had threesomes sometimes but after a while he got really possessive about me being with her.

With women its always a nightmare - I've found it best not to mention having a man at all.

So, in 2007 I think it might be better to concentrate on either men or women - which one do you think - I like them both for different things.

2006-12-28 01:37:57 · 3 answers · asked by Ella 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

be completely honest

2006-12-28 01:37:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its totally awkward..

2006-12-28 01:37:11 · 25 answers · asked by alicemustlie 1 in Family

There is a surviving spouse but no children. Husband that died has 5 brothers and 1 sister with other family

2006-12-28 01:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by sue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you would could you send them around here my wife just fell off and now my kids wont go up there!!!

2006-12-28 01:36:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i last the least 45min-1 the most 5hr-3hr

2006-12-28 01:36:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like her very much, we like kissing and making love , but quite often it smells unpleasant? I asked her any smell from my mouth?
She said no. How can I tell her not hurting her? and any cure

2006-12-28 01:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by earthlove 2 in Singles & Dating

there are like 8 boys that like corner me A LOT and grab my hip ang bottum and top i have told someone but it just gets worse and im kind of scared to tell someone now how do i get them to qute (im still in school)

2006-12-28 01:35:35 · 8 answers · asked by caylee d 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone
I am going to get married, and I am would like to know what to look for in a girl that make my marriage successful and have a happy life with her?

2006-12-28 01:35:07 · 9 answers · asked by ali morad 2 in Singles & Dating

one boy in my classs is very bad he bits me always when i bit him he says bad words to me and bits me more what should i do????

2006-12-28 01:34:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 6 wks ago i have been trying to find out why she did finally boxingday i phoned and she told me

1.
18 months ago i got sacked for touching up the bar staff at work but the reports where far from the truth and she did'nt like what she read
2.
that i did not surport her when her nan died 16 months ago whice i did the best i could
3.
i smoked not in the house but i smoked(i've smoked since we meet)
4
i was not earning lots of money but in 2 year i will own my own business

so really sounded to me that she was trying to think of past events of what happened if that was the reason why would she stay with me for 18 months i find this wierd!!!!!!!
also she is dealing with anarexica + depression and it was a hasty break up on her part i'm happy now moving on slowy but confused by what she said also she text me the next day saying that she loved me dearly,wants the best for me in the future and when we are stronger we can build a friendship!

2006-12-28 01:31:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a very limited budget, and im trying to save money by just getting one gift.

2006-12-28 01:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by molly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband commented that I was not sexy. I admit that I have some work to do, but it seems like he wants a quick fix for something that I have struggled with my entire life, weight. I try to do the best with what I have but he doesn't seem to notice. I bought a new pair of dark jeans and wore them with a v-neck sweater and a blazer over it, I thought how trendy and cute. His comment was, those jeans make your bottom look bigger. I was crushed and went to change immediately. I am having trouble becoming motivated to change, since I become resolved to make him see he is wrong about me. It becomes a battle of wills, the "I'll show him..." syndrome that gets us nowhere. He says, "Instead of trying to cover up what you have and make it seem like you are something you are not i.e. an hour glass figure, why don't you make more of an effort to lose weight?" I feel as though I can not win for losing, don't bother and I am a slob, make an effort and I am deceitful.

2006-12-28 01:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by msfeliz777 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just realized this morning that I no longer have "cute" cleavage. My boobs have gotten a lot bigger than they used to be and I feel like they are no longer "show off-able". When the hell did that happen?

2006-12-28 01:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Singles & Dating

so im dating this guy whos a sophmore and im a freshman. and we get along really really well. but im losing almost all my friends because they think im hanging with him way to much. and some of his friends dont like me that much. and i dont know what to do. is losing your grades, familys trust, and friends worth a boy who you love and dont want to live without?

2006-12-28 01:29:32 · 19 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

He has some problems, I'm not sure he washes that often. I, on the othe hand have a problem with him smelling a little....well....in the genital area. :( I know it's gross, but it bothers me, and it's a very, very delicate thing to say to anyone, especially to one's boyfriend. HELP me with some suggestions! Thank you

2006-12-28 01:28:52 · 37 answers · asked by pope1882 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband, my son, and myself are court ordered to have paternity DNA testing done. I was court ordered to pay for and set up the testing. I have had to reschedule my husband's test multiple times. Once because he went to jail. Once because he got out of jail too quickly to have his test done, and now again because he says he has no transportation. My lawyer suggested I drive him to get it over with and guarantee he go to his test. But I want no contact with him and do not think it is my responsibility to arrange his transportation. How much can I actually be responsible for in this situation?

2006-12-28 01:28:05 · 10 answers · asked by vcstarr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean don’t get me wrong I have no intension of staying a virgin all my life just till I meet someone special and settle down and get married. But what can I do in the mean time, because I am a 24 year old male and think about sex all the time. Is anyone else in the same position as me waiting to have sex until after marriage? If so what did you do to keep your mind off sex?

2006-12-28 01:27:28 · 22 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Singles & Dating

i am helpless and confused what to do

2006-12-28 01:26:01 · 16 answers · asked by inimayan 1 in Singles & Dating