Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

We tried this about 12 years ago. We both have matured, and we know what we want and that is each other. My children are 21,19, an 15. He has no children. We will wait until last one is graduated from school. I will have to find a job, and the south doesn't pay as much as the north, but I so much want to be his wife. He won't come to the north to live, and I don't want to go to the south, done that once, and ended up back here. Do I leave family, friends, job, church in the name of love? If I don't take my chances now, maybe they won't come along again!? HELP!

2006-12-28 02:28:58 · 22 answers · asked by Special K 5 in Singles & Dating

what should i gift my frnd on new year???????
hez a guy of 16........n 'm 14
so....what should i gift him???

2006-12-28 02:28:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-28 02:28:07 · 13 answers · asked by rhymenharmony 1 in Singles & Dating

you could be who you like...go where you like with whom you like...do what you like....just or fun...;0)

2006-12-28 02:27:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OR do u have to already have the ability and the singing lessons just train ur voice?

2006-12-28 02:26:19 · 16 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 02:25:13 · 37 answers · asked by diamondviperv550 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 02:24:15 · 41 answers · asked by ponder2006 2 in Marriage & Divorce

they know that you don't want to be with anyone else ( or you wouldn't be with them) but they still act as if thry have something or someone to worry about. Ok hears the scoop --> i hang out with alll guys & he hangs out with mostly girls. I don't question him about his friends but he q's me constantly about mine. I trust him more than he doe me, but he doesn't have any reason not to trust me. well what do yall think is going on?

2006-12-28 02:24:04 · 9 answers · asked by GFEM213 2 in Singles & Dating

We are friends now...but we were casual lovers before. I invited him to go on a trip w/me & my parents awhile back when we were seeing each other. Now...apparently he said he hooked up w/a girl, although I'm not sure if he's lying or not because he still wants to go on vacation w/me. Does that seem a little weird? I'm thinking the girl is just a random hookup or he is dating her after 3 months of us being apart?! Anyway, if we are friends, would it make things weird if he went on the trip?

2006-12-28 02:24:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honey....

2006-12-28 02:24:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are you supposed to think and do when an exboyfriend calls you out of the blue when you havent talked for months and wants to hang out? even though you know he screwed up big time but there is something in the back of your mind thinking what if he has changed?

2006-12-28 02:23:42 · 23 answers · asked by brebz 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy for 3 years. He cheated on me once that I know of...anyway, we've been broken up for the past 7 months, and he has a new girlfriend, who wants to wait til marriage to have sex. He's been sleeping with me, however on and off since we broke up. I kept thinking that he would come back to me, for whatever reason that I wanted him back, but now realize that's just dumb, and I don't want him back. The girl that he is with now doesn't deserve to be with this guy. He's such a jerk. Should I tell her that he's cheating on her? Or just get him outta my life and let her figure it out on her own?

2006-12-28 02:23:27 · 20 answers · asked by NikNak 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 02:23:11 · 1 answers · asked by Kurious 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 02:22:22 · 37 answers · asked by Wat Da Hell 5 in Singles & Dating

Am I wrong for that? Last nite I bought myself a nice 3/4 length "winter off white" wool coat & I'm buying new shoes & an outfit today. New Year's I'm going out with someone & I want to look nice. I thought I should do that for MYSELF, since I went thru so much depressing & agitating stuff this year (but I HAVE made good progress) - and also because I just broke up with someone who I really cared about & right now I'm suffering heartache & sadness getting over him. I haven't been dressing myself up lately because I've been in a funk.

I want to come out of this, so I thought why not go shopping, splurge on ME & bring the New Year in dressed up really nice while I'm also going out on a date for the New Year.

Am I wrong for that? Or should I stay home & SAVE my money & be still until all of my huge debts are paid off?

2006-12-28 02:22:05 · 7 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

I drive by the same bum every day. Usually I bring him a pack of smokes, a six pack of beer and $5. I was thinking, since it's the holidays and all, maybe it would be pretty cool to get him a motel room and pay a girl to spend the night with him. Good idea or not?

2006-12-28 02:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by white.devil 3 in Singles & Dating

I'd say a baby crying or a knock at the door "police"

2006-12-28 02:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its seems as every time i turn on the T.V or Radio all i hear about is DEATH .Thats so depressing .I know that it will happen to every one one day but i am so tired of hearing about death.Is there anyone who agrees with me?

2006-12-28 02:21:29 · 18 answers · asked by AMBRASIA C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 02:21:21 · 12 answers · asked by Daniel V 1 in Singles & Dating

I married my husband two years ago. I moved in w/ him, his father, and his sister. The home was paid off 50/50 by my husband and his father. His father moved out about a year ago and when he moved out he said we could keep the house and not to worry about paying him back because that was his gift to us. So basically it is my husbands and my house. Well his sister asked if she could bring a friend to live w/ us and I said yes. Then she brought another sister to live us and I did not say anything either. So now It's my husband, his two sisters, his sisters friend, and I. I decorated the house, put up pictures, brought in new furniture because the house was empty when I moved in. Now his sisters are saying that they don't like a house w/ decorations, and that they wish I never changed anything because it's their home and not mine. If I put up a candle they take it down. If I put up anything they move it around and break my dishes and just destroy everything. I was fed up w/ it yesterday b

2006-12-28 02:20:39 · 11 answers · asked by Adri 4 in Family

Have you ever been accused of being jealous when you werent??

2006-12-28 02:20:06 · 7 answers · asked by Twizler 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 02:19:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking to stay away from being so traditional. I know everyone does "homestyle" chicken and mashed potatoes...I'm would like to steer away from that. But on the other hand I don't want to go too fancy. Any suggestion?

2006-12-28 02:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

I asked about paternity, but everyone misunderstood. I'm asking, How do I deal with this mentally. NO I am not trying to get out of paying support! No, I did not cheat.(where'd that come from?) And no DNA was not in the question. I said it was ethical, not biological

2006-12-28 02:19:24 · 10 answers · asked by D.Y. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello all,

Im alomst 30 years old.

I have met and fallen in love with a wonderful girl - she is 23.

Can this relationship work longterm from or is the age difference too mcuh.

Would appreciate advice.

2006-12-28 02:18:26 · 23 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

I look at western tradition where they teenagers really ashamed if they didn't get laid before entering the college? (in American Pie). Is it really important to get laid before marriage or it is nothing, just tradition or culture?

2006-12-28 02:17:42 · 38 answers · asked by Kasugano 1 in Singles & Dating

I have so many "friends," these are really nice people, but deep down I don't trust any of them to accept the real me. The more I want to get closer to them the more I feel like I'm pushing them away.

So how do you get close to people? Any advise?

2006-12-28 02:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by The Teacher 6 in Friends

yea...so how can i find out if guys are interested in girls? is there ways?

2006-12-28 02:17:09 · 15 answers · asked by lizze 2 in Singles & Dating

We are engaged to be married, but I feel like we have reached a point that married couples reach at some point. I am referring to the point where we are not making love as much and she is starting to treat me like less than an equal? Is this a sign of problems to come when we finally say "I do"?

2006-12-28 02:17:00 · 25 answers · asked by Mr. Smartypants 1 in Singles & Dating

my marriage was broken before one month of marriage date.
it was an intercaste marriage and the boy 's family demanded for car and cash. though it was alovemarriage but the guy didnt support that time now he wanna patch up and says wanna make up wat shld i do???my family now is totally against this relation now ,suggest the way as i cant decide the rght way .....

2006-12-28 02:16:28 · 13 answers · asked by blossom 1 in Weddings