Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

me and my bf were just talking yesterday night and he sounded all pissed off so i asked him what was wrong and he just said im in a bad mooD. ok so later on i thought i would remind him that i love him and im here for him. and he just says mmmmmmm u like lil wayne. i dont know he was trying to prove. ok well we have a relationship that my family and his family cant know about because his parents hate me and mine hate him. but his brothers know and my sisters know. and yesterday he says to me whos next to you. and he goes like is your brother awake. and i told him no cause he wasnt and that noone was by me. and he said what i look like a dummy to you. and i said why cant you believe me and he says ow ok. and i said i wanna know. and he didnt answer so i said"i cant take this crap right now" pCe and he said ok, and i signed off. whats going to happen? PlEASE. i wanna cry sooo bad and i dont know whats going to happen i really love him and want to keep him

2006-12-28 01:58:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner of 5 years and I do not have children or live together. I am at uni fulltime studying. We started our relationship and it became serious quickly. He and I were 21 then. He had problems then with drinking, but I thought due to his age, most guys drank too much and said mean things.then these things happened over the next few years
He binge drank and disapeared for a day or two once a month
He left me on valentines day to go drinking with his brother at his house.
He through me out of the house when he was sober physically by picking me up and throwing me as I visited a friend he did not like.
He got drunk and in a bar threatened to cut my legs with it and told me to move as he would hurt me.
He secret drinks alcohol and changes personality even though he knows I hate him drinking.He went AA once
He sulks if I dont have sex as I am upset and walks out only to return and say sorry.
After each incident he is full of apologies and buys gifts. How do I end it quickly?

2006-12-28 01:56:30 · 24 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I received custody of his daughter in September. We haven't received any child support yet. His ex wife stays at home with her new baby and her boyfriends two children. He asked her about the child support last night and she said that as long as she was not working she wasn't responsible for paying child support. Is this true?

2006-12-28 01:54:58 · 23 answers · asked by lilcountrygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I have been together for 10 years (married for 3), we started dating at 16. Anyways, for the last 3 weeks his mother has been staying with us bechause she has found roaches in her appartment. I am 15 weeks pregnant and would like the last 6 months of my freedom to have a house to ourselves (since we'll have a permanent roomate when the baby comes).

Anyways, she is driving me nuts and even though I only took 2 pillows out of her room (which my husband told me to do during the day) she was balling to him last night about how she's not welcome and suchShe told him when my family stayed there at Christmas I didn't need those pillows but since it was her I suddenly needed them! Anyways, I feel horrible because my husband is caught in the middle. But, he knows how I feeland he's been upset with me because I need to, "be nicer to mother!"

What should I do? Any advice would be helpful!

2006-12-28 01:54:51 · 18 answers · asked by kista_1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfrind said to me his family find it a bit hard wiv me gettin married to him but eventuallybe alright but he said before i make you meet them i take the attitude out of you what he meant?

2006-12-28 01:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by kebabz 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever said something when you were a little drunk, but really meant it?
Like said something that you had been wanting to say, but didn't have enough courage to do so sober?
Is it bad to do that?

2006-12-28 01:54:16 · 32 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

This is more of an ethical question than biological. While I was married, My ex got pregnent. She had a beutiful little girl whom I love. However, I'm almost possitive that the ex cheated on me. She knows a guy that had other children that look really simular.I'm the one who is being charged with child support while this other guy walks around depositing sperm in anything that will take it. Without saying,"If you love her, why does it matter?" How do I deal with facing jail time for support when I'm not working at times, and this %#*&^@(& walks around without a care?

2006-12-28 01:53:18 · 18 answers · asked by D.Y. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please dont be Mean , or rude , I just need a little advice. I have been with the same guy for 6 years , we planned a wedding for 2007 , an He tells me the other day that , he no longer wants to marry me, but he wants to stay together. What gets me is it's been 6 years, will he ever be ready to marry me ever????

2006-12-28 01:52:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently got engaged and am trying to think of an unusual venue for our wedding, any ideas? i especially like the idea of the ceremony being outside?

2006-12-28 01:52:11 · 15 answers · asked by BABY BELL 3 in Weddings

2006-12-28 01:51:54 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 01:51:20 · 7 answers · asked by lucy p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok its only a tenner but .....................
......................................
sorry was a tenner daughter has claimed it and said i still owe her
£20 ..at least grrrrrrrrr
When was the fastest you have had money and spent it?

2006-12-28 01:51:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like the previous questions.
We been together for 4months, but i have not been to his house nor meeting any of his friends. I do not know where he live example a statement of location. I do not know his house numbers, as he say don't like to trouble family. And i can always find him on hp. Which will be closer to him rather then house phone.
He will always make effort to meet me at least twice a week.
But he has 2 incident of coincidences of
- left his hp with buddy, whole nite gone missing
- Hp low batt, gone missing for 1 whole nite
- now his hp is engage again.

I am lost. And very insecure. I told him once how i feel, he told me he too find insecure.. sigh.. i really dont know what to do now..

2006-12-28 01:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by devil22 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 01:50:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who is better and the biggest

2006-12-28 01:50:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 01:50:07 · 8 answers · asked by edison 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 01:49:37 · 21 answers · asked by a143shane 1 in Singles & Dating

I never really knew if you ladies liked the harry ape or not. Just didn't think to ask them until now.

2006-12-28 01:48:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 36 weeks pregnant (4 left until due date) and I found out about 3 weeks ago that my partner and father of my child has been cheating on me with a female 'friend' for the past year. She had no idea I existed, I called her to ask her to butt out because I saw how often he called her on his phone bill and got suspicious. Then I found out the truth, and even that he had gotten her pregnant but encouraged her to have an abortion.

Since it all came out, my partner has completely changed. He seems desperate to sort things out with me. He dropped her as soon as I knew about it. His behaviour has changed totally, he is no longer secretive about his phone or where he has been. I want to forgive him because I love him, and also because I don't want to deny him access to our daughter when she arrives. But I frequently just break down and want to end it all. I would like some tips on how I can cope with this without throwing it in his face all the time, because that won't help. Any advice?

2006-12-28 01:48:46 · 50 answers · asked by Sophie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have much fun on my b-days because someone gets left out or we get in a fight. I want it to be the best b-day ever!

2006-12-28 01:48:32 · 9 answers · asked by . 1 in Friends

2006-12-28 01:47:46 · 12 answers · asked by kivana k 1 in Friends

2006-12-28 01:47:45 · 17 answers · asked by lindsy l 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 01:45:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you knew that she ended her 6 year relationship with her fiance 8 months ago and you used to work with him?

and....... she had bought her own place with him but has had the flat transferred into her sole name had the ex fiance has moved away.

would you keep your distance?
what would you think?

you dont know the reason why she ended it.

im a girl asking!!!lol x
i really like his guy but im not sure if he is playing games or keeping his distance.

2006-12-28 01:45:39 · 2 answers · asked by pink sugar girl xxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom is kicking me out of the house how do i start living on my own??? i need help quickly

2006-12-28 01:45:13 · 19 answers · asked by thevillageprophet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love a boy since a had came to know the meaning of love. He soon came to know about it and start ignoring me. I was sitting in his wait when another person, who was my very good friend, came and proposed me. everybody force me to say yes as i was wasting my time in wait of such a person who doesnt love me. I said yes to that guy but after some days we broke up. Today also when i see my first love my eyes bend down in shame and feeling of guilt. Do i still love him or its just attraction?

2006-12-28 01:45:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, if a guy is always there for her, protect her from bullies, helps her whenever she is in trouble, listen to her, do activities with her, give her pleasant surprises such as on her b'day, will she slowly grow feelings for him?

2006-12-28 01:44:37 · 11 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 01:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by Alberto G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to know the websites for chatting but not those which allow only ones above 18years.help me out

2006-12-28 01:43:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 01:43:48 · 9 answers · asked by mdzfia 1 in Singles & Dating