Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

2006-12-28 02:57:58 · 15 answers · asked by krystyna s 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to sound really selfish right now, and I have no idea why this bothering me, but it does. For Christmas last week, everyone in my office at work (there are only 7 of us) drew names out of a hat and exchanged gifts. My boss wanted us to not spend any less than $20 so that everyone would get a decent gift and no one would get "cheaped-out" as she called it. Even though I am the youngest person there(I am 22) and a $20 gift is pretty expensive, I agreed to it. Well, I drew a lady's name (I'll call her Kathy) that I did not like... at all. She is the only person in the office that I do not get along with. Later that day, I found out that she had drawn my name as well. When I went shopping, I ended up buying something for her that cost me about $35. I thought, what the hell...it's Christmas. When Friday came around, we had our little "party" at lunchtime. Everyone exchanged gifts. But guess who did not recieve a gift. That's right.... Me. (continued below)

2006-12-28 02:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by hevs55 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night i was txting my best guy friend and he totally freaked out on me! Tellin me to leave him the $#%@ alone and stuff like that and didnt say ANYTHING to make him mad he just went mad. He hasnt answered his phone on been online since. I tried asked his best friend if he has herd from ****** and he freaked on me and blocked me...i think my friend told him to do that but i dont know....Culd he still b mad at me from when i went out with him and broke up with him bcuz it was wierd like dating a brother..im so confused at y he freaked ...any1 help????

2006-12-28 02:57:43 · 3 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Friends

Non smokers: would you break up with someone who declined to quit for the sake of the "relationship" ? Have you?

Smokers: have you had relationships end with the not quitting smoking being blamed as the reason?

2006-12-28 02:57:23 · 14 answers · asked by On It 1 in Singles & Dating

First off let me just say that I am not that 40 year old male. I am just curious as to what people think. Brad Pitt is over 40, correct? Would he be exempt from being too old for lets say a 21 year old because he's good looking? Anyway, what do you think is too young?

2006-12-28 02:57:18 · 55 answers · asked by iblockidiots 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were 30 and had a choice to marry a very young-looking model gorgeous 36 yr old chick or a nice but plain average looking 27 year old girl which would you choose ?
Not date, marry.
The only difference in personalites is the 35 yr old is more easy going, stable and happy and the 27 year old is more demanding, volatile & picky.
Also the 35 yr old has 250k in the bank while the 27 year old has over 100k in student loans and credit card bills.

Which would you choose ?

2006-12-28 02:56:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when your husbands 2 kids cause conflict between you and your husband? They are nice when hes around but act a fool when he's not. I'm not trying to take the place of their mom and never have. I just want us to have a happy marriage but the ex and the kids seem to have a hard time adjusting to us being married. The ex has never said anything to me personally, but her kids are asking me questions that seem like is coming from her. When I tell my husband about some of the things they do , he says I misunderstood them or no they didn't. Why am I the liar? I just try to be conviently unavailable when his kids come around. Dont' you think it's best/

2006-12-28 02:56:11 · 8 answers · asked by toonice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I asked a question that involved my brother sending me to prison for 3-5 yrs, AFTER I paid for what I had done and apologized profusely to all involved.Points on a drivers licence get erased quickly but prison lasts forever. You ppl who would rat out your own siblings should be drowned in your own shallow opinions of yourselves.

2006-12-28 02:55:50 · 18 answers · asked by Rick J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He says that he wants me to have his kids. We've been going out for like 6 months and tells me he loves me very much and that he wants me to have his kids. I know what it means, but what do u guys think?

2006-12-28 02:55:44 · 16 answers · asked by laura m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 02:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 02:55:27 · 2 answers · asked by melissa f 1 in Friends

My boyfriend of a year is in Iraq for the second time. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me. It is just so hard being in a relationship with someone who is so far away. I think of him all the time in a way that is is becoming a distraction to my life. When he was home he was the only reason why I smiled and now he is the only why I cry. We talk on the phone occassionaly and e-mail each other daily. At first I didn't understand how serious the war was but as time passes and the more people are getting killed I fear more and more for his life everyday. When he left it was like I was losing my best friend. I understand that this is his job but it just hurt so bad. I feel so lonely. I definitely want to spent the rest of my life with him and I can't see my life without him. Is this a healthy relationship? Should I break up with him so he would have to be stressed because he is away from me? Maybe I am a distraction to him!?!?

2006-12-28 02:55:01 · 4 answers · asked by Tricee 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has 3 children (9-12 yr old boys)with his ex. He has 50/50 custody- she doesn't allow him to take the kids any where w/o her or he visits them at her house. He ownes his own business which she remains involved in. She sends out and pays bills. He dictates what to write on his customers billing statements and gives all bills to be paid (unopened) to her. On the exterior he is a very tough individual. Others see him as intimidating. When it comes to his ex he's a total wimp. She is 8 yrs older than him & a bully. He is very upset over his limited visits with his kids but won't push the issue. Whatever she says goes! I feel she is going to screw him over with his business. She knows every dime he takes in, she doesn't work ( what she does for him takes 2-3 hours a week) He pays all of her expenses & she has free range of the business account. She makes him an emotional wreck. He keeps secrets about this from his family & friends. He won't listen to my suggestions.

2006-12-28 02:54:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this person is heavy set and need to know the best way to put on the diaper

2006-12-28 02:54:08 · 5 answers · asked by ronald s 1 in Family

What is it you regret the most?

Mine is when I became involved and had a fling with a woman I met online. Who turned out to be a psycho, stalker, and much, much, worse. But that's another story.

2006-12-28 02:53:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy I ran into who I used to date. I'm STILL attracted to him. I think he's still attracted to me too. I was with a guy when I saw him & couldn't talk but I told him I would call him next Monday. He wanted me to hang with him but I was with somebody. We hugged, he told me he loved me & I left.

I was going to wait b4 I call him but yesterday I decided email him. In the email I told him I was surprised to run into him & asked him "what did you do to yourself?" - I told him he looked different, that his Aura looks/feels different & that he looks BEAUTIFUL. I told him I was very happy to see him & asked if he was going to be at the New Year's event, that I will most likely be there but I will be with the same guy I was with when he saw me the other nite. (because that's the truth). I told him I still would love to see his face & that seeing him again made my nite.

I was being honest with what I said but was I too "forward"? Foolish? Or was it ok what I said in the email?

2006-12-28 02:53:08 · 2 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

Playing mind games is not cool, but communicating real feelings despite risks can be beneficial in the long run. Am anxious to know what you think.

2006-12-28 02:52:44 · 9 answers · asked by dymps 4 in Singles & Dating

if some one is liking you how can you tell? what do u do? or if u like somebody wat do u do?

2006-12-28 02:52:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so upset. Nothing seems right. Starting with friends that ditched me for NewYear celebration, then poor raise at work, I dont' feel well - I got a flu, then last night my husband said something that really upset me. Since we won't celebrate New Year with our friends we originally planed to, he said we will be celebrating w/ friend of his, who is single, old, boring, drinks a lot. Three of us in the club. I don't like it. I told him I won't have any female to talk to. Because that guy doesn't have anybody. Plus other couple invited us to their house. My husband won't go there, even if he knows the people (they're more his friends then mine) and I accepted invitation. He says to me "okay if you don't want to go to the club with us I'll go with him. " What should I do? I'm so tired of arguing and his stupid comment is that I don't have respect for him 'cause I won't go to the club with him and his boring friend.

2006-12-28 02:52:30 · 14 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago. Since then, ive been enjoying the single life!lol

at the mo, i have 4 guys chasing me. im just getting used to the attention from guys again.

one of these guys i really really fancy. ive know him for a while. he was kind of chasing me when i was in my past relationship too.

we have kissed eachother a few times and i have stayed over his place a few times. he does want to take things further sexually though. i admit, i have been abit of a tease!lol

whenever i meet up with this guy, i dont hear from from him for weeks!he ignore my messages too so i end up chasing him. i eventually give up and he starts chasing me again, yet, when we meet up again the same thing happens all over again!

why is he behaving like this???hes the only guy im interested in!

hes the only one who knows about my past relationship as i met him through my ex. he knew my ex but they were never friends and my ex has now moved away.

2006-12-28 02:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked my wife for a threesome with her best friend.
Here was my reason:
I can't get enough of her, there is only one of her and if she can't be there as much as I need, then She should allow me the next best thing, her best friend. This would only bring us closer together. If she can't go through with this, then she should just give me oral and cook me a good meal.... right?

2006-12-28 02:50:26 · 29 answers · asked by jairman2004 2 in Singles & Dating

He will be gone for over a year.
How do I help her through this? You guys got any good ideas?

2006-12-28 02:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by goddess1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im not sure if my bf is cheating on me how do i tell

2006-12-28 02:49:09 · 17 answers · asked by adorable_cowgirl_16 1 in Singles & Dating

what should you do if you found out your man for 5 yrs and living together for 5 months, told u last night that is was born in a different year then i thought. my man told me his was born in 1970 but i saw his birth certificate shows 1976.he told me that he had to change his age, so he can get a visa to come into the united states. it bothers me because he lied, but in all reality he is only 2 years younger than me.
answer other open question. thanks.

2006-12-28 02:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wife married 2mnths ago we were trying for kids.Everything was okuntill we had a terible row before we new she was pregnant i turned a table over in pub i have done eveything to change she did come back for 2weeks she said she loved me and missed me then i came home she asked to go for a walk andbookchristmas meal i said i was looking forward to baby then she said her mum wont forgive me and it wont work and she left again im 26 and im devastated please help

2006-12-28 02:48:26 · 17 answers · asked by DARREN C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is getting married to her fiance who she has been with for 4 years. Their wedding is planned for March 21 2007 and her soon to be mother in law said long time ago that she wanted to make the bridal dress. In the past week her mother in law's father passed away and she need to know if it would be inappropriate to talk about the making of the dress or if she should wait until the mother gets back home. O also the mother in law is in town visiting for Christmas now and lives in Bahrain so when she leaves she will be leaving the country.

2006-12-28 02:47:45 · 19 answers · asked by jackandjenninaz 2 in Weddings

Should I spend it with family or with friends?

2006-12-28 02:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by dymps 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with this guy for almost a year and I lost my V to him..after a couple of days he broke up wit me. So i figured that was all he wanted, what am I suppose to do?? I really like this guy and now its over, he won't even return my calls or anything. what am I going to do???? help!

2006-12-28 02:46:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend claims she was raped the first time she had sex, and the entire incident is kinda blurry in her memory when i asked her how/what happened ...when i asked her to tell me how it happened...she claimed she tried to blank it out of her memory, and when she tells me the "story", it doesn't make sense---its kinda fishy b'cos normally, you can't forget your first time, and a rape, im so sure its unforgetable.
And from there, if we try to have sex, she'd claim she wants to wait till she gets married. Another thing is, each time we fool around, and i finger her **** with one finger - my index finger, she claims it hurst because its tight.....i think thats a lie...people, she's almost 24..how tight could her **** be!!!?
We've been dating for 9months now, and i really do love her, but her stories are really questionable...i don't know her truth...what should i do...And I must also add that this is a long distant relationship.
Please poeple, what do y'all think

2006-12-28 02:45:57 · 38 answers · asked by davejones 1 in Singles & Dating

what dynamics govern it? do you talk about your affairs? is it required for you to do so?

2006-12-28 02:45:08 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating