what should you do if you found out your man for 5 yrs and living together for 5 months, told u last night that is was born in a different year then i thought. my man told me his was born in 1970 but i saw his birth certificate shows 1976.he told me that he had to change his age, so he can get a visa to come into the united states. it bothers me because he lied, but in all reality he is only 2 years younger than me.
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2006-12-28 02:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if it don't bother u what does it matter, u have been living together and love each other very much..
2006-12-28 03:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't think anything of it really, especially if he had to do it to get a visa! I mean yeah he was born in '76... but legally in this country he was born in '70 and he technically didn't lie the way I see it. Its just age, if it was something else then you could freak out. Just keep an open ear and brush it off.
2006-12-28 11:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like it - lying is never a good thing. Before I got married, I dated several guys who were significantly older then me and one of them lied and said he was younger because he wanted to make sure I would date him. When I found out, it really angered me because I thought if he could lie about his age, he could lie about anything. The relationship lasted maybe 3 months. I just couldn't trust him after that.
2006-12-28 10:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lie, is a lie, is a lie. Regardless of why he lied to others - he should have told you the truth. I know age is just a number, but he lied. Period. I've learnt the hard way that people who have "truth" issues will lie to anybody, regardless of love or marriage. BEWARE.
2006-12-28 11:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother changed her age on her license for personal reasons and my dad never thought she was untrustworthy. Seems like a silly thing to hold against him. It's not like he has a secret wife or something.
2006-12-28 11:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Candy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very angry and hurt that he lied to me. I would also have concerns that he lies about other things too. My advice?
Lose him. How can you ever trust this guy again?
2006-12-28 10:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would bother me a little but I would get over it...
2006-12-28 10:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what---age is only a number
if it upsets u that much -- dump him and move on
2006-12-28 11:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what difference does it make, he is legal age right?
2006-12-28 12:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he would lie about his age.... What else is he lying about???
2006-12-28 11:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by ahg30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋