I ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago. Since then, ive been enjoying the single life!lol
at the mo, i have 4 guys chasing me. im just getting used to the attention from guys again.
one of these guys i really really fancy. ive know him for a while. he was kind of chasing me when i was in my past relationship too.
we have kissed eachother a few times and i have stayed over his place a few times. he does want to take things further sexually though. i admit, i have been abit of a tease!lol
whenever i meet up with this guy, i dont hear from from him for weeks!he ignore my messages too so i end up chasing him. i eventually give up and he starts chasing me again, yet, when we meet up again the same thing happens all over again!
why is he behaving like this???hes the only guy im interested in!
hes the only one who knows about my past relationship as i met him through my ex. he knew my ex but they were never friends and my ex has now moved away.
2006-12-28 02:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when we are together he always wants to be around me and is always complimenting me.
we have been in contact with eachother for nearly 2 years now.
he is 29 and single.
i have heard that hes never had a girlfriend before and likes the chase.
2006-12-28 02:51:36 · update #1
Your just going to be a notch in his bedpost....move on!
2006-12-28 02:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that comes to my mind after reading this is "SO WHAT?" Gosh, you really need to meet some different guys. This guy is a huge waste! He has no real sincere interest in you - he's just f**king with you! Is he the only guy around? If so, or you've already ruled them all out, find somewhere else! I mean it, you'll look back at this question one day and be soooo embarrassed! Stop tripping! Get a hold of yourself- have some pride! I know you can do better - right?
2006-12-28 02:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the Dating Dance!
Its also called "The Principle of Least Interest". The person that holds the least interest holds the most power. Don't chase him. Completely ignore him. If not, find a guy that is a little less distracted, but it seems you're having fun after your recent breakup, so he's entitled to a little as well.
Remember, all is fair in love and war.
2006-12-28 02:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all sounds like silly chasing games to me...which are fun..but not if you never allow yourself to be caught...i dont know why you are asking this if you fully admit to being 'a bit of a tease'... boys and men will chase for so long...then bore...and take a step back...he wont chase you forever though so i suggest the next time you have the opportunity stop playing with him if you really want him...and go for it...or one day someone else will come along that holds his interest as much as you...but they will let him catch them...and he'll be gone...;0)
2006-12-28 04:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he has everything to gain from 'you' chasing him and nothing to lose. He just sounds like someone who enjoys the chase and I don't think guys like that ever equate to being good in relationships.
You should just go for someone who is interested in a relationship with you, I know that sounds boring. But a more devoted partner is much more stable for you in the long run...and much more lovable in my opinion.
2006-12-28 02:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Shaun W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you are getting chased by other men and you say you are teasing him.He probably thinks you are a bit of a tart and dosen't see a serious relationship happening.
Please don't take offence....i'm not saying you are a tart, you are probably a very nice person.
Just let him know he's onto a winner lol
Happy new year in advance.
2006-12-28 03:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Roxley x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted you when you were with someone else, now that your free and has had a taste of you he doesn't want any commitment it seems. When a woman has to chase a man - think of it as he has issues that don't include you. Move on - he's just not that in to you.
2006-12-28 03:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont chase him.be sure he loves you. I think he is making sure that you are intrested in him.If he is a genuine person you are lucky. All the best.
2006-12-28 02:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it a go! you never know it might work or it might not, if it doesn't then you've still got other choices.
Enjoy your life and don't let others put you off.
2006-12-28 02:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by dave a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes taking the piss love move on hes not interested in you.
2006-12-28 04:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by karen. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋