He says that he wants me to have his kids. We've been going out for like 6 months and tells me he loves me very much and that he wants me to have his kids. I know what it means, but what do u guys think?
2006-12-28 02:55:44 · 16 answers · asked by laura m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't want kids yet he has said so and plus he's way 2 busy 2 have kids yet and we both know that. Im not going to have any kids wait, so its not like im gonna get started after he said that.
2006-12-28 03:04:57 · update #1
For some of u wondering (like one of u that already is) yes I do love him. Im not just stringing him along
2006-12-28 03:08:20 · update #2
He is a crazy son of a *****, he is really attached at such an early point. He is probably a really jealous person and maybe to possisive. Sounds like a bad idea to me.
2006-12-28 02:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by daxzakk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is ready for a family. Unfortunately, not so ready for you; you are just the women he met. When guys are "ready" and are done dating, it could be any woman standing in front of them and they would say the same thing. You should wait for a guy who wants you, not the fruit of your loins.
Who knows, if you think this guy is the greatest thing around, and you share the same goals, wait another 6 months or so (maybe get an engagement ring) and get started. Of course, make sure he isn't some loser who will be unfaithful while you have the children.
2006-12-28 03:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Squirtle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's crazy about you! If you don't see this guy as being someone that you would want to spend the rest of your life with let him down easy. I didn't see you mention that you are also in love with him and it would cruel to string him along any further. A quick break is the best bet and please don't get involved with the "let's just be friends" option. That can never happen if he has these feelings.
2006-12-28 03:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Johann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like some kind of marriage proposal. Flimsy though. He can do better. Don't do anything rash after only 6 months. If you have to ask on here it's too soon for kids anyway.
2006-12-28 03:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to wait a while longer. Seems like a strong statement this early in the dating game. He hasnt even asked you to marry him yet and he is already talking of starting a family?
2006-12-28 03:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have his kids then. I mean geez, if that's what he wants.
Maybe you should have other guys' kids though too. I mean hey, you could be the genetically perfect woman.
We'll call you the next Eve, and you can repopulate the planet with perfect kids.
2006-12-28 02:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a little soon for 6 months of dating
2006-12-28 02:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by katzgto67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful. He could be sincere or just looking to keep you around and loyal. Guys will say anything to get what they want, but there are good guys too.
2006-12-28 03:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should cosider thinking about the pros and cons of having kids. don't just go and have them like that because in the long run u may regret it. think about it try talking to ur parents and ask what they think about it theyALWAYS know!!!
well i wish the best of luck to u!! >.< :]
2006-12-28 03:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to have his kids.....in english it means this....I want to get into your pants and screw you so i am telling you this now so that you will let me have you...but if you dont let me then i will go find another girl and tell her that i want her to have my kids.
2006-12-28 03:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by snowsnake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋