If you were 30 and had a choice to marry a very young-looking model gorgeous 36 yr old chick or a nice but plain average looking 27 year old girl which would you choose ?
Not date, marry.
The only difference in personalites is the 35 yr old is more easy going, stable and happy and the 27 year old is more demanding, volatile & picky.
Also the 35 yr old has 250k in the bank while the 27 year old has over 100k in student loans and credit card bills.
Which would you choose ?
2006-12-28 02:56:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The older one wants kids in a couple years, the younger one wants to wait at least 7-8 years.
Im closer to settling down.
2006-12-28 03:40:23 · update #1
The money wouldnt matter to me, I think I would go for the older lady. Just because of her personality, I think I would be able to relax when I come home from work much easier with her description.
2006-12-28 03:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by xeraphile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your long-term goals are.
If I wanted to raise a family and kids were important to me I'd probably opt for the younger plain chick. If I already had a kid and just wanted an easy quiet life, I'd opt for the older hot chick.
2006-12-28 11:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by iblockidiots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i truly hate questions like this because even if they are based on reality they are not real ---- for me in this case the older lady --- not for the money for the personality --- and the thing that has not been considered is what are the feelings that these people have for each other???
now in real life i would go with the younger MUCH younger lady with no money but beautful in mind soul and body who loves me as much as i love her
2006-12-28 11:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having to debate who to marry based on age, looks, and money, then you probably shouldn't marry either of them. You should marry a person that you are in love with and want to be with for the rest of your life, regardless of looks and money.
2006-12-28 11:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by redrum42482 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For marriage, the younger one...she's going to be able to bare the children and since she's plain, she'll probably make the better mom.
2006-12-28 11:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by SIMON ADEBISI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, arch ^ summed it up well. They should pick whoever they are happiest with, connect best with, and get along with best. Money, looks, and age shouldn't matter.
2006-12-28 11:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered it yourself... who'd want volatile, demanding, or picky???? Although you are being a little bit shallow by going with who has more money...
2006-12-28 11:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose from the heart not the wallet, and the one thats really cares for you and the one that makes you the happiest
2006-12-28 10:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋