2006-12-28 01:49:37 · 21 answers · asked by a143shane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you're spending toooooooo much time here
2006-12-28 01:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey! I can't get one too! LOL. It just seems more depressing when you try harder and you fail right? Worse of all, the holiday season makes you feel even more lonely. Like christmas-the season of love! I feel exactly the same way as you do! but I guess the right one will always be there waiting for you. Maybe what you need is an opportunity or even some initiative? Always remember that a bf is not something that you should ever 'GET' because a relationship loses its true meaning when that happens. I know it can be tough, wanting a shoulder to lean on, a person to share your joy and tears but if it's true love, it's worth waiting for right? Good luck and be patient! =)
2006-12-28 10:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by jingz2404 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to communicate to a guy that you are interested in him without being perceived as desperate. This is, of course, easier said than done. Perhaps you should try catching his eye, look into them for a little while so he knows that you noticed him, then smile (the important part is the smile after catching his eye). Do this repeatedly until he comes to talk to you.
You are trying to get him to understand that you would actually like it for him to come and talk to you. If you keep your head down and don't look at him before any discussion, then he won't be able to work up the courage to talk to you blindly. Or he will assume you are not interested, with someone...
Then, once you get him talking, again make lots of eye contact, it is how we communicate "interest". And finally, before you disengage the conversation, be sure you set up the next time to talk (pick you up Friday at 7 for dinner). Keep in mind, most guys, especially nice guys, are more nervous about this than you, there is nothing worse than rejection!!!
Good luck!!!
2006-12-28 10:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem insecure so u ahfta get off the pity ride and put yrself out there,ther r manyyyyyy fis hin the sea.u'll find some one just for ya.b frendly,sweet and don't b an open book cuz ppl ike mystery and the key to not getting hurt is gaining other guy's trust and letting them in yr life veryy slowly,good luck now
2006-12-28 09:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by 321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are young and in the prime of life. When you are older and have dated so many men, you will be asking, "Why can't I find the RIGHT bf?"
2006-12-28 09:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, take your time they are not always what they seem. Don't look for a BF just wait, in time he will come to you. Trust me
2006-12-28 09:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by mookie_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend or best friend? Live your life. If you focus on all the things you enjoy and live your life to the fullest, eventually the other things will come when you least expect it.
2006-12-28 10:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi ,my suggestion is being free is very good for ur freedom,and if u have b/f u will b always in tense.oh!i have to meet him.oh! if our parents comes to know about it what will b their reaction.it will give u lot of mental disturbance.so try to b freeeeeee and enjoy ur life wid ur bro"s and ur sis"s.k.best of luck.
2006-12-28 10:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by lallan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dry your tears. keep smiling and you will get one. Good luck.
2006-12-28 09:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for to much in a guy (being to picky.) Are you shy? We have to know a little more about you to help you out....
2006-12-28 09:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by mi_lil_skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the freaking club
2006-12-28 09:51:49 · answer #11 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋