2006-12-28 01:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by Alberto G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes a man can deal with the death of his wife and daughter. Of course there needs to be time for healing, so that he can not move on, but be able to live life once again. A support group is really necessary for healing. Bottling everything in is not healthy and will not lead to ultimate healing. Being with people who can support you and have gone through similar experiences is necessary.
2006-12-28 01:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing loved ones is always terrible, no matter how it happens.There is no one single answer to your question. Grief can be and often is overwhelming. Religion helps many people get through their time of loss.Friends and family support help also. In the end we as individuals have to deal with our losses in our own way as no other person can feel or understand how we feel. Time helps to soften the grief you feel although for most it will never go away. We feel the loss of their potential in life along with their love. We should celebrate a persons life and be grateful that if even for a short time they were a part of our life giving us the gift of having been a part of our lives and of letting us be a part of theirs.
2006-12-28 02:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing what the human spirit can deal with if needed. I don't know if you are asking for yourself or someone else, but my heart goes out to whomever. It would be a tremendous loss & very hard to accept, but time will eventually lessen the pain. Support groups can be very helpful, either in the community or online ones, you can share feelings with others who are going trough the same grief. God bless.
2006-12-28 01:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by harlowtoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! A man can "Deal" with "The Death" of A Loved One!
I "Deal" with the death of my 1st Born Daughter everyday! She has been gone for 24Yrs. now.
A Man or Woman knows that Life is Death, and accepts that fact!
I don't "Ponder" and "Regret" not having Her here; I know She is in "A Better Place," and I will see Her again, in my "Due-Time."
Remember this, if you start to "give-up" or let sorrow control your every thought and feeling, then you won't want to "Live" because you just "Lost" the last minute, and you will never get it back! Keep your Loved Ones in your Heart allways, but never look back, allways continue to look forward! They don't want you to be in despair over their death! They want you to Live and enjoy each day that you have, because they are still in your Heart, where it matters the most!
We are never alone; unless we want to be, and that is "a death," itself! You can "Share" yourself with others, just like they are the one's that were "Lost" to you!
Besides, you could bring the same "Joy" to a total stranger, the same as if it were your Loved One's, couldn't you?
That is "dealing" with "A Loss," by "Living-Life" itself, and knowing that your Loved One's will "Rest Easy" because you are moving Forward in your Life! Proud to "Share" what you had with them, with another Soul(Person), who can feel that same Love that you gave to another....
Have Faith! Believe that you can "Share" yourself with another and that your Loved One's would want you to do that! For your sake and theirs!!
Good Luck with this; remember enjoy everyday to your best ability, and you will see how well it is too "Cope"(Deal) with this issue...
2006-12-28 02:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by 1moe4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to have the support of a very close family member or friend.. I dont think I could deal with that ..I would probably end up in the funny farm.doped up ..I am not strong enough to take my own life. Good Luck to you or who-ever this has happened to.
2006-12-28 01:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,.... You have onee of the most ultimate challenges ahead of you. We as humans think that there is no way we can deal with things but somehow we do. I can't even think about losing one of my kids without getting all choked up, my heart goes out to you.This is going to be a long tough road for you, and you know you will never get over it just through it. i believe they have groups for people who have lost loved ones my aunt lost a son and a husband and she attended this group for people that lost family and this really helped her alot. I hope that you go to one of these groups and you won't feel so alone going through this. And you will get through it. so sorry for your loss.
2006-12-28 02:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he can .. just put your trust in the lord and he'll see you through anything.. also the thoughtfulness of family and friends play a big part of this too.. but hold your head up .. you did all that you could while they were here and if you did'nt go visit thier grave and ask for thier forgiveness and then take it to god and let it go.. good luck and god bless.
2006-12-28 01:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine this happening to me and I really don't think I could. I would wish this to never happen to anyone but I guess we all must go on and they say time heals all but I really don't know? Heart felt sorrow to you.
2006-12-28 01:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...although it will be a long hard road.....my heart goes out to you.....it is a terrible terrible tragedy.....with time the pain will lessen but you will never totally get over the loss.....take time to heal and keep yourself healthy...they would want that....best of luck to you
2006-12-28 01:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that must be so very hard. there choices, deal with it or don't. but i believe only time and love can make through that.
2006-12-28 03:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋