i need help pzl.............................................?

Question

there are like 8 boys that like corner me A LOT and grab my hip ang bottum and top i have told someone but it just gets worse and im kind of scared to tell someone now how do i get them to qute (im still in school)

Answer 1

Sweetie they do it because you won't go to anyone for help and they know it and because you won't they think you enjoy it. Put a stop to it. Not only is it abusive it is very degrading to you.You don't want the reputation that will follow either.

Answer 2

They are crossing the line. 1st tell them sternly, without giggling or smiling that they should stop touching you and that they are making your nervous, scaring you, bothering you, or you simply don't want them to touch you period..however you have to say, but you have to tell them. Then you need to inform a teacher or other school authority that this is going on. The school can't do anything until you tell them 1st. Once you have informed the boys, then they are breaking the law. IF you told your father or brother, I'm sure there would be some issues. Father's don't like to hear that some guy is maulling their daughter!!!!
This is an awkward situation as some people might claim rape, some people may say that you were asking for it(blaming the victim). Having only heard your side of this story, until you tell them to stop doing it, while innapropriate, they are not breaking the law. You have to tell them before anyone else can do anything. Once they have been told to stop, then they wrong by anyone's account. No means no, but you have to say no, you can't kinda mean it or infer it. As devil's advocate, they may think that you like it. Or they are not aware that you have the feelings about this situation that you do. Do they do this when they are together or do they do this individually? If it's a group activity, do they behave this way with other girls? There may be a mob mentality that needs to be dealt with by the school...assuming this occurs while in school. IF these are guys who do this on their own accord, then you may be sending out signals that you like this kind of behavior. You may want to evaluate your conduct if the later is the case. I'm not saying that you are asking for it or that you deserve it, but you may carry yourself in a way that society deems innapropriate and thus may be setting yourself up for this kind of attention. You don't run through Central Park waving a bag full of money. Bankers won't come up to you, but thieves will.

Answer 3

First don't go places alone (witnesses). Second try to change your route to your classes. Third you need to tell an adult, talk to the counselor at your school. You do not need to be scared at school and these boys need to realize that this kind of action is WRONG.

Answer 4

if you want to get rid of of them, the first is that you have to become bold and strong enough.because these types of boyz generally dont trouble the girl with bold personality. Because they are scared that if any time they are scolded by a girl they would loose their prestige.Next you could do is to ask for help from your elders before the time passes too much

Answer 5

You need to tell someone: your parents, a teacher, clergy, or a cop. Their behavior is criminal. If you don't do anything, their behavior will only get worst, and you could become a rape victim.

Answer 6

You need to tell the school officials, your parents. This needs to stop!! They have no right to touch you!!!!!

Answer 7

try the police they may be able to help --- take no guff from them you need to be protected from idiots like that

Answer 8

u need to tell somebody before it get worse, who knows what they might do