What do you do when your guy has another woman that won't go away? That insists that they have future plans,

Question

the woman tells me that they have made future plans, I know that his lease is up where we live in Feb. and I am wondering if I should believe him or her, she is on a lot of drugs and he did kick her out. She wants to meet him face to face to exchange somethings they still have of each others. He says he don't want to . what should i DO? Should I encourage it? and get it over with, or just keep playing this game that is driving me insane?

Answer 1

Even though you'd like to believe him, it's more likely you can believe her. But none of that really matters. Get out of their business.

Give him a few weeks to get this mess cleaned up. Don't see or talk to him again until he can focus on you (and no one else).

Answer 2

well I know what I would do I would meet up with the other person and tell him/her if you dont leave my boy/girlfriend alone then we will have problems then handle it if things proceed on. Aswell he should know that it makes you fell uncomfutable for them still talking and let him know what she is saying. what ever you do dont play the game. If he is playing the both of you it will hurt if you love him but let him know that you wont be played and you wont take it if he loves you he will make the right choice. But in the end everyhting will trun out for the good.

Answer 3

PUT AS MUCH DISTANCE BETWEEN YOU AND HIM AS POSSIBLE. If a guy hasn't committed to be with you completely and exclusively, he never will. He is already got one cake he can eat while he can nibble on the other. YOU DON'T NEED THE DRAMA. Trust me I know from personal experience (and I won't tell you about that now or ever).

Answer 4

whoa...this is a mess...tell him to clean it up or you are moving on.....you don't need this insanity....and if he loves you, he wouldn't make you put up with this.....good luck

Answer 5

get it over with.