i am helpless and confused what to do
2006-12-28 01:26:01 · 16 answers · asked by inimayan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is talking to me nice yet now i have doubt that she also loves me but not expressing to me due to some reasons i am confused what to do and how to make her accepting me
2006-12-28 01:34:49 · update #1
Honey like Bonnie Raitt said....I can't make you love me ,,,if you don't!! So move on man!! find one who's heart is open to you!!
And you're not confused you are afraid!!
2006-12-28 13:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something wrong with you. how can you keep loving a girl who clearly rejects you for 10 years, it is really a long time. Do you want to create a record or are you gone mad, man you need a check up. Take a pill of wisdom and find a girl that accepts you..and do not take 10 more years..
2006-12-28 01:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Hamid B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does she refuse -your friendhip or your proposal for a marriage? How old are you? Is the girl already married?
Assuming that you are at least 28 years of age and she around 25 or so, this would mean that she only wants your friendship, and not any other relationship with you.
You should talk to her freely and find out what is in her mind in respect of your love and whether she wants to continue her friendship with you even if she spurns your love. This would help you to find out what she wants to do with her future, and accordingly you can decide your next move.
2006-12-28 01:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love a girl, when i proposed i ws tense that if she is going to accept it or not, at last she accepted. But now i feel that i ws well/better earlier this. my friend loving sm one is not bad, love is gr8 it makes u nice, simple, less selfish.
U cant stop ur self to love, n u cant help ur self to forget herself, as if i m not wrong u r having a gooood memory(of past 10 yrs). the thing that u can do is continue ur love, try to make u busy in other work, there is nothing gr8 in forgeting her, try to get the true love from ur parents, n u wl definitly forget her when by gods grace u wl get a true love. all the best
2006-12-28 02:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she refuses there is no way u can force ur attentions on her u must go on in ur life u may not forget but someother person may enter ur life love should b on both sides there is a saying if u really love something or someone let thm go if its urs it will come back to u if it does not thn it was never urs. so all the best 4 ur future
2006-12-28 01:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by ahsu254 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't love you after 10 years, there's not much you can do bud. Either love is there or it's not. It's time to let it go.
2006-12-28 01:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
repeat after me, "i am gonna let her go"
see, leave her alone, she's nice to u, kudos to her and good for u, leave it at tht.... if she wants more, she'll let u know.... n if she refuses n then never talks about it again, she probably wants it forgotten....
now its upto her... dont keep going after her or appear like u r begging... the day u get over her, u'll lose sm self respect n hate urself for doing such things, honestly...
anyway, ur call... u know her better
2006-12-28 06:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by priyanka g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam very happy that you are loving a girl for 10 yrs still refuses you are nut go to a doctor i fail understand one how did you manage for 10 damn yrs slap her hard and say go to hell she will come after you sorry buddy don't angry with my words
2006-12-28 01:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by venkatraman s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there..we all go through these problems!!!
be strong and focus on someone or something else that makes u happy!!!
if she doesnt like u then u have to try your best to forget her ok,even if it hurts u have to
all the best
2006-12-28 01:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See,if she refuses that means that there is something missing in your attitude.Try to find it out and change it
2006-12-28 01:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kaustabh R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋