I mean don’t get me wrong I have no intension of staying a virgin all my life just till I meet someone special and settle down and get married. But what can I do in the mean time, because I am a 24 year old male and think about sex all the time. Is anyone else in the same position as me waiting to have sex until after marriage? If so what did you do to keep your mind off sex?
2006-12-28 01:27:28 · 22 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get sex to keep your mind off sex.
2006-12-28 01:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
There is a saying that goes:where there is a will, there is a way. If u have been a virgin all this while because you want to meet someone special, settle down and get married , i would like to say a big CONGRATULATIONS!!!
It is the heart that decides and the brain sends these feelings to the rest of the body.
It is not easy to stay away from sex, but i would like to encourage you to do things that would make you relaxed. There is a saying that an idle mind is the devil's workshop. You could take a stroll everyday, read novels, be with friends and discuss on things that will benefit your life. If you love to listen to music, do so. There are many music that corrupt good manners Avoid them! Listen to music that will improve your life style and that will make you feel relaxed and happy when you feel tensed and in the mood for sex.
I have a very closed friend who is 30 now. When he was 26 years old, he was still single. He was a strong christian. It was very tempting for him then. He read his bible and tried to keep himself busy by reading books and listening to music that encouraged him. He found the right girl when he clocked 27. He is now married to a beautiful woman, a very nice one and has a 1 year old child. Focus on life everyday and avoid thinking of sex. Any time that thought comes , quickly look for some thing you really love to do, FOR EXaMPLE, WATCH tv. As i said , where there is a will, there is a way.
2006-12-28 02:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ella 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, this problem is more common in men than women. But I am 21 and a virgin as well. I commend you for holding out this long and would encourage you to continue to do so until the day you get married, which is what I also intend to do. The only advice that I can give you, because I am a Christian, is to pray and ask God for his help and in time this will be a thing of the past.
You are the first man that I have ever spoken to who claims to still be a virgin, and it's good to know that I am not alone in my beliefs because I was beginning to think I was. God Bless You.
2006-12-28 01:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by lil_bit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trevor
Perhaps I can help you.....I am into both women and men. At the moment I'm into women so we can talk without any problems. Give me a shout on my IM or send me an email maybe we could be talk and be friends...........
Waiting I think is admirable - so keep it up.
Women love men who have decided to wait - it means that they are more likely to be patient lovers and not rush and come too quickly.
A more experienced woman will also enjoy teaching you how to please her and will help you explore your own sensuality. She can show you how to maximise her and your own pleasure. It can be a truly beautiful and erotic experience that is well worth waiting for.
If this is what you want...let me know.....
P.S In the meantime I would investigate exercise which will help you maintain an erection, strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and explore your own body so that you will have some idea about what your own needs are.
Again, if you need help with any of this please let me know....
2006-12-28 02:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an impossible task to undertake. If you're anything like my hubby, he must think about sex at least every 5 seconds. I think it was actually said that men think about sex every 6 seconds. So, looks as if you've just got to put up with it.
2006-12-28 01:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only solution is sex itself . . . . i'd start getting down on bended knee and asking girls to get married or change my principles.
2006-12-28 01:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Genetically Modified 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
think or England, remember to collect the dry cleaning...notice how the ceiling needs painting....ooops I thought you meant what you think of while having sex x
2006-12-28 01:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why on earth would you want to take your mind off sex? madness!
2006-12-28 05:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why not get a big leather whip and every time you think about sex, you should kneel before the wrath of god and whip yourself.
2006-12-28 01:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have a w*nk.
Seriously! That wasn't a joke comment. It's the only thing that you can do.
2006-12-28 01:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by Buck Flair 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋