we make love and or do other loving acts? i think its cute. and it started because of me not him. i didnt have a job at the time and was joking suggesting it and he liked it. he just likes giving me money and stuff all the time. is it still bad?
2006-12-28 02:13:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do have a real job now.
2006-12-28 02:22:27 · update #1
I've done this with my boyfriends before and there is nothing wrong with it.......actually it can help you preform better....sort like an incentive!!! :)
2006-12-28 02:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by CURVY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to give you money, he should do it at a time other than after sex. While it seems cute now, you're both at a high risk of later associating sex with money, which will be bad news if he doesn't have money at some time. Now that you have a job, you don't need his money. If he really wants to give you something, he can find other ways to shower you.
2006-12-28 02:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like anything other than a little bit of fantasy being acted out on his part. And I'm sure you love getting the money.
Prostitution is when you perform sex acts in exchange for monetary compensation.
You're performing sex acts on your boyfriend, because you want to. You're not doing it for the money.
I wouldn't worry about this... unless you get the feeling that he's paying other people too....
2006-12-28 02:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a fantasy for some women, but after a while its just rude and should make you feel like a hooker, unless thats what you want each time after the act is done
2006-12-28 02:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing and I am a guy. The girl would give me money afterwards and at first I felt ackward, but then I thought about it and I decided that if she had no problem with it, then why should I.
2006-12-28 02:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Smartypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both viewing it as a game, then no what does it matter. But if he ever starts to treat you like a real prostitute, than I think it has gone too far, and you should end the relationship.
2006-12-28 02:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by gypsyiiiis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one of the most degrading things I've ever heard. Now that you have a job, what do you need with his money? I'd tell him to stop treating me like a common whore.
2006-12-28 04:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship have there little quirks like that. if both of you only see it as that - a game- then i see no problem with it. When either of you start feeling like its demeaning then theres a problem. Me and My husband used to pretend we were strangers and try to get each other into bed for a 'one night stand', it was a game we used to play and kept things interesting.
2006-12-28 02:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jaidyn_mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wonder about the state of his morals, after all he is essentially buying sex from you. Maybe it is just a bit of harmless fun but you'd never catch me paying for any sexual activity. What happens down the line? How does he really see you?
2006-12-28 18:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I joke about paying eachother for it, but we never actually have. If you two enjoy it and it isn't an issue that causes a problem, I don't see anything wrong with it.
2006-12-28 02:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i was wanting to ask this question too, but who cares, if you are in need, and you treat him like a boyfriend, who cares, im doing this to my bf too, and i told him that it was helping me, hes happy, im happy, so, don't worry. Find a job quickly and stop it while you still can.
2006-12-28 02:21:44 · answer #11 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋