Do i still love him?

Question

I know everyone says when you ask yourself this question it means your not in love but after asking successful couples how they felt at the beginning of their relationship they all 2nd guessed themselves and were "scared" about finally settling down...so here's my question

I am with an amazing guy who loves me unconditionally. He is incredibly attractive, great job, love for life, humourous, funny and my neighbour :P We started dating about 6 months ago and I think that we have entered the "comfort" stage. I still love spending time w/ him and LOVE having sex with him. It just scares me when I look into the future. I get really bad anxiety (which I have been diagnosed with) I just want to know if i am really in love. All of my other relationships have been based upon jealousy and I know he is not going anywhere so I am not jealous in the least.

Does it sound like love to you? It scares me to think of not having him in my life

What are the signs of falling OUT of love?

Answer 1

You need to tell him about your feelings. I have an anxiety disorder too and I know sometimes when I think about the future I get anxious about marrying the wrong person and getting divorced, never finding someone, and all sorts of things. But I talk about this with my boyfriend and he calms me down and helps me with my anxiety. This really shows me that he loves me and I love him because I am willing to share my fears and problems with him.

Answer 2

There are no signs of falling out of love, if you really care for someone than you will try to make it work. He sounds really great and you shouldnt based this relationship on the past. Think of it this way, will find anything better? If you mess this one up some other girl might get him and you will regret not making it work. Try not to stress it and see how he looks into your eyes and makes you feel.

Answer 3

Does he ignore you? Does he tell you he is busy when you want to do something with him? Does he make up silly excuses to get out of a situation? These are signs that he no longer likes or loves you. I think you mus chill outy and enjoy the moment. This does not happen everyday. A lot of people will kill for something like your relationship. You should ask yourself if you are mature enough to handle this relationship.

Answer 4

Forget about settling now , ( Family - Home - Kids etc.... ) let me first ask you : ( but don't laugh ) : does your heart still beats hard before your date with him , and when you see him coming , do you feel you are the happiest girl on earth , and when you make love , do you enjoy it and feel there is nothing on earth better than making love " WITH HIM SPECIFICALLY " ? if YES ...... you are simply in LOVE .

Now Future ? you say he is a good guy , so if you answer the first part with YES , what on earth can be sweeter ....???

Good Luck my friend

Magdi

Answer 5

Sounds like you love him but fear is holding you back.
The fear of the unknown is a powerful thing.
Just don't make him pay for your past relationships.

As far as what the future holds nobody knows. So just enjoy the time you have with him and lock the fear away.

He loves you. So just accept it and enjoy each other.

Answer 6

you definately like him! and sometimes, when you like someone a lot, he makes you feel safe, loved, wanted - love.

Try working this relationship one day at a time. Try not to look too much into the future. better yet, discuss the issue with your partner, his answer would eliviate your anxiety.

If you are scared to lose him, it means you care for him - deeply. try to dig deeper.

Answer 7

You know if you love him, your heart will tell you. Sometimes we all get nervous. If he is a good man stick with him, you don't have to marry him. Well not right away. To me it sound like you love him and he loves you.