Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

2006-12-20 01:08:19 · 11 answers · asked by martezjohnsonlang 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do u do when u have nothing to do, any bright ideas people ??

2006-12-20 01:07:00 · 16 answers · asked by Software_pro 2 in Friends

2006-12-20 01:06:56 · 18 answers · asked by jennyfromtheblock 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it different in the summer than the winter? Tell me ...

2006-12-20 01:06:48 · 10 answers · asked by Ju-C 2 in Singles & Dating

He sais that I am holding him back when in fact I think he is holding me back. He doesn't work and he doesn't do anything around the house to help. I work, go to school, go to all the parent teacher meetings. I understand that because of the stress I have gained weight but he shouldnt judge. He wants to be out with his friends 24/7 and I can't even speak to my sister on the phone. He sais I hold him back because if he was single he could do whatever he wanted. True, but he is not single and he is not supporting the house. Maybe I am making a big deal out of this but I think that he should be happy that he always have food on the table, clean clothes, the house is always clean. I own the house, I own the 2 new cars. What should I do?

2006-12-20 01:06:32 · 30 answers · asked by kayla_lopez_2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a lesbian relationship for almost 10 years. Half of those years has been long distance. My partner has a problem dealing with her anger. She often says I provoke her or even bring out the worse in her. Although I have been very cautious not to make her mad, she just often get easily pissed. She has been calling me bad names and cursing me. I just can't fight back and just end up crying. Then when she cools down, she apologizes and says she didn't mean what she said because she was just angry. I still can't recover from all the bad words. Most of the time I can't move on from the bad words she said to me. Call me stupid but I still keep on loving her. I can't ask anyone's help because our friends think she's cool and nice. I don't want to destroy her image and I feel no one would believe me. Our friends adore her that much and I know they would only think I'm being difficult that's why she gets angry. Please help me.

2006-12-20 01:06:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is from a different state ,different religion n working in an MNC.He is not expecting anything from me.Overall a nice person.I know him from 1&1/2 month n like him a lot.He keeps on saying he loves me.Haven't seen me yet.I think 1&1/2 month is tooo early to say anything.We can't trust someone this much early.We all love our friends but i am scared to disclose personal details.I don't think we can fall in love with someone through net in just 1&1/2 month.

2006-12-20 01:05:42 · 9 answers · asked by Gphm 1 in Friends

Parents would be wiser in picking a mate. We would not enter marrige with the head spinning expectation of lifelong rapture. Lust would be surplanted with respect and love.

2006-12-20 01:05:11 · 14 answers · asked by sdr35hw 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't stand drama queens (people that have to create drama where there really is no drama) and seem to have several of them in my life. How can I cope?

2006-12-20 01:04:38 · 14 answers · asked by Ikkin 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 01:04:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing this girl now on and off now for 6mths...we always fall out when we drink....i never needed the drink to be with her but she always liked to drink so i wouold as well....i have never flet love till i met her,,,,some asked me the other day what i like about her,,,and i couldnt answer,,,,i guess u cant help who you fall in love with for no matter what reason....she was very abusive towards me in drink....she even tryed stabbing me once,,,i need to know why now i still miss her and want her...am i so sad..all my friends have told me to get rid...and that i can do better,,,i know i can do better,,i aint that bad,,,,but just dont understand why i feel like i do about her,,,i know she is bad news,,,now that we arent together i have strarted to drink more,,,i have recgonized my problem now and am seeking help for it....but my appointment aint for another 2 wks,,,,im drinking to forget,,,but when i wake in the morning it just seems worse,,,,

2006-12-20 01:03:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and get mad when you give them some. A friend of my Sis asked me a question. Either she wanted me to lie or not answer at all. This Chick asked me that a guy she's been seeing won't commit to a steady relationship even though she's talked to him about it for a while. She asked why he won't commit. Ok Chicks, never ask a man a question if you want to hear a lie. I told the Babe that he didn't want to commit to her because he didn't feel like banging the same Chick everyday, that's the honest truth, but she gets mad at my answer.

2006-12-20 01:02:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I may be messed up for asking such a stupid questions but i was wondering if there are any people out there that are still living in the past and no matter what they do they can't seem to move on and be truly happy!I have been with my man for almost 10 yrs now besides the many times that i left him either for someone else or for some other stupid reasons but no matter what i did or what i said he would always take me back so i guess he truely do love me or he wouldn't have put up with all the **** i have put him through!!!We have been together over 4 yrs now without breaking up because i truly wants to make out relationship work not just for our sakes but for the will being of our 2 beautiful children!The thing is day in day out all i can think about is my messed up past not just the things i did but what he did too all of which i well deserved mine you but i still can't forget about it and it kills me inside,what should i do,any advice would be appreciated and no smart *** answers!!

2006-12-20 01:01:48 · 21 answers · asked by Baybee 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been broken up with my EX for 4 years (I broke it off cause he has a serious cocaine problem, and still does it after 4 years apart)..and I can't stop thinking about him, I think about him first thing in the morning, in the evening before I go to bed..I loved him enough to let him go B/C he's got a serious drug problem..we have a daughter 2gether that he doesn't do anything for.
I haven't had a relationship since I left him and he had one other relationship but when it ended he came running back to me and I wanted him back but said no cause he still has the problem and all he said was..if I get better u might lose me r u willing to risk that and I said for ur health and time for our daughter yes. But what he didn't plan was that he might lose me but I can honestly say he hasn't cause I want him to get well and maybe be a family again..in the mean time why can't I just move on?????? He's getting well supposely in another state but ignores us..is there such a thing as someone

2006-12-20 01:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please lighten up!!!!

Where have all the fun people gone??

2006-12-20 01:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

University term has ended. I won't see my friends for 3 weeks, I have no work and therefore no money for 3 weeks either. I'm so fed up, what can I do to cheer myself up?

2006-12-20 01:01:01 · 21 answers · asked by F 3 in Friends

2006-12-20 01:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by wannabrich69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm one of the most popular girls in my school and the guy I like only looks for preps but he hardly notices me. I'll get a quick hi here & there but that's all we ever say to eachother & I 'm to scared to start a conversation with him.

2006-12-20 01:00:15 · 10 answers · asked by Baby girl 2 in Singles & Dating

dnt want 2 lose both of the friendship, which mean a lot to me.

neither of them knows; my fren suggested that i ask his sister how he feels about me.

im confused;would a guy who likes you, delibrately provoke you, and hit you [playfully] bcs we've played fought couple days back, leaving him with few bruises.

cud it mean hes treating me abit like a sis/bro?

i rly dont know how to put the question into words

2006-12-20 00:59:53 · 4 answers · asked by egaboo23 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 00:59:13 · 21 answers · asked by Cook C 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 00:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by <AngeL> 1 in Friends

one erotic or exotic wish for Christmas ..... what would it be?

2006-12-20 00:58:22 · 15 answers · asked by cdnponygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i have this boy who like me but my friend tells me that he sappose to be dating another girl but every time tell my friend to go a ask him he says that the girl needs to stop claiming him when she knows that they dont go together!!!! I kind of want to hook up with him too but I dont know what to do.... SO PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!

2006-12-20 00:57:48 · 15 answers · asked by sexyandfly662 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy shows all the signs that he likes me, yet, after we meet up, he goes cold on me. i dont hear from him for weeks and he ignores my messages.

we havent slept together.

after a while he comes back again!!!

what does this mean???

he is single and is 28.

2006-12-20 00:55:51 · 18 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
Well I really really like this girl at work who is around 28 & I am only 22, I have given her hints sometimes that I like her but nothing worked I guess :( , Now I have known her for 6 months only, & problem is since she is around 28, if I did not tell her then she might get married, but for sure she is currently single ! I have this fear coz I liked someone in past who got married ! :(,
Now , do you think it would be weird if I tell her that I like her since been only 6 months & I see her sometimes only at lunch ...
If I wait too long, then she might get married, if I tell her soon, she might get hurt.. ! what should I do ?

2006-12-20 00:55:36 · 20 answers · asked by Dhruv 1 in Singles & Dating

he has made out with lots of girls and he is alot more experienced then i am. he told me that it felt so different with me. i grabbed his cheek while i kissed him and he said that it felt so sweet that most girls usually grab his a**. he also said he felt "feelings" when we kissed. are these good signs? please answer my question. Thanks!!

2006-12-20 00:53:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend of mine. n we've been frnds for the past eight yrs.. iit was quite strange the day before when i sent her my result of a test which she hadn't appeared! it was a damn good result i ahd topped in tht one. she started questioning me if it was my rsult.....

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i asked her if she wanted to join the test series then. she replied sayin"R U COMPETIN WITH ME" i told her tht i am preparing to compete wit whole india............. she gave me a very unexpected reply......sayin "r u crazy" "i don't give a ****" however it all ended up. then a lill later she sent a sms sayin tht she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore.
i just don't understand whts wit her. y is she behavin this way? am i wrong anywhere? wht should i do????

2006-12-20 00:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

knew D recently. D tells me some of the girls at his workplace are very pretty but he insists he never gone out with them even when they ask him out.
He says he's afraid they just want his riches n he looks for inner beauty.

When I jokingly ask if I am pretty, he says No I am not pretty .
How can this be?? I know I am not beauty queen but I think I am at least 7 out of 10 .
My friends tell me I'm quite pretty (and I didn't ask them)

D says No, I am only 5 out of 10 because I am really not pretty AT ALL.

then he says that he doesn't go for looks AT ALL because he is looking for a marriage partner and inner beauty.

How can this be?? Is he playing games?? what is happening?? Is he interested in me??

i thot he interested in me until he said I'm not pretty AT ALL.
GUYS WON'T LOVE SOMEONE THEY DON'T FIND PRETTY, RIGHT?? IS HE TELLING TRUTH?? WHICH PART IS LIE???

He's not handsome. but i dun think he's trying to make me feel insecure so i go w him & no one else??

2006-12-20 00:53:05 · 15 answers · asked by Woman321 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he has made out with lots of girls and he is alot more experienced then i am. he told me that it felt so different with me. i grabbed his cheek while i kissed him and he said that it felt so sweet that most girls usually grab his ***. he also said he felt "feelings" when we kissed. are these good signs? please answer my question. Thanks!!

2006-12-20 00:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I are both seeing new people sience we split like 5 months ago, but we are still sleeping together, it was soppose to be a no strings thing but we both admit we still have feelings for eachother.
Are we messing around eachothers minds or do you think theres ever a chancce of it working again?

2006-12-20 00:52:35 · 14 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Singles & Dating