My ex and I are both seeing new people sience we split like 5 months ago, but we are still sleeping together, it was soppose to be a no strings thing but we both admit we still have feelings for eachother.
Are we messing around eachothers minds or do you think theres ever a chancce of it working again?
2006-12-20 00:52:35 · 14 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should we just stay away from eachother!
2006-12-20 00:53:33 · update #1
You are both screwing with each others minds and when the new people in your lives find out...........you'll both be screwing their heads and feelings as well..........so now you'll have four P****d off people instead of two.
Cake and eating it springs to mind.
2006-12-20 00:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many couples do that until they are divorced or find a new partner. It's highly doubtful that you will get back together. It's just a matter of convenience right now for you. Although, there still may be a chance if you both try very hard. You will always have feelings for each other because you obviously loved each other, that will never change. Usually the second time never works but it does happen. Good luck with your decision. :)
2006-12-20 08:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky one as you only really know how you feel about it and regardless of what he says there is always the chance he wants more, or less than you.
Are you happy and doing what you want? If so then that's not so bad- but realise it may be better to have a break if you really want to break up rather than dragging it out hoping something else will come of it.
Be honest with yourself, and him. No strings has to be NO STRINGS to work.
2006-12-20 09:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be the fact that yous are just comfortable together and that why sleeping together feels right it can be very frighting starting over again you need to consider why yous broke up in the first place its not an ex for nothing if your relationship is fixable and they werent to serious issues you spilt over then yes yous could give it another go if it cant be you need to stop sleeping together and move on its not healthy on the heart or mind
2006-12-20 09:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, best of both worlds or what? Your either together and have a "open" relationship or you don't.
Decide what you want and stick to it, bet both of your "new" partners are not aware that you are still sleeping together, if not then your just lying to yourself them and each other.
2006-12-20 09:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't work, plain and simple.
People will be hurt, whether it be you, your ex, or your new partners, you will feel guilt whoever is hurt when the poo finally hits the fan.
Get out now (or try again) but do it quickly, you can't keep going on like this.
2006-12-20 09:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by NM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go back with him and both of you stop seeing others. Sounds like you're both still in love with each other.
2006-12-20 08:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both obviously care, why dont you try once more? ok it may not work but also the 5 months separation my be just what you needed....you cant get into another relationship all the while you still care for your ex....i would try one last time...at least then you can say you gave it all you got if it doesnt work...you tried!!
2006-12-20 08:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by sarah3000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are both idiots using the people you are now seeing you know the answer grow up and ask your ex to grow up sounds like you deserve each other
2006-12-20 09:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both still have feelings go for it whats the worst that could happen
2006-12-20 09:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Quinn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋