Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

I haven't been with a man for a while and i am really horn y. What can i do to keep me from going insane and what is the best way to go it?

2006-12-20 01:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 in Singles & Dating

she moved,we were talking on phone,but i have lost her number,and dont now address

2006-12-20 01:24:21 · 12 answers · asked by nikki w 1 in Friends

What's the best thing about having an intimate relationship with someone you truely love?

2006-12-20 01:24:21 · 12 answers · asked by Lue 2 in Singles & Dating

granddaugher (2) still live in the house with his spouse and he wants to go there christmas morning, without me, to see his granddaughter, in her own environment, open the gifts we bought her. should i be fine with this?

2006-12-20 01:23:35 · 16 answers · asked by CANDIE P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I did not purchase a gift for my mom's boyfriend this year...or any year in the past for that matter. I did not know I was expected to. Actually I don't really care for him anyways so I choose not to buy him a gift this year. She called me angry because she felt I was excluding him. I explained to her that money was tight this year and NOT everyone recieved a gift from us this year. I thought it was very rude that she would call and complain about not getting a gift. I should choose who I give to and not feel obligated to get him something just because he's dating her. Is there some kind of rule on who you should have to buy a gift for? When it gets right down to it...she's upset that I don't accept and embrace her boyfriend. As I said I don't really care for him. She is trying to force me to accept him by guilt tripping me into buying him a gift. Saying he bought me something. So how should I respond to her being upset that I did not purchase a gift for him?.

2006-12-20 01:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by michelled123456 1 in Singles & Dating

my long distance gf broke up with me about a month ago and since then ive been trying to get her back. she broke up with me over something so stupid cus of me anoying her about sumthing and it happend to fast. i dont want it to end over something so stupid. shes my life and we were meant to be together. since she isnt realy making arrangements to see me i asked one of her freidns if she can ask her to go to the mall with her to meet this guy. im gunna be there and give her her christmas present and hopefully a miracle with help her realize she misses me. i dont know what to say or do tho and i dont want to **** up possibly my only chance at winning my bub back.

2006-12-20 01:22:20 · 6 answers · asked by forevertillforever 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend keeps sending me text and asking us to do stuff together.I have thought about doing it once but then i thought of how my current boyfriend would feel and i decided not to.Is it wrong to think that way

2006-12-20 01:21:58 · 18 answers · asked by babes28 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, three weeks ago I cheated on my hubby. My husband is a good man who worked hard to give me anything I wanted. The one thing I hadnt been getting from him was emotional support. I was getting that from a coworker. And three weeks ago I had sex with him in the new SUV my hubby just baught for me. My hubby found out six days ago and threw me out. I discovered the man i had sex with does this sort of thig alot. I feel bad I have lost everything i.e. home cars,money and most of all my hubby. I talked to my hubby yesturday and he said he doesnt think he could ever trust me again. What do I Do?

2006-12-20 01:21:37 · 56 answers · asked by squeakyvette@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a clothing optional beach with four co workers and friends and I feel weird about it now that we are on Xmas break. My friends Jamie, Jackie, Tina, and Laura all saw me naked while they all stayed in their bikinis and skirts. I didnt have any inhibitions on showing my nude body to em but when we were lying on the beach towel it felt kind of nice to have the attention of the young ladies but once we got to start walking the shore, as we were walking I ended up getting a 3.5 inch erection and the girls started giggling and laughing. The rest of the day was a bit akward. What will the girls say about me? Will I be talked about? What will they tell their friends? I am worried now

2006-12-20 01:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by eastwood1870 1 in Friends

met a guy in May and when I did I told him that I had been an exotic dancer (years ago) upfront. He didn't seem to have a big problem with it. A little time went by and he started asking a ton of questions, poking and prodding. After a while of this I also disclosed to him that I had made a few adult movies. He looked them up and watched them (which I find disturbing on it's own-It's one thing to know about it another to view it) That didn't go over well with him.

We had time to go back and forth on the issue and while it bothered him, he did not ever mention leaving me. It seemed par for the course that he would have questions and need some answers but it always just turned into him running me down. I have never in my life been emotionally or psychologically attacked like that.

My father committed suicide in July and in this time he continued to watch the movies. He continued to browbeat be and bait and game me after I told him I think everything had been said on the issue. He was very insensitive to what I might have been going through.

In spite of all this, we married and I am expecting a child.

The problem is he still does it. Not as frequently but it still happens. He's gotten pretty creative on the topics though because he knows that one topic is a red flag for me.

He has criticized EVERYTHING I have ever done and yet he seems totally beyond reproach when it comes to anything. It's like I have no right whatsoever to be upset at anything, when I do get upset of course, I am acting crazy and there's something "wrong" with me.

I helped him move his stuff to my places months ago. He pulled out pictures of ex-girlfriends and wives and then packed them and brought them here anyways. When I asked him last week to get rid of them, they just sat there until last night when I blew a gasket about it. I don't think I'm overreacting, I think he's just selfish and self centered.

At this point the problem is ME--I don't care what he does or doesn't do or say anymore. I find I don't put much stock in what he has to offer. I just want to know how do I take care of myself to avoid getting any more hurt or angry.

What would you do? How would you solve this problem? I really can't go on being angry for what he has done forever and I can't walk around on pins and needles either.

Thanks for all advice.

2006-12-20 01:20:16 · 18 answers · asked by lostsadheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 01:20:13 · 6 answers · asked by niks08 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy shows all the signs that he likes me, yet, after we meet up, he goes cold on me. i dont hear from him for weeks and he ignores my messages.

we havent slept together.

after a while he comes back again!!!

what does this mean???

he is single and is 28.

2006-12-20 01:19:51 · 13 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

cause from amount and content of emails i am getting-think its Christmas vacation already.
Wow i need a drink

2006-12-20 01:19:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ermm....i've been knowing diz guy 4 very long...we met on da net...he's from another continent..i showed him my pic n he said i was very pretty...he said he's gonna come here next year...n he even showed me da flight ticket...he says he luv me very much.....but i dont...i had to play along so i said i luved him too...who knew he would really fly all da way here?!!helpp!!!

2006-12-20 01:17:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 01:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by heartbreak ahead 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 01:16:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for the loonngest time and whats some ideas we can do for a b-day? surprize or non surprize im up for ideas...

2006-12-20 01:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by Diesel2NV 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a guy living in egypt and i have 15 yrs old and i love a famous girl living in california "emily osment " if u know her . And i have more than 4 email adresses of her , and all are just posers , and i am sure of only one of them , so please help me ah and i am living in egypt "15yrs" hard ,right? answer

2006-12-20 01:15:47 · 9 answers · asked by omar_aref91 1 in Singles & Dating

everyone tells me I did the right thing by letting him go (cause of his drug probelm) I love him enough to let him go and find himself cause he's lost and has three children..why doesn't he see that I loved him enough to let him go and figure things out and find himself and learn about himself why does he hate me?? I love the guy and want him to realize on his own that he's messing up his life with drugs why does he hate me?? And in turn has his family hating me to>>>?? y? I know I did the right thing!! UY doesn't he see that? its been 4 years and he still hates me and he still has the same problem.

2006-12-20 01:15:44 · 14 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter in law has never liked me and I have tried with her as everybody said I will lose my son. And I have. I have just seen them for a few minutes and as my mother has died, and still they are off. I have written e mails and texts to them especially after what has happened to be friends and they won't. She wouldn't let him come to my mum's funeral, and I had argued with her badly on this. And they didn't come. My mum died in pain and nobody was there for her other than me. My husband (not his father) says they are not worth bothering with.

2006-12-20 01:13:51 · 30 answers · asked by elliebear 2 in Family

like after your Xmas party at school, you have a vacation. but you will miss your friends.how's that?

2006-12-20 01:13:13 · 6 answers · asked by aklik11 1 in Friends

We have been together exactly 10 years today and he still doesn't forgot that today is also my birthday. Not a happy birthday or a happy aniversary. What a day. I feel like I want to cry and the day just started.

2006-12-20 01:12:44 · 25 answers · asked by kayla_lopez_2006 1 in Family

Ok i'm 24 just got out of a FWB relationship with 35 year old woman, she was sleeping with another man who had a girlfriend. She is divorced with 3 kids and we used to work together in the same company and now everybody knows what was happening. Oops!!

2006-12-20 01:12:31 · 8 answers · asked by dfsdgd d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 01:11:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 01:10:58 · 6 answers · asked by Emily N 1 in Singles & Dating

also dnt have gf

2006-12-20 01:10:44 · 15 answers · asked by Jonny 1 in Singles & Dating

Went through mediation and case management conference already. Agreed on everything at the time but now things are getting ugly. Final hearing is Jan 5.

2006-12-20 01:10:12 · 10 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok me and my new girlfriend have dated for about 3 weeks. When i met her it was as if it was love at first sight. I never really planned on having sex anytime soon, for the fact that sexual intercourse makes the relationship complicated, and she is a virgin. I have been being very sweet to her, asking her out by sending her a cake with "will you go out with me on it?" and sending her flowers when she is sick, and taking her out to the movies, and dinner, and always opening doors for her. I am just not the type of guy who just want's to have sex all the time or anything, but i want to give her what she want's, and she has told me she wants me to be her first. I mean i want this also, but i just don't know if it is too soon.

2006-12-20 01:09:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

enery thing hes my boo

2006-12-20 01:09:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, she is 28, I am 22, work at same place, & know each other for 6 months but mostly as colleagues.. I really really like her.... now want to tell her that.... problem is for that I need to ask her out for lunch etc.... what fi when I ask she says " Why? Whats the matter ? if there is anything tell it now ", then I will be totally stumped... Believe me ... she might ask this... coz it will be unusual for her & then me saying just for hanging out .. could be really weird...

Please tell me... how should I ask her out so that I can tell her that I like her.. ! :(

2006-12-20 01:09:18 · 7 answers · asked by Dhruv 1 in Singles & Dating