Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

I cheated on my husband 3 1/2 years ago right after we had our son. (2 months) We separated 1 year after it happened, I got pregnant with our daughter and we got back together. We have been together ever since and I am now 6 1/2 months pregnant with our 3rd kid. He still is having a difficult time letting go. What can I do to help him let go. We tried counseling, but it didnt work. He lets his mind wonder alot and he doesnt know what to do. I have TOTALLY changed my ways and would do ANYTHING for him. I made a huge mistake and I learned from it. He see's my changes, but he just doesnt know what to do to feel better. Any suggestions?

2006-12-20 02:38:41 · 19 answers · asked by need advice badly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 02:37:33 · 25 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

1) my cousin is gay. I found out when I was at a gay bar dancing one night with friends. I'm the only one that knows and totally accept it. My family is very old fashioned but he still wants to bring his bf along. I told him xmas probably isn't the best time to come out of the closet but if he wants to, i'd be there to support him if things get rough. Should I dicourage him from comming out and just say his friend is spending xmas alone and that's why he came along? I don't want him to get hurt. I can see someone saying, "you ruined christmas."

2) my family is obsessed with education and always comes down on me for not going to university like my brothers and cousins. I plan to go to school one day but i enjoy spending my time moving around to different places, painting, and working in hotels. I just don't want to hear for the millionth time, "look at your cousin Sue....blah, blah, blah."

Any advice on either or both situations would be great guys.

2006-12-20 02:36:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I"m 27-about to be 28 and I met this real handsome 25 year old guy(won't be 26 until summer). He's very smart, and in med school. I know it's only a couple years, but I've never dated anyone younger than me before.

Also, in this age bracket, I'm looking for who will be my life partner(not marry tomorrow, but want to be in serious relationship) whereas I'm afraid someone his age might still be in the playing stage

We haven't even gone on a date yet, so he might be very mature, or heck, we might not even like eachother, but I was just wondering about others experience with this.

Thanks!

2006-12-20 02:36:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it that the men i want in my life never feel the same way about me.and the ones i don't really have any interest in are all over me.its really depressing me at the moment.am i not attractive enough.i am a shy person with the opposite sex but i don't know why.i think 'm scared of getting hurt just like i am being hurt at the moment.so why don't men want me?

2006-12-20 02:35:39 · 15 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a friend oh is datin sum1 her friends hate with a passion!!! well they like to play around and stuff.....but......wen he gets in a bad mood and she dont know it she will hit him but she is just messin around and he punches her back and it pisses me off but i try not to getin it cuz it aint my problem!! but is there nething i can do to get him to stop wat he is doing?? does he really love her or not??

2006-12-20 02:35:29 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren C 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and i have no guy friends AT ALL most probably because i don't go to church ( don't ask me to go) and I am studying in an all-girls school. I live alone and I feel like having a boyfriend to care for me. can u please give me as many ideas as possible? I don't want to turn into a lesbian and i don't wanna go for matchmaking stuff ( thanks!) ...and... randomly checking out a stranger is weird & uneasy for anyone isin't it?

2006-12-20 02:35:27 · 4 answers · asked by Saffron Boudoir 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Two people, been together for 6 years (not married or engaged - just boyfriend and girlfriend). Have seperated for two months and will be discussing their relationship after xmas. One of the party wanted to discuss it prior to this as he wanted to get back together and she said she didnt want to talk about it. She has just had her birthday and told him he wasnt invited, however prior to this they had met for lunch on one occasion and a drink on another but nothing happened. Do you think this looks like they will get back together or not?

2006-12-20 02:35:10 · 12 answers · asked by anais_24 1 in Singles & Dating

hai, i'm a 26 year old guy from chennai, india. i work in a private concern. i'm a physically challenged person. i can walk with the help of crutches(sticks). these days, i feel depressed, because, i feel lonely and i need a love from a girl friend. i have no girl friend(lover) so far. i want a real love. is there any girl would like to love and marry me? i want a good girl friend to love me. i will love u too. pls try to understand. my id is freezing_breeze2000@yahoo.com

2006-12-20 02:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a b/f and i had a dream bout me and this guy gettin together and we made out and we were in Europe?? what does this mean and what do i do bout it?

2006-12-20 02:33:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a budding fashion designer, how to kick start it as a career? How to get people hire me or start an online boutique?

2006-12-20 02:33:26 · 3 answers · asked by Saffron Boudoir 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 02:33:24 · 19 answers · asked by Redhead 2 in Singles & Dating

Can men fall in love with a woman by her looks alone?

Can her looks make it easier to fall in love or strong like?

2006-12-20 02:33:22 · 2 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Stocking ideas for a 24 year old guy that's not your typical male. He's not very handy, so little tools or flashlights is out. He likes everything computer and technology oriented, but I don't know what some little things I could put in his stocking would be. I'm going crazy here, I don't want to just fill it with candy. HELP.

2006-12-20 02:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by Imani 5 in Singles & Dating

out before he used them...does that make him a selfish lover?? ..lol...lol...

2006-12-20 02:31:25 · 15 answers · asked by bashfullyblessed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was going out with my ex for about 3 months i wasnt keen through out the whole thing because i just got out of another relationship. all we did was argue then make up in bed in the end we had a another argument and that night she cheeted on me i learned this when i left to university we met up a few times but we were usually both drunk so it didnt go well. although she cheated on me i want her back we didnt talk for 3months and now its christmas. ive just talked to her on the phone and she says she cant go back out with me because she doesnt want to get hurt again and also all her friends say its a stupid idea. She also says she wants me in her life but just as a friend for now even though we both care for each other more than just friends i just said that i can't be just friends and we havent talked since. im just wondering what i can do to get her back? because im crazy about her and have said this to her many times, and i realy can't get over her

2006-12-20 02:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What makes you fall in love with someone?
What does he/she do, say, think, that makes you say..."I love him/her"?

2006-12-20 02:30:10 · 5 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this man for almost 2 years now and his job moved him away like 450 miles. Well I have a daughter in high school here and could not go unless I left her. Well to make a long story short he kept giving me ultimatums to come there and ended up moving in with a woman when his lease was up. But started calling me more once he moved in with her well I have to let go but how? My life feels like its over I have nothing to live for.

2006-12-20 02:29:54 · 19 answers · asked by BC 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents call me a faliure at life and say im wasting it up in my room. But whenever i try to go and do stuff, they ask so many questions and are so strict that its not even worth it. They have banned me from doing everything i love for no real reason. I have a place i could go and stay until i go to college... Do you think it would be a good idea? By the way, my parents pretty much disown me... im not quite sure why tho

2006-12-20 02:28:27 · 24 answers · asked by Chris B 1 in Family

I met a guy saturday night. he seemed cool. he gave me his number and i called him sunday evening and he didnt answer. Anyway I left a message. He called monday morning and left a message knowing that i was at work so he told me to call him later. I called later and he still did not answer so I said forget it. Anywhoo he called me later that night around 10 and we talked for about 5 minutes. He then told me to call him on my lunch break the next day. I am no way sweating it and if he's not interested that is fine also but somehow I think he may live with a woman or something to that effect, something just doesnt seem right with him.

2006-12-20 02:28:21 · 18 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

how exactly -describe with details - do u have a good sex, im a girl and i want to know what men like girls to do while having sex, i plan on having sex with my boyfriend (im 16) and i want him to enjoy it as much as possible, so what do mean enjoy during sex?

2006-12-20 02:28:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I kinda like this guy but he flirts with other girls.

2006-12-20 02:27:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my mama told me i'm making her life difficult and then my so called best friend is trying to get attention from me just because i hang out with my friend Kerika,
She's telling everyone it's my fought because she is a so called sweet girl and nice.
And she's telling lies.
Everyone thinking and saying it's my fought and everyone is just blaming me for everything ...
And i dont' know what to do,
Only person who understands is Kerika.
I have major boy problems,parents problems, friend problems, grade problems.
I don't know what to do..
Everyone think i'm a bad friend besides Kerika.
And i really don't know what to do..
i have major anger problems and all of these things are making my temper bad.

2006-12-20 02:27:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we have already made out and stuff. but he is not really my cousin he is my uncles son, my aunt stepson. but my aunt and uncle are cousins. so he is my cousin right? oh well everyone in the family says that me and him are going to end up like my aunt and uncle. he has my uncles name and i have my aunts name. nobody know that we have kicked it, but everyone was suspecting it even when it wasnt happening.

2006-12-20 02:27:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

knew D recently! D tells me some women at his workplace are very pretty but he insists he never gone out with them even when they ask him out. He says he's afraid they just want his riches n he looks for inner beauty.

When I jokingly ask him if I am pretty, he says No I am not pretty .
How can this be?? I know I am not beauty queen but I think I am at least 7 out of 10 .
My friends tell me I'm quite pretty (and I didn't ask them)

D says No, I am only 5 out of 10 because I am really not pretty AT ALL.

then he says that he doesn't go for looks AT ALL because he is looking for a marriage partner and inner beauty.

How can this be?? Is he playing games?? what is happening?? Is he interested in me??

i thot he interested in me until he said I'm not pretty AT ALL.
GUYS WON'T LOVE SOMEONE THEY DON'T FIND PRETTY, RIGHT?? IS HE TELLING TRUTH??

He's ugly.. but women don't mind men's looks.. but do u really think a man can live in marriage with someone they don't pretty?

2006-12-20 02:26:37 · 13 answers · asked by Woman321 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it rare to find a really cute girl, smart and athtletic?

2006-12-20 02:26:00 · 7 answers · asked by tino r 1 in Friends

Me and my ex broke up about 4 weeks ago bc he said i was being a lil mean to him .. and he had to move anyways not far far he could still see me .. but, Now im bout to go out with his kinda best friend witch he dont know yet. He has been tellin me he still loves me but i dont know if i should give him another chance bc everyone says he likes me for one thing ( sex) but i love him... Should i give his friend a chance or go for my ex witch i prolly dont need...

2006-12-20 02:25:32 · 15 answers · asked by Bwitt Bwitt 1 in Singles & Dating

OKAY I WANT TO KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE THINK THAT WHAT "THE AMERICAN PEOPLE" WANT IS VICTORY OUT OF THIS WAR? WHAT ARE YOUR EXPECTATIONS AND NEEDS FROM THE OUTCOME OF PRESIDENT BUSH'S DECISIONS AND DO YOU THINK HE WILL WORK EFFECTIVLY WITH THE DEMOCRATS?

2006-12-20 02:24:40 · 3 answers · asked by cutiepie21106 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 02:24:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I once got a pair of musical undies from a girlfriend. every time she slapped my @ss or grabbed my crotch, it played "jingle bells", and then she'd start dancing in a circle around me and singing "jingle balls, jingle balls"...............that was fun

2006-12-20 02:23:27 · 2 answers · asked by mickey 5 in Other - Family & Relationships