Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

plz help me

2006-12-20 02:50:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my ex-boyfriend has been over for six months, we ended on a bad note. today i called him and he actually wanted to talk.i was so surprise. i called and ask for his forgivness after six months, i was the reason the relationship ended. i really want him back. he said we can see each other this weekend. do you think he want me back. he was acting really nice on the phone. i need help

2006-12-20 02:50:26 · 2 answers · asked by TE TE 3 in Singles & Dating

I wrote an email to a guy that I had a casual love-type relationship with, telling him that I had overcome a diet pill addiction, in order for him to open up to me about things. I know he has stressed his concern about his own addiction before (chewing tobacco) to me, and I sorta mentioned that to him in the email, just so that it would be something else for us to talk about, since I never really talked about problems I had. Well I haven't heard from him, which isn't entirely unusual, but I'm wondering if he thinks that revealing my problem turned him off? Would a guy be weirded out by this? Just curious.

2006-12-20 02:49:55 · 8 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it not the same thing? A lack of self control. We do not baby alcoholics. We treat them like they have personal issues that they need to work on. Which is the way they should be treated. Now if you are so fat you can not walk from your car to the store then we let you park right in front of the store in the handicap spaces. Then we give you an electric cart to ride around in while you are in the store. We have to accommodate fat people or it is discrimination of some sort. We can not even call them fat because of political correctness. “They may have issues that they can not help”. They do have issues the same as alcoholics. Alcoholics can not keep liquor out of their mouth and fat people can not keep Twinkies out of theirs. Should we as a society not be tougher on fat people?

2006-12-20 02:48:55 · 17 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seems as if today its hard to find a woman looking for a long term commitment. May sound sappy to some guys, but I want to be married and have a family. But the probalem seems to be either shallow women or women that do not want a committed relationship.

2006-12-20 02:48:47 · 10 answers · asked by tomcatgary2780aolcom 1 in Singles & Dating

Can men fall in love with a woman by her looks?

Or is it that a beautiful woman is easier to love/strongly like?

2006-12-20 02:48:36 · 18 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Singles & Dating

i feel like im not valued very much by my friends and they can say what they want to me, also wen i meet new people, they find it easy to be comfortable saying harsh things to me. im a very confident and friendly person but sometimes i wonder why my friends dont make much of an effort with me and why people hurt my feelings sayng things, i know half the time this is joking but i feel like 'why do they talk to me like that and not my friends' also i want to make more friends, the ones i have seem to not bother alot cos i have a bf? but i want to be more sociable, and need to make a wider circuit of friends, i dont want to go to church or do voluntary work to make friends, but i do want to make more...

2006-12-20 02:47:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having a very bad day. My lover has not even slept in the same bed with me for a week now. He has been staying up until all hours and then going to bed just before i get up to go to work. He says it's because he is working on a project and has been very stiff and wanting to sleep in a recliner to feel better, but my heart hurts because I miss him. I left him a note yesterday morning alluding to that fact, and I went out to his workshop at midnight last night (dressed in a sexy negligee) to tell him that I thought that he should come in for the night as I had run him a nice hot bath and would give him a message to help him sleep. I fell asleep myself sometime about 2:00 a.m, but he hadn't come in yet.

When I got up for work this morning at 6:00 he was asleep in the recliner in the living room and I coaxed him into bed, but he didn't say anything - just mumbled something and fell back asleep.

What now?

I'm thinking of calling in a little while to ask him what's

2006-12-20 02:47:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i posted a message bout me liking him earlier and evry 1 is replying y if he hates you i wanna loose weight he isnt making me

look i want ppl who will help me
A HOW DO YOU LOOSE WEIGHT QUICKLY OR EASILY
B HOW CAN I GET HIS ATTENTION + FLIRT ?

2006-12-20 02:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by xxlilprincesslauren 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my gf and i will move out when we are 18 together but my parents have legal guardianship over my money so if i get a job and get money it goes to them to use for me but i have to run away because my parents dont want me in a relationship at all so i can never use that money. my gf plans to be a tattoo artist and she will raise lots of money and i can stay home. but is that right? isnt that basically using her even though i love her with all my heart and will always do what i can? she plans to leave me money to go out and do stuff with but again...isnt that wrong because i never earned that money?

2006-12-20 02:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by dark plaugue 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 02:46:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there's no point buying her a present, but just in case she doesn't die, how can I put "I thought you'd be dead by now" nicely?

2006-12-20 02:46:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 02:45:12 · 2 answers · asked by Billy Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

im in 10 grade and i like this girl alot and i have a question i would like to be answered soon cause i have to leave soon....

but i want to ask this girl to go c a movie or go to the mall with just me this weekend and ive asked her last week and another time but she had other things to do...and i found out shes doing something with her friends friday night and i was wondering if i should still ask neways.

but another thing is if i dont ask her for this weekend i was goin to ask her to go next wednesday night cause im leavin for vacation on thursday....

i was gonna say to her "are you free next wednesday night" and if she is id say "well do you want to go c a movie or go to the mall with me"..and if she has another thing to do i would say "if you really dont want to go just tell me the truth"...and i was wonderin if thats good to say....

thank you
i appreciate any answers

2006-12-20 02:44:33 · 10 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Singles & Dating

I was drinking the other night and um... my boyfriend left for a while and i was with his best friend and we were talking about how hot each other were and he says i told him i think about him when me and my boyfriend fight (i dont remember that tho) so i told my bf and hes acting all weird.I really love him alot though and i dont want us to break up. what else can i do to show him that i love him and im sorry? PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2006-12-20 02:43:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am recently divorced after 21 years. We just couldn't live together, no baggage to worry about. Question is, I go to a store about 2 to 3 times a week and there is this woman who is at the check out stand. She seems nice. From conversations I have over heard she has a son. She is not wearing a wedding ring. Is it OK to ask her to go out on a date while she is working. I am not a subtle kind of guy, so is this just too forward or not. I would try and ask when no other customers are around to avoid the possible embarassment on both parts. Help

2006-12-20 02:43:12 · 10 answers · asked by Mike M 2 in Singles & Dating

hai, i'm a 26 year old guy from chennai, india. i work in a private concern. i'm a physically challenged person. i can walk with the help of crutches(sticks). these days, i feel depressed, because, i feel lonely and i need a love from a girl friend. i have no girl friend(lover) so far. i want a real love. is there any girl would like to love and marry me? i want a good girl friend to love me. i will love u too. pls try to understand. my id is freezing_breeze2000@yahoo.com

2006-12-20 02:43:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he says that if i sleep(sex) with him then only he will be with me . i love him a lot and donot want to loose him. but i cannot do what he is asking me to do.i belong to a good family and cannot do this .what should i do now.

2006-12-20 02:42:23 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So 5 months have come and gone; now it is all over. I was dumped by a pompous, conceded jerk. He claims that he is of a higher intelligence and does not want to waist his time with some one of an average intelligence. What is the fastest way to get over him?

2006-12-20 02:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help me plz

2006-12-20 02:42:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lol im only joking........

2006-12-20 02:41:52 · 37 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 28 , and I know a girl who 21, ..well, I wouldn't say I love her very much, but as I am alone now, I would like to try her out to see if it will work ..but, I am doubting a bit, because, we seem to be different in so many area ....she's 21, I am 28; she's 2nd year college student, ..I am a professional with a master's degree..I am a techlogy guy, she is not tuned on that ...she still have a childish mind, and I don't ... do you think that can work in the long run ? should I even try to date her to see if between me and her , that can work ?

2006-12-20 02:41:43 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

what do I get him for xmas....seems like they may get back together....really nice well rounded kid, good positive family....plz give positive feedback because I dont know what to get.

2006-12-20 02:41:02 · 38 answers · asked by jshorePR 4 in Singles & Dating

hai, i'm a 26 year old guy from chennai, india. i work in a private concern. i'm a physically challenged person. i can walk with the help of crutches(sticks). these days, i feel depressed, because, i feel lonely and i need a love from a girl friend. i have no girl friend(lover) so far. i want a real love. is there any girl would like to love and marry me? i want a good girl friend to love me. i will love u too. pls try to understand. my id is freezing_breeze2000@yahoo.com

2006-12-20 02:40:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im in 10 grade and i like this girl alot and i have a question i would like to be answered soon cause i have to leave soon....

but i want to ask this girl to go c a movie or go to the mall with just me this weekend and ive asked her last week and another time but she had other things to do...and i found out shes doing something with her friends friday night and i was wondering if i should still ask neways.

but another thing is if i dont ask her for this weekend i was goin to ask her to go next wednesday night cause im leavin for vacation on thursday....

i was gonna say to her "are you free next wednesday night" and if she is id say "well do you want to go c a movie or go to the mall with me"..and if she has another thing to do i would say "if you really dont want to go just tell me the truth"...and i was wonderin if thats good to say....

thank you
i appreciate any answers

2006-12-20 02:40:39 · 8 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 02:39:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so we had a good thing going...but werent dating and now he has a g/f....and called things off....but i talked to mike...who said he cant believe he(dan) would do that, b/c dan liked me so much since like october.and he really ****** things up and so on...and i really still like dan..and i feel like slapping him in the face really hard for leading me on like that....and i still want him...im soooo confused....b/c he is the only guy ive ever cried over...and the only one who makes me smile so big...but....and...he likes me too...mike said he thinks dan might have been waiting for me to ask him...and maybe dan just didnt have the balls to ask me....but he knew i would say yes...what do i do???

2006-12-20 02:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Singles & Dating

idk how to ask him!

2006-12-20 02:39:22 · 16 answers · asked by kat g 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are divorcing after 12 yrs marriage, I cheated 4 yrs ago and she hasnt forgiven me, we are going to stay together in the same house for the kids as friends, we are still good friends and want to keep it that way. She says the only way in her mind is to divorce me and then maybe someday we could start over with a better and stronger relationship, right now she has to end this one to be able to heal her pain from the past, I am just wondering if this sounds like it would work, she says she has no one else waiting for her so to speak, and I have no plans of ever looking for anyone else myself, I have tried these past 4 yrs to make things work out but she says this is the only way for her to forgive me.who knows, she may say she wants to start over lead me along for awhile and then finally realize that we arent going to get back together.

2006-12-20 02:39:21 · 14 answers · asked by joefra68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my heart rate is 190bpm. my doctor is quite worried but i'm not too sure what it could be. any ideas?

2006-12-20 02:39:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating