im in 10 grade and i like this girl alot and i have a question i would like to be answered soon cause i have to leave soon....
but i want to ask this girl to go c a movie or go to the mall with just me this weekend and ive asked her last week and another time but she had other things to do...and i found out shes doing something with her friends friday night and i was wondering if i should still ask neways.
but another thing is if i dont ask her for this weekend i was goin to ask her to go next wednesday night cause im leavin for vacation on thursday....
i was gonna say to her "are you free next wednesday night" and if she is id say "well do you want to go c a movie or go to the mall with me"..and if she has another thing to do i would say "if you really dont want to go just tell me the truth"...and i was wonderin if thats good to say....
thank you
i appreciate any answers
2006-12-20 02:40:39 · 8 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say exactly that...sounds good. nothing wrong with it at all especially if you've asked her several times before...after this time if she "has something to do" just leave it alone she might not be interested. but I think you should say exactly what you wrote above ...just don't sound edgy or anything...keep your voice pleasant and neutral even if she declines
2006-12-20 02:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her exactly what you just asked and if she says she's busy then flip it on her and say okay when you find time in your busy schedule and would like to see a movie or spend time with me at the mall let me know but don't take to long. Then just leave it at that believe me you'll get an answer
2006-12-20 10:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by new life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the girlis probably just busy. But coming from a girl, i wouldn't start anything romantic till after you're vacation. Then she'll be moving on from you and maybe even hooking up with someone else. Just wait a bit and then ask her.
2006-12-20 10:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by cows_are_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
makes me wondering if she is just ditching you. sorry but maybe she doesnt want to be mean to you. she might like you but only as a friend and doesnt want to hurt you by telling you flat out no.
maybe you should try asking after your vacation. if she says no then ask her why.
2006-12-20 10:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by the boss [amj] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts, but only to the point that you don't offend her, because then you might lose all chances in going out with her.
2006-12-20 10:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats probaly the best thing to say.if she doesnt want to go with you u should atleast know the truth!!
2006-12-20 10:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts.
2006-12-20 10:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lost cause, move on already, she isn't interested.
2006-12-20 10:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋