Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

well four months ago when I was going to go clubbing with a friend he had stopped me because he was unconfortable about it.....so I said ok......as long as you dont go to a bar without me....I wont go clubbing without you.....but just today a friend has asked him and now it seems like he had forgotten all about it.....and wants to go on his own.....I'm not sure what I should do......it just seems hes being really unfair about all this

2006-12-20 02:07:28 · 13 answers · asked by Nadya 1 in Singles & Dating

I have one cat named Baby.

2006-12-20 02:07:17 · 11 answers · asked by Mark C 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 02:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont want to hurt his feelings

2006-12-20 02:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by Stephanie M With A Child's ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 02:06:03 · 1 answers · asked by Roody 1 in Singles & Dating

I have five! Three on left arm, two on right arm!

2006-12-20 02:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by Mark C 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm through with him. We broke up over a month ago. It was a LDR...But I still loved him. And few days ago he told me that he likes other...2 girls.Before telling me this, in a message, he somehow told me that he still loves me. He was different. Now he's a trash. I guess he was always like this. Anyway, after hearing this, I crashed. I cried, I was...bad. I wanted to cut myself just to write with blood that I will never remember him or speak to him or have any contact with him. The next day he told me ... only bullshit. I guess he was feeling alone. Poor guy, maybe the girls have left him. So he came back to this stupid one.But not anymore. My heart gathered so much hate...I kinda forgot him. But I don't want to remember anything else when he fills my offlines with bullshit. What should I do to erase him completely from my mind?

2006-12-20 02:05:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i go 2 my mother in laws house on christmas. i really cannot stand her. a few weeks ago she said some really hurtful things to me and my hubby, she said them right in front of our child. which i feel is so wrong. i have not said more than hi to her when i do see her. i don;t think i can be nice to her if i go over there. she is so anoying!! what would u do?

2006-12-20 02:05:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

some times we argue over little things that dont matter and afterwards we laugh because we relise what we have done i know this is normal but sum tyms he gets very over pretective does any one else get this problem???????????????

2006-12-20 02:04:06 · 5 answers · asked by pink_n_purfect1 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and we live together. This past weekend we each went out seperatly with different groups of friends then met up later that night. I told him where I was and who we were with. The next day while I was sleeping he went into my phone call log found a phone # that he did not know and called it. The # was my girlfriend's co-worker phone. She borrowed it because she forgot hers at home and I was running late to met them. He did not tell me about it and deleted the dialed call off the phone log. My friend called me and told me what he did and then he admitted it. I felt violated by what he did and was/am pissed about it. He claims he trusts me but I believe his actions say the opposite.

2006-12-20 02:03:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some times we argue over little things that dont matter and afterwards we laugh because we relise what we have done i know this is normal but sum tyms he gets very over pretective does any one else get this problem???????????????

2006-12-20 02:03:50 · 2 answers · asked by pink_n_purfect1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 02:03:09 · 18 answers · asked by arpana c 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend was one such example. After receiving sex education few months ago,the next day he went under a girl's skirt to see what was inside and got caught by the principal and received a scolding...but he wasn't happy and even barged into the school girl's toilet to see how girls peed and got another warning...then he also asked a girl to demonstrate how to make love with him..then we found them doing it in class and...his parents had to come and take him in hand..zz. He did that because he was really curious about sex and those things etc..will learning about sex turn us kids into horny perverts?

2006-12-20 02:02:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my girlfriend and i have been goin out for quite a while now. She tells me she loves me and i know i love her. When i say i love her she accuses me of lying. Im pretty sure she is just jokinig around. She getts p!ssed at me for almost nothing. She dosent quite act like she really likes me. I brought this up to her and she started crying because she "didnt want to lose me".... Is she playin me or am i just a dumb @ss??

2006-12-20 02:01:46 · 12 answers · asked by Chris B 1 in Singles & Dating

i recently had sex with this friend, I had being with him for sometime and all seemed to be alright, just when i realised i was in love with him he tells me he has a fiance but is also in love with me what should i do? should i forget all about him and let him go or should i fight for him since he says he's also in love with me?

2006-12-20 02:01:40 · 24 answers · asked by Naughty 2 in Singles & Dating

Whom wud you go for??

1) A really HOT hunk. Great in bed.

OR

2) A man of your dreams who' is a bit ugly?

I've not added any details. I just wanted to see your preference....^_^

Please choose only the given characters...^_^

Thanks yaal!!>.._^

2006-12-20 02:01:35 · 1 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

They are kind of dating, but he won't make a move. He takes her out and spends time with her, and you would think they are boy/girl friend. But.....they are not making the next move. He keeps waiting, like, not doing anything, and she's frustrated. She says they are not dating now, but he keeps showing up. Now he bought her Christmas gifts, and she is like "?" I said she should just grab him and make out w/ him and he's hooked for life. She says, OMG I need to get him something now, stupid boys, what do I do? Well. Please help :) Legit answers only please.

2006-12-20 02:01:06 · 16 answers · asked by cycwow 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband recently lost 30+ pounds (good for him!), hasn't worn his wedding ring in months, and has been working late a lot lately. However, every time I call him on his cell, he's always at work (I can hear the body shop noise in the background), and he is a very strict in-Church-every-Sunday Catholic (they have strong rules about infidelity). We haven't had sex in 2 years...and have been sleeping in separate bedrooms for 6 years. I want a divorce, but I cannot afford to live alone with a small child. I jokingly told him I"d like a divorce for our anniversary, and he told me to go ahead and get one without sounding at all upset. I"m not sure if he's cheating or if he's just as unhappy as I am. Financially speaking, I cannot afford to leave him; I'd just like some proof on whether or not he is cheating. How do I go about find that out?

2006-12-20 02:00:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that you have to open yourself up a little in order to feel love, and you have to let the good in with the bad.

But, what if you are, like my cousin, so scared to get hurt that you don't even try? Do you find people who close themselves off like this to be a hopeless cause?

2006-12-20 01:59:25 · 17 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

My 13 yo girl has breasts more developed then most girls her age. I'm a very caring mom, so I make her wear bras that give proper support and really protect her breasts. She doesn't like the bras I got her, says they are uncomfortable, suck, etc. But I'm sure they are great bras and I've been really strict on this point. She keeps complaining, but she's a wonderful girl and doesnt't rebel, though sometimes she gets somewhat mad at me. I tell her it's for her best, I worry bout her, love her so much. I treat her with much love, and this makes things easier. Once she disobeyed, but she's a so good girl that she regreted, told me and apologized. I forgave and just make her promise she'll always wear the bras I gave her.Her bras are like the one at http://www.anita.com/de/en/0,1,104,1478,39236__products-detail.htm A great bra, Iwear one too, but she complains it's hot and has 4 hooks, which in my opinion is a great thing. After all, moms know best, I'm her mom and love her so much

2006-12-20 01:59:19 · 27 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Family

2006-12-20 01:58:56 · 19 answers · asked by Kimberly B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello,
About 5 months ago my baby's father and I separated "irreconcible differences". When we were together he would go through depression periods once in a while. We now have tried to establish a good relationship for my son's sake, so far so good. THe thing is now he's going through that depression period again, and he's told me he's really down. Plus his parents might be getting a divorce and his father is thinking of leaving to another country. So he got a lot of issues going on. I told him I can be there if he needs someone to talk to since he really doesn't have that much friends. Should I continue to do that, how far is it too much? or should i steer far from him?? maybe i am getting too involved in listening to his problems?
thanks

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2006-12-20 01:58:47 · 10 answers · asked by A_Latina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you hold it against me....lol

2006-12-20 01:58:30 · 35 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

He just tires me out. I love him and do not want to lose him. We have been together for 4 years. I am afraid to undress in front of him since he gets hard so fast and them wants some. What should I do? He is wearing me out.

2006-12-20 01:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think she wants to get it on with me or something? This happens almost everyday....

2006-12-20 01:57:48 · 10 answers · asked by stunston 2 in Singles & Dating

by poking holes in his condoms?

2006-12-20 01:57:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 01:57:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my friends boyfrined recently died in a drunk drivin incident, and shes just torn up, Shes not keeping herself on house arrest or nuthin, but she just walks around like a zombie, I know theres nuthin to say, but how would u deal with that in my place and hers

2006-12-20 01:56:38 · 20 answers · asked by Alley M 1 in Friends

Polygyni is naturel. So you must be attracted by many in life. If not, you are a machine. Are you?

2006-12-20 01:55:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i keep thinkin im over him and then he pops up somewhere. we broke up badly - he decieded he liked my best mate better. he hurt me but i still think about him and it so frustrating. Advice please...

2006-12-20 01:54:37 · 20 answers · asked by -x-STEPHiE-x- 2 in Singles & Dating