i keep thinkin im over him and then he pops up somewhere. we broke up badly - he decieded he liked my best mate better. he hurt me but i still think about him and it so frustrating. Advice please...
2006-12-20 01:54:37 · 20 answers · asked by -x-STEPHiE-x- 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only advice I can give you is let time take it's course. In the meantime just live your life the best way you know how
2006-12-20 01:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you want to be over him...not really. You're still thinking about the good times with him, and wishing it were still so. The best thing for a broken heart is to immerse yourself in something else. Volunteering is a good way to do that, through giving yourself so that someone else benefits. It makes you feel good about yourself, plus you develop talents you didn't know you had, and strengthening the ones you do have. Getting outside yourself is the best way to overcome anything that's making you depressed. And losing a boyfriend is depressing, especially when they dump you for your friend. The guy is fickle, and immature. I think you're fortunate to find this out now, before things got more serious. I'm sure he'll dump your friend, in time. Sounds like a player to me. I'm sure there's someone out there who is waiting for you, and is just right for you. Be patient with yourself. <*)))><
2006-12-20 10:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this holiday time to be with family. you may not want to start dating again already, but if you do, holiday parties could be a great spot to meet people. also, go have a good time on new years. pick up a new hobby. you are sure to meet people that share the same interests as you. or, join a gym. the exercise will help lighten your mood and improve your overall health. obviously, your ex did not have your feelings in mind. you deserve better.
2006-12-20 09:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by vix9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you start going out with other people, the sooner you will realize it's not the end of the world and he's not the last guy left on earth. Time to move on despite your feelings; that's what being an adult is about.
2006-12-20 09:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Professor Maddie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to get out and find some one else to me this boy does not at all sound worth it he seems very stuck up and ovioulsy doesnt really care about who he goes out with you want to find some one whos cares for you and picks you out of any girl he could choose from i have been in your sitatuion the boy dumped me and cheated on me for months after i cried and thought about him all the time now i look back and think i am not worth him i can do so much better and now i even wonderd why i went out with him !
2006-12-20 09:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by pink_n_purfect1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on things you are interested in (other than him). If you are working, focus on results of your work. Go on a vacation with old friends.
Not easy to do I know because it took me 4 years to get over my gf, probably the circumstances are different.
2006-12-20 09:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by mms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your gonna miss him, but you've just gotta get together with some of your friends, and have a good time, maybe even date around and if all else fail find some new friends, dont make yourself miss him and dont let yourself miss him either.....o and beat the **** outta your friend
2006-12-20 10:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Alley M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on.....find someone to complete that void. Stay busy & stay happy. I know it is hard but in time it will get much easier. Although you might always have a special place in your heart for that person, you need to move on with your life. He has!!!!
2006-12-20 09:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously,it takes a hell lot of time to forget a person u really love.Like me,even though it's already like 6months,i still think about him pretty much and i always dream about him.The truth is,we just have to deal about it.The more u want to forget about it,the more u will think about it.All you can do is just to take good care of yourself and do things that you love.Spent time with more with yourself,with your family and friends.Just do things that makes you happy and stay positive.
2006-12-20 10:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by aleeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl. From one girl to the other. Watch the movie Watin to Exhale. Don't repeat anything in the movie though!!!. But when you think about him try to think of him as the devil. Would you love the devil? He did you wrong why would you think about him. Also breathe. Women are powerful. Don't let someone bring you down. And if you friend is dating him........Beat that bitches ***!
2006-12-20 09:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by MZ.NEZ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋