Well my girlfriend and i have been goin out for quite a while now. She tells me she loves me and i know i love her. When i say i love her she accuses me of lying. Im pretty sure she is just jokinig around. She getts p!ssed at me for almost nothing. She dosent quite act like she really likes me. I brought this up to her and she started crying because she "didnt want to lose me".... Is she playin me or am i just a dumb @ss??
2006-12-20 02:01:46 · 12 answers · asked by Chris B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she is with you and she has told you that she loves you, then what is there to worry about, enjoy your relationship with her and stop reading to much into everything. If she wasn't happy with you she would of moved on.
2006-12-20 02:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. D. AKA Evil Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? because if you're a teenager then she acts this way because of HORMONES. SOCIAL PRESSURE, INSECURITY. she's only had those lady bits for like two years, she's not very smart about love, or sex, or relationships. She just stopped playing with Barbies, and all that trying to act like a grown woman to get your attention, is finally catching up with her, she's totally confused about why anyone should really love her besides her mom and dad. and honestly dude, are really really sure you know what the hell your talking about? Maybe when she says "you're lying" it's her way of letting you know that she is, because she has no clue that love is total sacrifce of selfishness, and if you're like 16or 20 even? Your both selfish, and each one of you thinks the relationship is about you. sorry, harsh, but true. in fact, just copy and paste this to your Word program and look back at it in three years.
2006-12-20 10:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by kikumatsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your girl is confussed or bibolar one of the two for she say's she loves you but when you say it back she calls you a lyer and she get's pissy over nothing then cries cause she thinks she's loosing yuo sounds to me like this gals got some issues and you need to get out so that she can help herself with them then see about a relationship for she is playing you right into her sick world of her mixed up mind. talk to her more about where she see's you too heading in this relationship and then tell her that yuo want to understand but it's hard when her mood changes like a light switch. good luck
2006-12-20 10:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has emotional problems and is "needy". Not that she needs YOU necessarily but she needs someone else in her life besides herself to feel whole. It isn't a healthy relationship. From what you have said, she really doesn't love you. She is co-dependant. She needs to learn who she is and be self actualized. It sounds as if under the surface, she really doesn't have any self confidence. She doesn't love herself, how can she love you? She isn't capable at this point in her life.
2006-12-20 10:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy well i personaly think she is upset about something,just call her and ask her do she got a problem or ask her if she really care for you and no your not an dumb @ss unless you want to be
2006-12-20 10:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by princessfromthe804 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny behaviour.
2006-12-20 10:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yea your being played, I have done the same thing to my boyfriend. Ya girl wants somethin.
2006-12-20 10:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to get attached to you, she thinks you are going to leave her and forget about her. She feels insecure.
2006-12-20 10:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah somethings up, all those ups and downs, unless you just caught her while she was on PMS. somethings not right.
2006-12-20 10:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she appears to be on the 'love transit'. be positive and very true.
2006-12-20 10:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by braj k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋