I'm through with him. We broke up over a month ago. It was a LDR...But I still loved him. And few days ago he told me that he likes other...2 girls.Before telling me this, in a message, he somehow told me that he still loves me. He was different. Now he's a trash. I guess he was always like this. Anyway, after hearing this, I crashed. I cried, I was...bad. I wanted to cut myself just to write with blood that I will never remember him or speak to him or have any contact with him. The next day he told me ... only bullshit. I guess he was feeling alone. Poor guy, maybe the girls have left him. So he came back to this stupid one.But not anymore. My heart gathered so much hate...I kinda forgot him. But I don't want to remember anything else when he fills my offlines with bullshit. What should I do to erase him completely from my mind?
2006-12-20 02:05:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will never be able to completely erase him from your mind, so it would be better if you just settle for what you can do.
You can congratulate yourself on making it through a difficult growth experience. You know what he's about, so now if you recognize another guy that is exactly like him you will have a better plan on how to handle it.
You put this guy in the past by letting him know that you would appreciate him never trying to contact you again. Hopefully he's close enough to normal that he will do as you ask.
Now you move on, & don't allow things that happened in the past affect you emotionally. The past is gone, the future hasn't happened yet, so live in the present.
Please don't cut yourself. It is an unhealthy way to deal with your issues, so find a better way on your own if you can, & if you can't then get some help with that.
I know you didn't say this, but I am going to put it in anyway. Not all guys are alike, so keep trying, you'll come across a decent guy eventually.
Cheers!
2006-12-20 02:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try forgiveness... now I'm not saying embrace him lovingly into your arms. But you should say "I forgive you for treating me the way you have, but I am not accepting you back into a relationship, or even friendship right now... if you give me time, then maybe... but now I need some time and space to heal."
If he honors that request, then you will know he has made a real choice to LOVE you. If he runs around chasing tail while he waits, then he's not worth your time. Guys, myself included, need a little bit of chasing tail, but let me tell you, those ALWAYS end in tears and broken hearts. Make sure you're not a casualty in his war of self-discovery.
Best of Luck. Godbless.
2006-12-20 10:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by bluebelly83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start dating other people
2006-12-20 10:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Restricted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him!
2006-12-20 10:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋