im in 10 grade and i like this girl alot and i have a question i would like to be answered soon cause i have to leave soon....
but i want to ask this girl to go c a movie or go to the mall with just me this weekend and ive asked her last week and another time but she had other things to do...and i found out shes doing something with her friends friday night and i was wondering if i should still ask neways.
but another thing is if i dont ask her for this weekend i was goin to ask her to go next wednesday night cause im leavin for vacation on thursday....
i was gonna say to her "are you free next wednesday night" and if she is id say "well do you want to go c a movie or go to the mall with me"..and if she has another thing to do i would say "if you really dont want to go just tell me the truth"...and i was wonderin if thats good to say....
thank you
i appreciate any answers
2006-12-20 02:44:33 · 10 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her like you said about Wednesday night. If she says she has something else to do, she just might have something else planned. Don't add the "if you really dont want to go" part. Wait til you get back and ask her again, if she says she is busy again, then let it go and don't ask again.
2006-12-20 02:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.here we go.ask her naturally if she wants to go with you those places,don't ask about the truth becasue she is not oblige to give you any answer or go out with you if she doesn't feel like it,so those questions usually put so much pressure on the people asked to go out and the answer is usually negative.also she is probably interest in you too and want to know how far you can go to give her a date,real persons with real feelings most of the time want to be sure that the other part is not playing games or just using them for a night stand or single week end date.tell her what you feel for her and that you are going in a trip but on your return if not posible for her now you would like to see her for a real date,also tell her that in order to have her with you while you away to give you e-mail or any other contact means you can use to be in touch with her.show her your real you and your true intentions,the rest is on her side.wish you the best on this and a happy new year for both of you.
2006-12-20 10:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by papidline007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask - what day are you free to go to the mall or a movie with me.
If she says Wednesday then your in luck - if she says never, it means she doesn't want to be alone with you.
2006-12-20 10:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Axel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'd like to see her before you leave for vacation, and ask her what time is good for her. This way you'll know if she's interested in you, or just a busy time for her right now.
Good luck!!
2006-12-20 10:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her I would like to go out with you sometime and was wondering what would be a good time for you.Let her pick a day, that way you dont keep gettig the I'm busy excuse. Good luck
2006-12-20 10:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by bad boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, that's what I think is soooo coool to hear a boy who isn't afraid to just come out and ask for the truth. And any girl who uses THAT against u and say's NO and/makes up 'another excuse' to ur question is not worth it, so get ready to pursue another girl, hunny bunny.
2006-12-20 10:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to ask. Go for it. She may be going out with her friends because she doesn't have anything better to do.
2006-12-20 10:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would see when she's available. then ask her, and if she says no or seems like she doesnt really want to, then i would ask her to tell you the truth! good luck!
2006-12-20 10:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is an awesome way to say it. dont say it in a sad way . if she cant then just say alright ill try again another time.
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2006-12-20 10:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect. You sound like a sweet guy. You should move on if she is not interested. (smile)
2006-12-20 10:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋