knew D recently! D tells me some women at his workplace are very pretty but he insists he never gone out with them even when they ask him out. He says he's afraid they just want his riches n he looks for inner beauty.
When I jokingly ask him if I am pretty, he says No I am not pretty .
How can this be?? I know I am not beauty queen but I think I am at least 7 out of 10 .
My friends tell me I'm quite pretty (and I didn't ask them)
D says No, I am only 5 out of 10 because I am really not pretty AT ALL.
then he says that he doesn't go for looks AT ALL because he is looking for a marriage partner and inner beauty.
How can this be?? Is he playing games?? what is happening?? Is he interested in me??
i thot he interested in me until he said I'm not pretty AT ALL.
GUYS WON'T LOVE SOMEONE THEY DON'T FIND PRETTY, RIGHT?? IS HE TELLING TRUTH??
He's ugly.. but women don't mind men's looks.. but do u really think a man can live in marriage with someone they don't pretty?
2006-12-20 02:26:37 · 13 answers · asked by Woman321 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
D may be ugly, but seems to have money, so he's trying to see how many women would bend over backwards to marry it....er...him. Its a mind game played by narcissistic men like D, that he hopes will end with you becoming a compliant sex slave.
I guess if you think he's worth losing your self-worth over, marry the guy.
2006-12-20 02:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay John, can we talk here? Sex is not everything in a marriage, but being rejected leads to disdain for your partner. Sounds like she does not want sex because she is not enjoying it because she is making excuses to avoid it. Being young and Inexperienced is a good deterrent. Believe me, if you are patient with her, and she learns how great it is, she will reciprocate. Try being super sweet and loving to her. Do things for her. Send her flowers. Wine and dine her, and don't push the sex issue. Just enjoy each others company. Don't pressure her, but do things that would get her in the mood. Give her loving hugs and kisses, and tell her how beautiful she is and often. Do this for a week or two or maybe longer. Then, when you feel the time is right, maybe have some wine, crawl in bed for some alone time with her. Take it slow, and be gentle with lots of foreplay. Take your time, and ask her what does and doesn't feel good. Have a few sex toys on hand to pleasure her with. Concentrate just on pleasing her. Take her to the moon, and I guarantee your sex life will improve. Just remember, sex starts way before you make it to the bedroom. Don't cheat unless you want to be in divorce court. It is not east to find a good person that you can love and love you back, so your marriage is worth saving.
2016-05-22 23:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is playing you like the fool you are!!
CHANGE it and change it NOW!! Dump his azz!!
No man who is marriage material would tell a woman she isn't pretty or even put her on a beauty scale.
In marriage, the man finds his wife to be beautiful no matter what.
2006-12-20 02:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you to keep you wondering... and it worked.
Secondly, he wants to compliment your innerself rather than the looks... pretty girls already know that they are pretty and if they tell thenm that they are you are noy going to hear anything new, and therefore, don;t give him a second thought.
Good luck
2006-12-20 02:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dude is so full of sh** his eyes must be brown! He's more interested in himself than anyone else. And to compare you with the women he works with?? Crude!! If he was sincere about you, he's think you are beautiful. And he's ugly? Well, if you had to live with him, you'd begin to have problems with UGLY!I I'd pass him on to someone else....which may be difficult....don't see anyone in line!
2006-12-20 02:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How many times are you going to ask this question, honey? What answer are you looking for?
He's a game player, hon. Look elsewhere, and stop asking this absolutely asinine question
2006-12-20 04:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl play the same game he is playing, ignore him. Act like you are not interested in him and watch him start to want you.
2006-12-20 02:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him if u are someone he would want to be with in the future, if u are what he may be looking for, his response will tell u all u need to know. ask him where he sees himself in a year or so, ask him what his goals are. ask him where u fit in in his life, but be preapared to not get the response u are looking for, know it could go either way. if u never ask u will never know.
2006-12-20 02:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be carefully your being play and he don;t want to marry you just try to get you in bed and the stories about his co worker is a lie trying to make you jealous ignore him
2006-12-20 02:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No he would have 2 find something appealing about you.
2006-12-20 02:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋