i was going out with my ex for about 3 months i wasnt keen through out the whole thing because i just got out of another relationship. all we did was argue then make up in bed in the end we had a another argument and that night she cheeted on me i learned this when i left to university we met up a few times but we were usually both drunk so it didnt go well. although she cheated on me i want her back we didnt talk for 3months and now its christmas. ive just talked to her on the phone and she says she cant go back out with me because she doesnt want to get hurt again and also all her friends say its a stupid idea. She also says she wants me in her life but just as a friend for now even though we both care for each other more than just friends i just said that i can't be just friends and we havent talked since. im just wondering what i can do to get her back? because im crazy about her and have said this to her many times, and i realy can't get over her
2006-12-20 02:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find someone else. it wasn't a healthy relationship
2006-12-20 02:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by wilrycar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I don't understand why you would even want her back when she's bluntly telling you she just wants to be friends. This will never work, you need to move on. Plenty more fish in the sea.Once a cheater always a cheater. You will only be heartbroken if she comes back.
2006-12-20 02:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already established how you feel about her,now let here sit on it for awhile.Maybe she will realize that she can't live without you either and maybe she won't.You have to be prepared for both scenario's.Hope everything works out for the best.
2006-12-20 02:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sassyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get her back changes must be made, in yourself, and in her. don't be drunk when u meet up, stay sober. odviously there are some issues about some unresolved hurt that hasn't been worked out, some trust issues where she has been hurt and doesn't have any hope.
2006-12-20 02:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out as friends. once you all are friends, show her how much you really care about her. then, when the time is right, you can have her back. but you do need to start out just as friends at first.
2006-12-20 02:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a bunch of games. you were on the speaker phone. If they were really into you they don't need their buddies around to talk to you.
2016-05-23 00:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ethel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't get her back!!she cheated on you for Christ sake.if u 2 argue all the time u two aren't meant for each other.a few arguments is fine but if u do it all the time u were not ment for each other.
2006-12-20 02:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let it go. She said just as a friend and most likely means just that... friends. Find someone who wants to be more to you.
2006-12-20 02:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on you both weree Drunk together not good. Maybe you just miss you drunk partner.
2006-12-20 02:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your life together and she will be trying to get you back
2006-12-20 02:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by breastfed43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋