Me and my ex broke up about 4 weeks ago bc he said i was being a lil mean to him .. and he had to move anyways not far far he could still see me .. but, Now im bout to go out with his kinda best friend witch he dont know yet. He has been tellin me he still loves me but i dont know if i should give him another chance bc everyone says he likes me for one thing ( sex) but i love him... Should i give his friend a chance or go for my ex witch i prolly dont need...
2006-12-20 02:25:32 · 15 answers · asked by Bwitt Bwitt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave the two of them alone and find another man.
2006-12-20 02:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should date either of them. How sleazy is that to go out with your ex's best friend barely a month after you break up, that just seems like you're trying to hurt him. Not only is your relationship with the new guy not going to work out because of the stress that'll be caused by causing him to lose his best friend, but a friendship will be ruined over it. Go to the club or something and meet somebody new, where's there's no history or unnecessary drama.
2006-12-20 10:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
truthfully, the best decision can only be made with a clear, level-headed, state of mind.
so, you should take a break from the whole ordeal and give yourself time to discover what it is you want , what you are willing to give to a relationship, and what you expect in return.
then let your heart guide you to the choice that is right for you, but don't step on anyone's heart to get it. tread lightly and keep the lines of honest communication and consideration open.
2006-12-20 10:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to date your ex's best friend? it would be like being passed around. that's gross. if you did that you will never have another chance with your ex and that's clearly whay you really want. how would you feel if your ex went out with your best friend? guys really don'y like it when thier ex's do that. you'd be demeaning yourseld especially if word is out that all he wants it to do you. don't go there. have some self respect and try to make it work with your ex or move on.
2006-12-20 10:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should really think about this situation before you make a decision. i was in this situation not long ago. i chose the friend and it caused their friendship to end. you dont want to hurt anyone, and you still love your ex. ask him why he wants you back. if he really loves you or if its just for sex. and then ask why the friend wants to be with you.
2006-12-20 10:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you date his friend he will think of you in a bad way and you dont want that. Are you trying to get revenge on your guy? It will come back to bite you in the rear. Dont do it.
2006-12-20 10:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is or ex for a reason, he called it off,so move on. Did he say he still loves you because he wants a booty buddy? Think about it.
2006-12-20 10:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by bad boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need none of them you should go out and meet other pepol bc if you go with his bf everyone will think wrong about you.
2006-12-20 10:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by eliza m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , this is a hard one .. I say leave them both .. you may not care , but that is going to brake their friendship up .. I say find a new man and let them be friends .. once you date your ex's bf you can forget going back to your ex , if it does not work out his friend ..
2006-12-20 10:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about them.Who do you feel more strongly for? Who would you rather spend your time with?I know this is going to sound Corny but, follow your heart?
2006-12-20 10:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋