Well my mama told me i'm making her life difficult and then my so called best friend is trying to get attention from me just because i hang out with my friend Kerika,
She's telling everyone it's my fought because she is a so called sweet girl and nice.
And she's telling lies.
Everyone thinking and saying it's my fought and everyone is just blaming me for everything ...
And i dont' know what to do,
Only person who understands is Kerika.
I have major boy problems,parents problems, friend problems, grade problems.
I don't know what to do..
Everyone think i'm a bad friend besides Kerika.
And i really don't know what to do..
i have major anger problems and all of these things are making my temper bad.
2006-12-20 02:27:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
,take responsibility for what you choose good luck ,you are not making good chooses
2006-12-20 02:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat that you're in right NOW!!
Here is the thing, you have to know yourself that everything is NOT your fault. If the other girl is telling all these lies on you, then she is NOT your best friend. it sounds to me like Kerika is. As far as your mother, although I don't agree with the way she's being a mother, you have to try and look at things her way. Is she stressed? Does she have a stressful and/or low paying job? Has your father left her? Are you the oldest sibling? Does she have money, alcohol or drug problems? If the answer is yes to any of those, then your mother may be simply looking for a way to vent, and blaming you for everything may be her easiest choice.
The best thing for you to do is to take advice from Jay-Z and Mariah Carey
Jay-Z - Brush Ya Shoulders Off
Mariah Carey - Shake It Off
Basically, don't let the words of others get to you, especially when you know what they're saying is not true.
2006-12-20 10:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL you can't have a thousand people saying the same thing about you and most of it not be true. Your mom just wants you to do better in school I'm pretty sure, and your friends you shouldn't even let that bother you cause after you graduate your not even going to see 99 % of them anyway. Just find a hobby to keep things from getting you down, oh and about the boys don't even go there if its problems just for you to deal with it then don't, thats probably why your grades are BAD
2006-12-20 10:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Great one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how u feel I have been in your shoes before and its really sucks, well I just ingnore them all becos I know it wasn't my fault but with time they all came to understand and wanted to identify with me.
sweetheart, take heart its just a matter of time everything will be alright
2006-12-20 10:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by jus wanna know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋