why is it that the men i want in my life never feel the same way about me.and the ones i don't really have any interest in are all over me.its really depressing me at the moment.am i not attractive enough.i am a shy person with the opposite sex but i don't know why.i think 'm scared of getting hurt just like i am being hurt at the moment.so why don't men want me?
2006-12-20 02:35:39 · 15 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like somebody always wants what she can't have. So either lower your standards or hold out for what you want.
2006-12-20 02:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lissa,
I used to feel exactly the same way. There is love out there. The best way to "find" the right guy is to stop looking and do something for yourself. Get involved in something that interests you and feed yourself. The right guy will love you because you are emotionally healthy and have a passion for something. Don't think you're not attractive enough - looks don't matter! Go to the mall and watch the people. Count how many not so beautiful people have mates - you'll be surprised!
2006-12-20 10:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by joinme4coffee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, from trees. Remember want never gets. To the guy you like. He sees you as you see the guys that are after you. Play some hard to get do a little flirting. Grease his chain so to speak then run away for a while. Make him interested in you. Then you will have the one you want.
Peace player
2006-12-20 10:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dont love yourself how can anyone else love you???
you say you are not attractive and depressed so first of all forget all the negative things you say about yourself and realise you are unique ---- there will never be another you
and everyone is scared of being rejected at some point so just dont stress over it and go for it ---- there is a man out there for you and you will find each other
best wishes
2006-12-20 10:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would highly recommend Christian Carter's e-book and cd seriese..
There are several topics explored.. about how to attract the man you want, have a meaningful relationship, communication, etc.
I have ordered it and it has helped me so much...
Another resource I also use is CoachRori.com. She is soo sweet. SHe is a dating coach. wonderful!! I love her.
for me, I have learned sooooo much.
anyway, I would suggest you look into these resources and possibly others.
Good luck
2006-12-20 10:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you stop looking many times you find what you are looking for. Maybe you are just going through a rough patch. Get involved with other things rathe than worrying about this. Who knows maybe your "perfect man" will be waiting for you when you least expect it!
2006-12-20 10:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by BlankProfile 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just relax and have a good time. the right guy will find his way to you when you least expect it. for now, go on friendly dates with the guys that like you.
2006-12-20 10:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by wilrycar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go out and have some fun and cut loss u'll find some one
2006-12-20 10:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl it is all about confidence. Do your thing show your interest and it will happen for you.
2006-12-20 10:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by lady bug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop making blatant phallic references to bananas
2006-12-20 10:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by jivesucka 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋