My ex-boyfriend keeps sending me text and asking us to do stuff together.I have thought about doing it once but then i thought of how my current boyfriend would feel and i decided not to.Is it wrong to think that way
2006-12-20 01:21:58 · 18 answers · asked by babes28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-20 01:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong. You should not be entertaining thoughts about your ex when you have a current boyfriend. I would ignore future texts from an ex who clearly is looking for game. Would it be worth losing your current boyfriend if you give in. You need to decide for yourself. Cheating is always asking for pain, misery and disappointment. Do you want that, I would think not.
2006-12-20 01:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to think or have sexual thoughts about your ex-boyfriend -- anything in your head is your personal fantasy and only your private business. However, when it crosses the line into reality, that is when you have disrespected your relationship and your current boyfriend. If you would rather be with your ex-boyfriend, then leave your current boyfriend, or if your current boyfriend is who you really want, then respect him enough to keep thoughts of your ex as just that: thoughts.
2006-12-20 01:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sarrah P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way...would you like it if your boyfriend was receiving texts from his ex and thinking about her in that way? Ex'es need to be put in their place...in the past. That's why they're ex'es. You have a new guy now. Treat him with all the respect he deserves. I can't think of any reason why you'd still be interested in your ex, other than things aren't so rosy with your new guy. You can't have it all, and you wouldn't allow your guy to have it all either. It plays both ways. Decide which guy you want to stay with, then don't let the past interfere...ever. <*)))><
2006-12-20 01:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you care for your current boyfriend then you should not even entertain the thought of messing around with someone else.
2006-12-20 01:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kyleontheweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the shoe were on the other foot, how would you feel if your BF did things with his ex?
I don't think you're wrong for deciding not to "do stuff" with your ex - especially if you're thinking about how that would affect another person (i.e. your BF).
2006-12-20 01:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by lynnsue46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you ended the relationship and your old boyfriend can't get over it - or rationalise it. I think you should say no because your new boyfriend will not understand it and you will only hurt your ex boyfriend more.
2006-12-20 01:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by hugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not wrong to think that way. You are with another person now and they should be the person you like to spend most of your time with.
2006-12-20 01:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right on how you think!!! your ex-boyfriend is not respecting your new b/f or your new relationship.....just keep in mind that if the shoe were on the other foot...how would you like it?
2006-12-20 01:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to think about it I think it's just human nature to think about these things but to act apon them is wrong your ex doesn't care about you he just wants some nookie cuz he ain't getting any. Dont ruin your current relationship for him
2006-12-20 01:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by benny619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex-boyfriend only is interested because you moved on. Only dogs return to their vomit. Don't be a dog and return to what you already spewed out.
2006-12-20 01:25:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋