I have been broken up with my EX for 4 years (I broke it off cause he has a serious cocaine problem, and still does it after 4 years apart)..and I can't stop thinking about him, I think about him first thing in the morning, in the evening before I go to bed..I loved him enough to let him go B/C he's got a serious drug problem..we have a daughter 2gether that he doesn't do anything for.
I haven't had a relationship since I left him and he had one other relationship but when it ended he came running back to me and I wanted him back but said no cause he still has the problem and all he said was..if I get better u might lose me r u willing to risk that and I said for ur health and time for our daughter yes. But what he didn't plan was that he might lose me but I can honestly say he hasn't cause I want him to get well and maybe be a family again..in the mean time why can't I just move on?????? He's getting well supposely in another state but ignores us..is there such a thing as someone
2006-12-20 01:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
transferring there emtions or feelings to someone they care about and?? cause I sometimes when I'm feeling blue he'll cal me and ask me what's wrong and I ask him how did he know and he said he just new..
2006-12-20 01:03:30 · update #1
U guys are great thx...I'm trying to get over him its hard..I still love the guy and I know I did the right thing why doesn't he see that?
2006-12-20 01:10:24 · update #2
hey, you love the man, he prolly loves you in his own way as well. sure sounds like the two of you have a connection tho! wish you all the best of luck, think postive, but live in reality sweetie!
2006-12-20 01:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by whydiduaskthis? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a low self-esteem- that's partly to blame for your feeling of not moving on. You are probably also younger than say, 25.
SO- it sounds like you oughta be VERY CAREFUL that you don't fall into the trap of choosing a new man time after time who has similar problems!!! Like my friend who ALWAYS goes out with the WRONG TYPE of man! Bad news!
WHY OH WHY would you have a child with a guy who was like this I will never know....
2006-12-20 09:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doing the right thing. you seem to have your head on your shoulders very well. you should be very proud of yourself, i dont think that there are many girls out there that could have done what you have.
i was also a single mom for a couple years. you still think about him cause he is the father of your child, and because you said that you have not had a relationship since. what you need is another relationship to get your mind off him, and to show you that you deserve better.
girl, my hats off to you. good luck
2006-12-20 09:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by BigMaMa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are out of your mind. A man without ball like your ex is certainly a disgrace to social. And I don't understand what makes you fall for him and yet in dilemma whether to give him another chance or not. What a crap! Damn hopeless!
2006-12-20 10:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you had the courage to help him through his problem things might have been different.
If you really want to move on you will. But it looks to me like you do not.
2006-12-20 09:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'VE GOT TO MOVE ON FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILD...HE'S NOT WORRIED ABOUT YOU OR YOUR CHILD, CUZ HE'S TO BUSY PUTTING IT UP HIS NOSE..A** OR WHEREVER.......MOVE ON AND GET OVER HIM..
2006-12-20 09:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by justmenothinelse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋